Sexless marriage
Hi I'm 47 male, my wife of 9 years has total loss of libido.
We talk about it........ We are in love with each other, yet she can't bring herself to do the deed.
It's been over a year now...........and I've been doing my best to be patient and support her...........but it's still dead in the water......... yesterday was my birthday n the best I got was a brief rub.
I don't mean to be shallow........ But I don't know how to live with this :(
Does your wife have any mental health issues? That could be what is responsible for her loss of interest in sex. Just a thought.
She does suffer depression.......she has been on the same tablets n dose for over 5 years.
When she spoke to the Dr about this issue, she was told.to reduce the dose for a month and if still no change they would try her on different tablets.
My concern is the 5 years she has been on them.... To th 12 months of no libido?????
Seems like the Dr is missing the point?
what about her diet? does she eat plenty of berries and vegetables and proteins and good oils?
what has turned her on in the past?
sometimes men are too kind and feminine when they are worried bout a depressed wife and the polarity masculine vs feminine goes away... is there a way to spark the masculinity in you? what do you find meaningful? men who do meaningful work are sexy...alos alphamales...like leading a group as ateacher in your free time? what about your diet?
maby socializing more would bring a spark? or maby a sexual therapist would have some answers?
also doing stuff that are new or scary could help like climbing or flying to a sunny resort ( by the way d-vitamine from the sun might help.)
maby doing sports
what did she find sexy inyou when you met?
would being apart for a few nights help?
Try completely utterly forgetting about yourself and instead find out what kind of massage bath or tender loving care she needs and appreciates try being her personal masseuse or tlc care for a week or two of adoration and see if that helps it’s worth a try to let the woman ride the high horse on occasion. Study the Kama sutra and what not for a try
