Online Affair/Marriage Advice
I do not know how to fix my marriage. I went out of town and he gave himself a hall pass. Drank excess... smoked.. sexted an old fling.
He is apologetic. He is starting counseling. He is trying to be better. He says he needed an escape from the stresses of being a father and husband etc. I'm not excusing it but I have some understanding.
We are both committed to trying to fix our family but its hard to see the end results when youre in the beginning stages.
How do you not think of the cheating constantly? What has worked to heal your relationships?
@randomuser3457
you chose to believe or NOT ....... if he was drunk / smoked i am assuming something other then cigarettes ..... he feels stress being a husband and father........ did he tell you he was stressed before ?
have you spoke about telling each other when you are stressed or feeling lost.......have you ever felt like this is not what you thought it would be like ? what are you BOTH doing to fill whatever he was hoping the *** was going to solve.
i know some feel online chatting or *** is cheating and in a way it is sharing with someone but not like a real way of cheating.