A man’s perspective on marriage
Looking to get a man’s perspective on marriage and trust. I’ve never been unfaithful but I have been through a lot in my life. I have a very hard shell and it’s difficult for me to open up. My husband tells me I’m not supportive enough, nurturing enough. I think I try to fill these needs but her can’t really communicate what is helpful. Can anyone describe something that have helped them feel closer to their spouse. Feeling stuck.
@Blondeandhound25
Hello. I believe it is hard to tell without relating to any details, because both men's and women's expectations may greatly vary from one person to another.
As for the jealousy issues, for me that would be important that my partner does not go too far with a physical touch with other men or showing them too much admiration, what can make your partner compared in an unfair way. But somehow I suppose those are not relatable to you?
On the other hand, it must be important to learn what is your partner's "language of love" he understands the most. For some people it can be hugging or kissing, for some other it can be buying small gifts or flowers, for some others being not late and remembering promises given.
I think that some men also might have too unrealistic expectations about female partners sharing their rather male hobbies or interests.