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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

SpacedOutSun
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Currently not taking new requests/messages , taking a mental break. Life is so short, so delicate. Where will we be tomorrow when our day ends and we shut our eyes and try to move on from the hardships of our current day. Time always seem so fast when we look back though, and yet day by day we want the day to finish as quick as possible but it feels slow. Years and months feel quick, weeks and days feel slow. Feeling stuck in a pattern with no growth is just not worth it. We live all our lives and feel like we haven't scratched the surface of what there is out there. So tell me, would you like to request me? Maybe take that first step of finding out whats out there together with me? Maybe we can leave our mark on the world. Together, because friend. You are not alone. 
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girlwillingtosupportppl
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Hi!!:) I am here to listen to your issues. or just have a chat if you are dealing with loneliness. You also need to know that I'm Christian and I love Jesus. So if you have any issues with your faith, you are more than welcome as I have passed and still dealing with many struggles as a Christian that I have become almost an expert on it ;)  PD. Jesus Loves YOU SO MUCH!!
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KellinHills2
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Hey! You can call me Nico. I love music, literature, hockey and travelling. I'm here to lend an ear if you need it :) I won't judge you, you set the pace of the conversation! If you need anything, just message me! 
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raciqii
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let the light in 
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chisax
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Hi there! I am a lot of things when it comes to labels, but in reality, I am just someone who loves to listen. I’ll do my best to lend an ear if needed :)
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LinaMTT96
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My name is Lina and I speak English and Spanish.  I moved to another country six years ago and I have been by myself overcoming every type of obstacle that life has put my way ever since.  I love to help others as well as listen and contribute in a positive way to other people’s  life. I love nothing more than making people feel comfortable around me and coming to me to discuss difficult things, I always want to make others feel like I’m their safe space to decompress and talk. 
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seaoceanhorsegirl
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Hello, my name is Emma. I love the colors pink and purple. I ride horses, love going for hikes and dancing.  Sorry I don't help with anything below. They are, ●Addiction ●Adoption/Foster Care ●Alcohol/Drug Abuse● ●Bipolar  ●Borderline (BPD)  ●Breakups  ●Bullying● ●Cancer  ●Chronic Pain● ●Diabetes  ●Disabilities  ●Dissociative Disorders  ●Domestic Violence ●General Mental Health● ●Grief  ●LGBTQ+ Issues  ●Loneliness  ●Managing Emotions ●Men's Issues  ●Obsessive Compulsive Disorder ●Parenting  ●Perinatal Mood Disorder  ●Personality Disorder  ●PTSD ●Racial & Cultural Identity  ●Recovery  ●Relationship Stress  ●Schizophrenia ●Sexual Health
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Estrellita2024
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Hi my name is Rita. I live in Mexico. I am 45 years old. My hobby is to watch romatic movies. I am not a very talkative person, I prefer to listen, but I do like to give advice and encourage people to know that better times will come  and everything has a process. I would like to have the opportutity to learn from others.
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tardigrade1016
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Hello, lovely people of Earth :)  I'm Shannon, and I want to be your ear today and for as long as you need it. A little about me:  I'm a 23-year old graduate student of UCLA, whom studied Biology & Psychology and my dream is to become a physician & professional musician. Mental health has always been something very dear to my heart as my dad suffers from anxiety and I too struggled with anxiety. I am understanding and patient and know that I will put my heart and soul into being there to support you as I know what it feels like to be at your lowest point and feel like no one is there. Overall, I hope chatting with me feels like you're drinking a warm cup of tea (or coffee) in a warm cottage while letting your heart free of what is bothering you...and after that cup I hope you feel nothing but warmth, hope and support. Can't wait to meet you.  With Love, Shannon :)
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mejohndoe
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Hi! Just want you to know that you are not alone out there. I am eager to listen your story and share my time with you. Feel free to start a conversation.
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Advaita777
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Hello souls 🌹 It's a wavy journey... life. Highs and lows. Sunshines and flowers, chocolates and pets. Sandwiches and calm breezes, trees and deep breaths. Yet this little head of ours can become a pretty-not-so-good mess at times. It can get absurdly negative and energy taxing. Courage is the antidote. Always.  May you find peace and courage for whatever you're struggling with, and I'd try my best to help you with it.  Sending you virtual hugs, a lots of unconditional stranger love and positive vibes ...🌻 🤍 
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Cpcoleman1WSU
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Hi!  I’m Conner, a verified 6+ year veteran listener here on 7Cups! Safe to say, I think you'll be in good hands! I have 29 years of life under my belt and after the unfortunate end of a 7 year relationship with a young lady with a lot of trauma in her past I’ve about seen it all. I also sadly know what it's like to be cheated on. To help you better, please try and read as much of this as you can :) Help me help you!    I'd say that relationship and breakup support is probably my best specialty, along with college life. Dating, Jesus, pregnancy (including loss), sexual assaults, college life, and breakups are all things I'm happy to talk with you about! Please keep those in mind when personally requesting me; anything outside of those specialties I can try and help with but you may find better results with a different listener. I'm sadly not a psychologist nor psychiatrist, and won't be able to help much with any severe mental health-related issues.  Per 7Cups rules “I am obligated to make a crisis referral for active suicidal thoughts and behaviors.”   Interpret that as you will. More than happy to chat about life and hopefully get you feeling better. I'd hate for a beautiful person like you to choose a permanent option to a temporary problem! We have great resources here to help with that kinda stuff.   I am religious, so if you'd like to talk about Jesus feel free to reach out; if not let me know too.  I’m active fairly often both on PC and mobile so feel free to reach out! If I'm online, feel free to chat. That means things are slow.  If I'm busy, that can mean one of 2 things: 1st: I am literally busy and likely multitasking between 7Cups and my daily life. 2nd: I hit my request cap-I'll usually take about 5 requests then flip from Online to Busy so I can give them the attention they need. Feel free to message me anyway and I'll see if I can fit you into my workload  Expect 5-10 minute delays in replies. I'm likely literally busy, or with other members. If I'm offline, I'm either asleep, or just offline in general.  ->BUT, fear not :) Send me a message and if I'm not too busy I'm more than happy to talk with you   Other important things to know: -This is NOT a fetish chat. We can talk about intimacy-related issues, but it can't and won't go any further. -7Cups system is the one that asks you for a review of me so soon; not me. I'm not being greedy! Reviews greatly help though and I appreciate the kind words  -"Hearting" my comments helps me know when I'm helping you; feel free to use the button  -I'm on Arizona Standard time.  -Good English and grammar preferred too please... it makes it much easier for me to help you :P -Feel free to check out my song of the day  I post a new one each day I'm online!    Oh and Go Cougs!    
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