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Relationship Stress Community: Check-In (Nov 18 - 24)

Relationship Stress / by KatePersephone

16 minutes ago

...See more Hello there, Relationship Stress Community! I hope you're all enjoying the last few weeks of November. To start off this week… * How are you feeling today? * What is your favorite fall comfort food? * This or that! Cinnamon rolls or snickerdoodles? Excited to hear from all of you! Have a great week ahead <3 ------------------------- Are you new to the Relationship Stress community? Introduce yourself here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/CommunitySpace_1256/NewtotheRelationshipStressCommunityIntroduceyourselfhere_164924/]! Do you want to be the first to get updates on discussions and events? Consider joining the taglist [https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/CommunitySpace_1256/RelationshipStressAutomatedTaglist_222210/]! Do you want to be updated on the weekly discussions in the Relationship Support Room? Subscribe to this thread [https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/CommunitySpace_1256/RelationshipStressGroupSupportSessionsSchedule_316598/]! 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Icebreakers and Games / by Tinywhisper11

22 minutes ago

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General Support / by snooks08

30 minutes ago

...See more I’ve never done this before and I was a little hesitant to do this. I typed out a whole paragraph yesterday to post but stopped myself after rethinking. I’ve been struggling a lot and I just don’t know how to handle it anymore. I’ll start off by saying I lost my very close friend. She dropped me basically because of my mental health. It hurt and I was upset but it didn’t last long because the day after, my cousin died. Her viewing was today. I saw her and she looked beautiful but I could tell it just wasn’t her. I’m heartbroken over this and I don’t know how to help myself. Ive also been struggling with relationship issues. I have someone Im talking to, but I struggle with trust because my last relationship was life threatening. The guy I talk to now makes dark jokes and I take things like that seriously since what happened. They scare me. I told him and he stopped which is good and I don’t know why I can’t get over it. He’s a great guy and helps me. I ended up in the hospital over that relationship. I don’t wanna end up like that again. I’m starting to feel like that everyday and it makes me more anxious thinking about how I may become that way again. I never wanna feel like that again. Today was the viewing of my cousin and it was so hard. I felt like I had to go see her since Ive only saw her once since she was 2 months old. I told her bye and it was just one of the worst things Ive had to experience. Ive worked really hard to devote my life to God and since this Ive just felt distant from him. He was my only comfort and it hurts that as of now I can’t comfort myself in his words. I really just want to find a reason for this happening but I can’t. I feel so terrible for my uncle and aunt. Today, even though it probably wasn’t a good idea, I told my dad about my relationship because I wanted to get everything off my chest. He was angry and didn’t support it. He was gonna take me out of school and take my phone. I cant lose another person. Even though he says things that scare me, he’s helped me so much through this hard time. I’ve already lost so much I can’t lose anymore. I feel myself losing hope in life. I also have to go back in person to school. I went online due to some issues in the past. I have to go back soon and I’m very anxious. When I went online I noticed a lot of my friends becoming distant. So I feel alone in the sense of having someone to talk to. I just try to distract myself but I end up thinking about everything that has happened and I get anxious and honestly the feeling is unbearable. I don’t know how I’m gonna deal with this feeling everyday. I just hope someone can help or talk to me on here. I don’t know what else to do because my mom knows everything and is there for me but I still feel hopeless.

I'm f* alone for life

Self-Esteem / by exhaustedmind1

35 minutes ago

Thanksgiving Trivia Challenge! Let us know you made it through the quiz by posting here!

Group Support / by ASilentObserver

41 minutes ago

Sad Day

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42 minutes ago

Song recommendations

Music & Dance / by Andy82

43 minutes ago

How to deal with other peoples feelings?

Relationship Stress / by needlenelly

47 minutes ago

So tired, feel like crying and scared,

Depression Support / by ShellyZz

49 minutes ago

...See more Warning post contains graphic words, violence and more. My brother and I were homeschooled. My brother since kindergarden, I after finishing 3rd grade. Unfortunately my moms homeschooling idea was to just leave us to figure out everything ourselves. My brother has a lot of anger from this. Me? I think I do but mostly I just feel exhasted when thinking about it. He recently found out a surgery he needs isn't covered by insurance. So his depression has worsten. He said he wants to kill the people who made homeschooling legal. Why? Because it screwed us. He did get his GED but the only jobs he can find are manual labor since everything else needs a collage degree. Which he feels it is to late to go for now. (passed his twenties but not in fourties) The way he kept saying he wants to kill them to make consequences to show how bad homeschooling screwed his life up, scared me. I really don't know what to do. He has talked about suicide before and brought it up again saying his life is over anyway. He can't run anymore and can't afford the surgery. I can barely even help myself. And don't know how to help him. He is finally in therapy but the anger in his voice. I love him so much and just don't want him doing anything stupid. He lives with other family members right now and not in the same state as me. The therapist suggested getting a lawyer for disability and to sue his work place since his injury appeared there. But his work place said it happened during his personal time. I hate not knowing how to help him. My own therapist once told me I need to just let him go. Great now I'm crying. I feel so bad for him. He was such a bright, energy given child. He is still very smart but won't or can't figure out how to use it for his own good. I'm not sure if I should contact who he stays with or not. Its hard for me to tell if he is being serious or blowing off steam. As that is how he always used to blow off steam. Feel free to ask any questions and I'll try to answer them. I won't give exact age/location for safety reasons. I'm just so tired of failing to help him.

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