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@livbinny
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17 minutes ago
When painkiller isn’t pain-killer
...See more well guys how on earth I’m supposed to have or get relief when it doesn’t work 100% how I guess 🥺😭 and the waiting window for next it’s not that easy I can only take one at time due to being tiny☹️💓 this is crushing 🥺 and my stomach isn’t happy either its more like sad, my mind is empty, missing space of love n care n cheering but this is sad its been hour 😟 and I can still feel it through it’s so not fair…
@tryingtosurvive2024
Hobby Zone
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1 hour ago
This little Dog's Name was Tabu.
@Tinywhisper11 Looking at these old pictures brings back memories. I remember working on this model airplane, and Tabu was alive and well in those days. 01 02 03 04
@Heera72
Healthy Living
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2 hours ago
Body Image
...See more  In this generation, where everything is about social media and has become public, the younger generation especially has shaped their thoughts of body image based on societal influences. Such societal influences are primarily unrealistic and have influenced people to have standard looks rather than emphasizing on accepting themselves for how they are, has led to some people suffering from eating disorders.  It is important to love ourselves for who we are, even with our flaws, and accept our bodies without needing to look like everyone or have the standards of beauty portrayed. https://yourmentalhealthpal.com/thinspo-and-its-effect-on-mental-health/
@Slayer22
Hobby Zone
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19 minutes ago
Is anyone else interested in manga and anime in here?
Whats your top 5 manga and 5 anime? I start My fav anime Berserk (old one) Monster Full metal alchemist Baki the grappler Akira My top 5 manga is pretty much same
@PoliteOcean
Healthy Living
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2 hours ago
Weekly Healthy Living Check-In January 18th, 2025
...See more WEEKLY HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN January 18th, 2025 HEY EVERYONE~ *WELCOME To Our End of the week "WEEKLY" HEALTHY LIVING CHECK-IN~ ⭐🎈💪 ⭐️If you aren't a member yet Please "JOIN" the Healthy Living Community Here!! [https://www.7cups.com/home/healthyliving/] ⭐️FEEL FREE TO ANSWER ANY OR ALL QUESTIONS! Or Simply tell us about yourself and how you've been doing! Feel free to share or Vent about your week~ We are here to listen! ⭐Hey Everyone, Welcome to the weekend~... How are things going for you today?!... How has the past week gone for you overall? 🎈This is our "Third" Check-in for JANUARY ~.... We are officially Half-way through the Month~... In continuing with the Theme of "January Self Care Month", How did you take care of yourself this week?!.... What do you feel is the "One" absolute "Feel-good" thing that you either already do, OR, could do more of, that would cover yourself overall Mentally, Emotionally, & Physically?!....  (TAKE PART IN THE JANUARY SELF-CARE CHALLENGE CLICK HERE [https://www.7cups.com/forum/healthyliving/AnnouncementsIcebreakersFun_2561/WellnessWednesday1825JanuarySelfcareChallenge_344087/])... 💪 In looking forwards ahead, as we move through 2025, What is something that you could Or would like to, "Simplify" for yourself, in your life, Or, in your goals ahead this year?!.... And what has been One Simple Rule for your life that you continue to follow for yourself that you feel has been tried & true for you? ⭐JUST FOR FUN:.. When cooking or making food for yourself, What is your #1 "I put that (Blank) on Everything ingredient?! (I'll start: Mine is Ketchup)~  🎈What were your "Highlights Or Struggles" of the week?.... How were you able to work through your challenges?! 💪What is something that "YOU" want to Talk about, Add or Share with us this week?... WE want to hear from YOU~ Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @vivelespatates @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @vivelespatates @Regmo @purpleTree4652 @InsightfulPhoenix @nordurnStar @KateDoskocilova @KatePersephone @SirenOfSerenity @Rebekahwriter13 @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987  @AffyAvo @Bre4Me  @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022  @GoldenNest2727  @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @BestMaple2045  @determinedNest6866 @HipsterChic @DestinyM2026 @charmingSky597 @GreenFairie @WayJay @orangeHuman868 @lilCatNamedVenus @cal1860 **AND ANY & ALL "NEWBIES" THAT WOULD LIKE TO SHARE WITH US
@Nikitaxyz
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2 hours ago
Hello! :)
Just got started as a listener this week
@DogAndButterfly7777
35 & Over Community
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2 hours ago
Silent Treatment
...See more I just broke up with a man who had a habit of using the silent treatment against me whenever we had a disagreement. This would go on and on until I essentially got on my hands and knees to beg for forgiveness (even during times when I did nothing to cause upset).  This last time was due to him canceling our plans last minute. I was already en route to his house, but he didn't care. He demanded I not come over. I turned around and drove back home. For reference, his house is 40 minutes away from me.  I texted him to say how hurt I felt by his words and actions. No response. I decided to give him space, and didn't contact for several days. After a few days, I decided to check in and simply gave a text saying, "Hey just checking in to see how you're doing. I'm sorry if I upset you in any way the other night, that was not my intention." Again, I was apologizing when there was nothing for me to apologize for. He canceled plans. He was cold and nasty, saying don't come over. I simply gave in.  That text also got no response, so after about 7 hours I had enough. He had used the silent treatment for the last time. I told him that I felt he was weaponizing the silent treatment and that was a form of emotional abuse. I was tired of it and told him to stop abusing me. Didn't matter to him. I was ignored again. Whats worse is that I owe him money for helping me the previous month with a car issue. I told him I'd pay him back, and have begun to do so. I sent a cashiers check via certified mail and notified him via text and email (email with the transaction and tracking numbers). Again, no response. I'm at a total loss. I tried so hard in the relationship to make things work. We were together for a total of 9 months. Most of that time, yes, he weaponized the silent treatment. I glossed over it by focusing on the fact that he would cook for me, take me to dinner, take me on trips and buy expensive things for me. I thought, "He must care! He's doing all this nice stuff for me when he could just leave me." I was so deep in love I didn't care about the negative. It isn't so easy for me to move on because I invested a lot of time and emotions on the relationship. I gave him my heart. And instead of focusing on myself, I'm worried about the fact that he's moved on already or was cheating on me, which makes me feel worse. I feel like a fool. The worst part of all is that we work together. Not all the time, but every once in awhile. I have to work with him in 2 weeks and it gives me so much anxiety.  I just don't know how to process all of this and move on. Especially without closure. He's a grown, middle-aged man and can't even have the common decency to break things off. That's the lowest of low in my eyes. 
@khloemarie999
Positivity & Gratitude
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3 hours ago
What does self-love mean to you?
...See more Self-love to me means having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness. Self-love means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others. Genuine self-love and self-acceptance feel like embracing who you are, flaws and all. It's about treating yourself with kindness, recognizing your worth, and not being too hard on yourself during tough times. It means setting boundaries, recognizing your needs, and prioritizing your well-being without guilt.  Self-love is really about self-knowledge. If you knew who and what you are, it would be impossible not to love yourself. The more you understand yourself, the more you'll love yourself. And the more you love yourself, the more you'll love others. Rediscover the amazing person!  “Be the love you never received.”