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I'm so hopeless, I don't know what to do
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you're all doing well, anyone reading this. It's my first post here so I'm a little anxious. I would like to share a little of how I feel. I won't share much of my personal information, but I am a girl. I'm in my second semester of college, and so far I'm doing very well. The thing is, about 5 years ago I started to develop low self-esteem. But it's something I was able to control. But over time, everything got worse. I looked for support from my friends and other people and those things. Everything was going well. But about 4-5 months ago I started to suffer from something similar to anhedonia. My life has always been one of constant stress because of the fear of disappointing my parents with my grades. I developed gastritis at an early age.Well, getting back to the topic of my supposed anhedonia, I feel weird. I'm being honest. I feel bad and very weird.Before, (I mean about a year),I was a very compassionate and emotional person. I spent a lot of time playing my favorite video games and characters, enjoying my hobbies and spending time with my friends. A lot.I have always been a good student, daughter, and daugther. I was passionate about mysterious things and magical, medieval vibes.I had a talent. Yes, I did. I loved drawing since I was little. I have an art account on ***, but I haven't posted anything there for a month.I feel hopeless. For a couple of years now I guess I really was suffering from depression. Nothing matters to me. I stopped talking to many friends. I have a void in my chest. I can't cry the way I'd like to. I've never been completely happy for long in my life. I'm always going from here to there. I've always felt like I'm weird. I'm not happy with myself. The last few months have been about getting through my day to day life. I have a music playlist. I loved that music and it made me feel things and feel good, wanting to fight for my passions. But now I don't feel anything. I listen to them and I don't feel anything. I've been looking into this a lot and I think it's "emotional burnout". But I'm not interested. I don't want to go outside. I miss how I used to feel. With my tastes and my passions and the things I loved. I used to have a lot of projects with my art and stuff like that. I've tried to convince myself that I'm supposed to grow up. But adults are also happy and feel things, right? I guess I've ruined my life with my pessimism. I'll never feel anything again, I think.All my pleasures for which I fought three years are not worth it.I have been looking for new interests in case you are wondering. Yes, this year I discovered a sport that I love and that did not affect my other interests. But now I no longer feel that spark when I watch my favorite sports. I can't really talk to my parents for help right now because they are in a difficult situation with their jobs. And I can't get a therapist at the moment... I miss my video games, talking to my friends, enjoying my art and my favorite characters.I miss my emotions. I miss being sentimental.. I miss everything. And I blame myself every day.. it's hard to cope with all this.. for all these years.. All these four years of holding on and thinking that the next day will be better. All those nights I cried because I wished I wasn't here.All these years doubting everything. I've been miserable.I'm the oldest sister, so I don't want my little brother to go through what I've been going through. My chest hurts. I feel lost. I feel bad.I don't care about myself. I miss everything. That's all.I don't feel well enough to give more details. I'm sorry if you read all this and thank you for reading it. Thank you for your patience and your valuable time.I would appreciate if anyone could leave a comment if they could. Just wanted to share this. Thanks and have a nice day.
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Reflecting on 2024
Looking back, it’s not just about the big milestones but also the small victories and the ways we’ve grown. Gratitude for the journey doesn’t mean every moment was perfect; it means recognizing the value in each experience and the strength it took to get here. Join Us in reflecting!
@imaginativeWest3273
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45 minutes ago
I Want Friends
...See more Please can someone talk to me I have been feeling very lonely and its making me sad a lot I don't know what to say to people to get their attention but I guess I'll just keep trying I just want to really get involved here you know. Thanks, Chris.
@Tinywhisper11
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9 minutes ago
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Woohoo! It's finally here *rolls around screaming with excitment* 😁 merry Christmas everybody ❤❤❤ happy holidays🎈🎈🎈
@SoulfullyAButterfly
7 Cups Online Therapy
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2 hours ago
Day 21: Grateful for the Journey: Reflecting on 2024
...See more Every year brings a mix of highs and lows, lessons learned, and memories made. While some moments may have challenged us, others reminded us of the beauty and joy life has to offer. Looking back, it’s not just about the big milestones but also the small victories and the ways we’ve grown. Gratitude for the journey doesn’t mean every moment was perfect; it means recognizing the value in each experience and the strength it took to get here. Finding Gratitude in the Year Gone By 2024 may have brought new opportunities, deepened relationships, or moments of personal growth. It might also have presented obstacles that required resilience and courage. Gratitude allows us to honor both - the triumphs and the struggles - acknowledging that each played a role in shaping who we are today. As you reflect on this year, think about the moments that made you smile, the people who stood by you, and the lessons that helped you grow. These reflections can remind us to celebrate not just the destination, but the journey itself. Looking Forward with Gratitude Gratitude for the past helps us step into the new year with clarity and hope. By appreciating what 2024 has taught us, we can carry those lessons forward and embrace what lies ahead with open hearts and minds. Reflective Questions * What are some moments from 2024 that you’re most grateful for, and why? * What challenges did you face this year, and how did they contribute to your personal growth? * As you look toward 2025, what lessons or habits from this year do you want to carry forward? Let’s take this time to share our reflections and gratitude for the journey of 2024. Whether it was a year of growth, healing, or new beginnings, every step was part of your unique path. This post is part of the 25 Days of Gratitude, Self-Care, and Personal Growth event at 7 Cups! Learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/therapy/General_2432/Day125DaysofGratitudeSelfCareandPersonalGrowthfor2024_341520/]
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Lessons from the Past Year
Change often brings with it valuable lessons and a chance to grow in ways we never imagined. Share your lessons here
@rationalBunny1918
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2 hours ago
Need friends
Hello. My communication skills are bad. I wanna have friends with whom i can develop it and also we can make our lives better by discussing things. I wish you all the best in your life.
@PoliteOcean
Healthy Living
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3 hours ago
Weekly Healthy Living Check-In December 21st, 2024
...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN DECEMBER 21st, 2024 HEY EVERYONE~ *WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN"~ 🎄🎁🎅 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! 🎄Hey Everyone~ Welcome to the weekend~ How has your week been going, & what is something that you are looking forwards to this weekend ahead? 🎁This is our "THIRD" Check-in for the Month of "DECEMBER", & CHRISTMAS is almost upon us~.... How are you feeling, & are you coping with any last minute Holiday stressors?... How are you taking care of yourself during this time in a "Healthy Way"? ... And what are your Hopes or Plans as we enter the Holiday week ahead? 🎅As We get ready to enter the last 'full' week of December, & ponder on the New year ahead,  What do you feel is something that has changed for you & your life for the "Better" this year? 🎄JUST FOR FUN:.. Name "One" Christmas (Holiday Word, Song, OR.. Movie) beginning with the FIRST LETTER of your "7cups" Name! ... (Mine is "Poinsettia")~ .....   F [https://www.7cups.com/forum/healthyliving/AnnouncementsIcebreakersFun_2561/HealthyLivingsHolidayIcebreakerFun121824_342623/]OR MORE CHRISTMAS/HOLIDAY ICEBREAKER FUN CLICK HERE!: [https://www.7cups.com/forum/healthyliving/AnnouncementsIcebreakersFun_2561/HealthyLivingsHolidayIcebreakerFun121824_342623/] 🎁What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?.... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 🎅What is something that "YOU" want to Talk about, Add or Share with us this week?... WE want to hear from YOU~   Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Regmo @purpleTree4652 @InsightfulPhoenix @nordurnStar @KateDoskocilova @KatePersephone @SirenOfSerenity @Rebekahwriter13 @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727  @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045  @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @WayJay @orangeHuman868 @lilCatNamedVenus @cal1860 **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US