DAE have zero friends
I am late 20s and have ZERO friends. My family do not like me. I get bullied at work. Everyone thinks that I'm weird and boring.
What's the point of life. I have no interest in traveling, I have no social skills, and I'm not even taken seriously in the workplace. I feel like I have no purpose. I've never been in a relationship. I spend almost all my time alone.
Can anyone else relate
I can't totally relate but I do feel lonely even when there are people around. Don't be too harsh on yourself... everything happens for a good reason is the mantra I keep saying to myself to make me relaxed . Every person is unique, you be you.
@bestTalker9406
I agree, but it’s hard to keep being myself when everyone dislikes me for who I am. I try to people-please too much and it backfires. I come across as annoying. I feel like an alien
Same here, I people please a lot too... feels like we keep begging and get nothing in return. It's been 4 months and I'm trying to accept situations...it's really tough and I'm sure it will take a lot of time and maybe I will still feel lonely, I don't know but let's live in the present...eat your favourite food, watch a show, dance even if you don't know how to, paint, read anything...I know it takes great strength to pull yourself everyday...but that's what we gotta do, have faith in oneself...give what you want to give to people but you should always be your first priority. If they don't like you, don't worry, you like yourself....I know this might not help currently but I believe a few kind words do go a long way.
I will pray for you to be happy.
@mkatta
I see you
@mkatta you're welcome to talk to me
@mkatta
I can relate to some of what you’re going through but I'm in my thirties, So I understand how tough loneliness and feeling undervalued can be. It really can make you question everything.
@BlueSoul2290
@BlueSoul2290 I have volunteered at numerous places and worked at “meaningful” jobs. But I struggle to form connections with people. I even got bullied at my last jobs. And they were at a hospital and then at a church diocese!! So these are supposed to be helpful and non-judgemental people.
@mkatta
i would like to help u u can connect with me in social media
I can't entirely relate. but yeah, I feel you. I had a toxic terrible relationship I wish never happened. I have some friends, yeah, but I still feel lonely among them. I imagine that you might feel worthless or something like that based on what you're writing, I'm really sorry for that. I'd gladly listen to you if you'd like to vent/talk to someone new.
Luca
@mkatta I read all. You just described me. I know the stress and the loneliness feeling. But trust yourself you deserve to live a fully happy life just be kind and strong.
@mkatta I can absolutely relate
hey girlie, I can absolutely relate with you and I understand how agonising daily life feels, because I'm going through the same thing and life feels of no point, but girlie, you need to remember, you're here, you're breathing, even if you don't see it right now, you do have a purpose and the very presence of you on this earth, it definitely means something. i understand how hard it is to love yourself when you feel like nobody loves you, but, you can't control the fact that people don't love you, but here's a good news, what you can control is that you love yourself, it won't be an easy process but you can absolutely achieve it girlie, and you know, being alone, doing things alone and loving yourself might seem scary, but here's a good news, people who have achieved this, are the most powerful people in the world and everybody are afraid of lone wolfs, don't ever give up on yourself girlie, you are the one with you till the end and keep working on yourself, for you! and the person you wanna make proud one day, YOU!!
Hi DAE, i can relate you very well. I would like to be your friend.