Saturday nights CW: crisis thoughts
Hello, fellow cupers!
Does anyone else struggle with the weekends? Saturday nights are the worst for me. I tend to get very suicidal thinking about my week and how I have no close connections or family.
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@compassionateGrapes6911
Hi there, friend.
Yes, I too struggle with the weekends. Ever since I was around 16 years old I have. Initially my thought process was that it sucked I was alone and had nothing to do while everyone else was living their lives. I was sitting in my house, rotting away. If this was due to my social anxiety or my inability to make friends- I am not sure. However, I know how bad that feeling can get sometimes.
Truthfully, I always suggest trying to busy yourself up. I understand it may be difficult to do certain things by yourself, but you owe it to yourself to enjoy and explore. Find a new hobby, something that will ignite passion for you. But do not let that little voice or feeling take over you. You are strong. You can do it.
I am just going off what I do and tell myself. I hope this maybe helps a little.
Take care.
Hello. Yes, I feel the same way about weekends! I hate them. Can't get anything important done and I have no social life as I'm devoted to caring for my special needs child. I'm a single parent.
I feel more alone at this time.
@compassionateGrapes6911 this is sad and true! We at 7cups are all a family,don't feel lonely sweet soul 🌼
@compassionateGrapes6911 Hi. I'm in the same situation and feel just as bad on weekends. I don't know how to get out of it. Here's to hoping we find a solution
@compassionateGrapes6911 Yes. I do struggle with Saturday and Sunday nights. I think about the hard week coming up ahead and I get anxious and disturbed.
Weekends are always terrible for me, as I have no significant other or family to go out with. I go alone, and most often I actually talk to no one at all, although I’m in a crowd. I’m invisible. Holidays are worse…..
Saturday rears it's ugly head again 😱
How are my fellow weekend haters doing? I'm bored and lonely.
I always think everyone else is out having a good time when in reality many peopel are bored and lonely just like me