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orangeTriangle4803 August 10th, 2022

Missing my mother. She passed many years a go but I still feel it sometimes like she was just here. Life is so strange not having parent around as get older. Like you both miss the good part where you can communicate as adults and not just as a kid to a parent. Just feeling sad about it today. 😞

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Happy900 August 10th, 2022

@orangeTriangle4803 So very sorry for your loss.

Hold on to the memories.

Spend as much time as you can, with the people you love.

Because you never know, when there time will come.

I can relate some to your grief, as well.

I lost my brother to cancer in Sept of 2013.

I miss him still.

I spent all the time that I could with him.

So that was a good thing.

It gets easier, but the loss, will always be there.

It takes as long as it takes for you to grieve.

There is no set timetable as to when the grief subsides.

So please give yourself time to morn, grieve and heal.

You will heal in time.

So please give yourself time to heal.

Did I heal from the pain?

Yes I did, but it took time.

Am I 100% over the pain of the loss?

No, but I am a lot better, then I was days after, my brothers Trigger Warning: death.

Again I am very sorry for your loss.

I hope this is somewhat helpful.

Side Note: If you want some emotional support please reach out to our many listeners here at 7cups.

They can offer some emotional support.

Also, at 7cups, we have support rooms, where the members support other members or they come looking for support. So I just wanted to let you know.



optimisticSail1475 August 10th, 2022

@orangeTriangle4803

Hay I het it my dad passed away 2 weeks ago 😒

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Happy900 August 23rd, 2022

@optimisticSail1475 So very sorry for your loss.

I truly am.

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turqoiseOrange7980 August 10th, 2022

So sorry for your loss. Memories are all we have after losing a loved one.. Hope you get some comfort from fond memories and good times spent with her.

I lost my mother to cancer three months ago.

Hugs πŸ’›

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Happy900 August 23rd, 2022

@turqoiseOrange7980 So very sorry for your loss.

I truly am.

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Psalm139 August 10th, 2022

@orangeTriangle4803 Hey. I understand how you are feeling. My mom died when I was 16. I'm almost 40 now and I still miss her a lot and wish she was here πŸ’™

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Happy900 August 23rd, 2022

@Psalm139 So very sorry for your loss.

I truly am.

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intuitiveWriter1887 August 23rd, 2022

@orangeTriangle4803

I am very sorry for your loss. Words fail in instances like these.

Thinking of you and all those who are grieving today.

Aleenz0803 June 17th, 2023

@orangeTriangle4803 i am so sorry for your loss, we all are here to support you, you are brave and its allowed to miss our loved loved ones <3

luckykj10 June 20th, 2023

@orangeTriangle4803

Im so sorry for your loss 😞 You're allowed to grieve and feel upset about an experience as upsetting and heartbreaking as this. I know its hard sometimes, but try thinking about good memories that you and your mom had, grief is a process but everything will be ok in the end!