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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Theotus00
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We're all living in each other's paranoia.
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Shadowmoonmoon
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Hello! Do you know the story about the Russian cosmonaut? So, the cosmonaut, he's the first man ever to go into space. He goes up in this big spaceship, but the only habitable part of it's very small. So the cosmonaut's in there, and he's got this portal window, and he's looking out of it, and he sees the curvature of the Earth for the first time. He's lost in that moment. And all of a sudden this strange ticking... begins coming out of the dashboard.Takes out his tools. Trying to find the sound, trying to stop the sound. But he can't find it. He can't stop it. It keeps going. Few hours into this, begins to feel like torture. A few days go by with this sound, and he knows that this ... small ... sound...will break him. He'll lose his mind. What's he gonna do? He's up in space, alone, in a space closet. He's got 25 days left to go... with this sound. So the cosmonaut decides... the only way to save his sanity... is to fall in love with this sound. So he closes his eyes... and he goes into his imagination, and then he opens them. He doesn't hear ticking any more. He hears music. And he spends the remainder of his time...sailing through space in total bliss... and peace.
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TheCuriospher
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Welcome to My Listener Profile on 7 Cups!   “There is a false saying: ‘How can someone who can't save himself save others?’ Supposing I have the key to your chains, why should your lock and my lock be the same?” ~Friedrich Nietzsche Hello! I'm Joseph, a compassionate listener dedicated to offering a space where you can express yourself freely and feel genuinely heard. With a Bachelor’s degree in psychology and a deep personal understanding of the impact of being seen and heard, I am here to support you through your challenges and growth.   About Me My journey into listening was inspired by transformative experiences in therapy, where I first felt truly understood. These experiences, combined with my educational background in psychology, have equipped me with a compassionate and empathetic approach. I aim to provide not just an ear, but a sanctuary for open and honest expression.   My Listening Philosophy ”Listening is an art of understanding and respecting the other’s experiences. My style integrates radical acceptance with empathy, maintaining a balance of professionalism and light-heartedness. I am here not to fix, but to understand and support. Inspired by Nietzsche, I believe that every individual’s emotional landscape is unique, and I tailor my approach to fit your needs.”   Roles and Responsibilities on 7 Cups * Active Listener * 7 Cups Sustaining User Training and Certifications * Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology, 2023 Coursework In: * Abnormal Psychology * Developmental Psychology * Cognitive Psychology * General Psychology Completed 7 Cups Training In: * Anxiety * College Life * Cultural Diversity * Loneliness 7 Cups Certificates: * Active Listening (200+ Hours)   Listening Focus Areas: * ADHD * Anxiety * Autism Spectrum * Breakups * Depression * Forgiveness * General Mental Health * Getting Unstuck * Grief * Loneliness * Managing Emotions * Men's Issues * Relationship Stress * Self-Esteem * Self-Harm * Spirituality * Student Life   Topics I Prefer Not to Discuss: * Bipolar Disorder * Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) * Eating Disorders * PTSD * Obsessive-Compulsive Disorders * Parenting * Perinatal Mood Disorder * Personality Disorders * Racial & Cultural Identity * Recovery * Schizophrenia * Weight Management * Women's Issues   Engagement in the Community: I actively participate in community discussions and workshops aimed at improving listening skills and enhancing the supportive environment of 7 Cups.   What You Can Expect from a Session with Me: * A warm and understanding environment * Tailored support based on your needs * Confidential and respectful handling of your concerns   A Little More About Me Outside of 7 Cups, I indulge in photography and writing, which are my outlets for creativity and expression. These hobbies help me stay grounded and connected to the world around me. Passionate about self-help and spirituality, I believe in the power of personal growth and resilience.   Availability I strive to be available for listening sessions as often as possible. Please feel free to send a message to schedule a session that fits within your time zone and availability. I am typically more available during evenings and weekends, Pacific Time.   Let’s Connect If you’re seeking a compassionate listener who respects your story and offers a safe space to discuss your thoughts and feelings, please reach out. Whether you need a one-time conversation or ongoing support, I am here to listen and support you on your journey towards wellness.   Status: 🟢 Green (Online and ready to chat): response time is 30-60 seconds. 🟠 Orange (Online but may be slower to respond): response time is 30-60 minutes. 🔴 Red (Offline but feel free to leave a message): response time is 24-48 hours.   Final Note Thank you for considering me as your listener. Whether you choose to reach out or not, I wish you strength and peace on your mental health journey.   Resources: * Cuddles [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/cuddle] * How to Leave a Review for a Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/FeatureUpdates_2525/TwoSimpleStepstoSubmittheListenerReview_315363/] * Peer Appreciation [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] * Here's Me! [https://ibb.co/album/ymzvq3] * Some of My Artwork [https://ibb.co/album/hXhXP1] * Some of My Photography (TRIGGER WARNING: Self-Harm) [https://ibb.co/album/9HjzRN]  
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positiveNarwhal4786
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Hi! I’m here for you and hope that I can help you feel better! :)
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wavesofgrace2310
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I am here because I believe we should not have to suffer alone. I count it as a privilege and an honor to listen to people, in all their beauty and brokenness.
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Icarus5498
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I am a male in my early forties equipped to discuss a variety of issues that can make life challenging. My approach to listening is active and collaborative.  In order to be respectful of each other’s time and improve the likelihood that I will be a good match for you, please consider the following: As a listener here, the rules of the site prevent me from giving advice. My objective is for you to feel heard, to help you sort out your own thoughts, and to offer whatever perspective I can. Please do not ask me for advice or get upset when I decline to give it. If you do request a chat, please be both available and prepared for a real-time conversation to discuss what is bothering you. Please also let me know when you need to leave rather than just disappear. Excessive gaps in the conversation or randomly vanishing for the day will make it less likely I will reply to you in the future.   I prefer that my limited time here is spent being as helpful as possible. If you are mostly interested in a casual chat, you will probably be better off with a different listener. I do not consider it my role as the listener to provide the discussion topic or entertain you when you’re bored. I am available to chat when my status shows as Online (green dot). If you wish to message me at other times, and we are new to each other, please introduce yourself and give me an idea of how you want me to help. Offline messages that consist of just hello/hi are less likely to receive a response. Please do not randomly message me asking if I’m around when my status is showing as offline. Thank you for taking this into consideration. If this sounds workable for you, feel free to reach out. I look forward to hearing from you.  
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Aurelius2110
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I just enjoy listening to people and hopefully assist them in the best way possible :)
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cinbaz111
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I’m a teen that is right in the trenches with you and I am here to provide any support I can to you. I have strong problem solving skills and I can come up with solutions that can fit your needs.
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Reyophine11
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Hello! I'm glad you found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people with depression, anxiety, panic attacks, spirituality, and managing emotions. I enjoy writing, acting, and listening to others talking about their stories. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. Glad you are here!
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jovialMermaid84
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Healing is a passion of mine, as it's what I do in my daily work. I believe emotional pieces need to be address the body, mind and soul to be truly healed. Emotional trauma/distress can manifest in our body as pain. Many times, all it takes is the awareness and acknowledgement of the issue for our body/mind to come out of pain. I hope to help serve you in healing of whatever it is you are having worries with. In my spare time I love to be in nature, play, travel, study emotional distress, nutrition, healing and holistic medicine, practice yoga, meditate and most importantly, relax! About you Lakota Code of Ethics: Rise with the sun to pray. Pray alone. Pray often. The Great Spirit will listen, if you only speak. Be tolerant of those who are lost on their path. Ignorance, conceit, anger, jealousy and greed stem from a lost soul. Pray that they will find guidance. Search for yourself, by yourself. Do not allow others to make your path for you. It is your road, and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you. Treat the guests in your home with much consideration. Serve them the best food, give them the best bed, and treat them with respect and honor. Do not take what is not yours, whether from a person, a community, the wilderness or a culture. It was neither earned nor given. It is not yours. Respect all things that are placed upon this earth, whether they be people or plants. Honor other people’s thoughts, wishes and words. Never interrupt another or mock or rudely mimic them. Allow each person the right to personal expression. Never speak of others in a bad way. The negative energy that you put out into the universe will multiply when it returns to you. All persons make mistakes. And all mistakes can be forgiven. Bad thoughts cause illness of the mind, body and spirit . Practice optimism. Nature is not for us, it is a part of us. Things in nature are part of your worldly family. Children are the seeds of our future. Plant love in their hearts and water them with wisdom and life’s lessons. When they are grown, give them space to grow. Avoid hurting the hearts of others. The poison of your pain will return to you. Be truthful at all times. Honesty is the test of one’s will within this universe. Keep yourself balanced. Your mental self, spiritual self, emotional self, and physical self all need to be strong, pure and healthy. Work out the body to strengthen the mind. Grow rich in spirit to cure emotional ails. Make conscious decisions as to who you will be and how you will react. Be responsible for your own actions. Respect the privacy and personal space of others. Do not touch the personal property of others, especially sacred and religious objects. This is forbidden. Be true to yourself first. You cannot nurture and help others if you cannot nurture and help yourself first. Respect others’ religious beliefs. Do not force your belief on others. Share your good fortune with others. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ May the sun bring you new energy by day May the moon softly restore you by night May the rain wash away your worries May the breeze blow new strength into your being May you walk gently through the world And know its beauty All the days of your life! - Apache Prayer "Heal yourself mijita, with sunlight and moonbeams. With the sound of the river and waterfall. With the roar of the sea and the flutter of birds. Heal yourself mijita, with mint leaves and herb, with neem and eucalyptus. Sweeten up with lavender, rosemary, and chamomile. Snuggle up with cocoa and a hint of cinnamon. Put love in tea instead of sugar and sip it while looking at the stars. Heal yourself, my little one, with the kisses from the wind and hugs from the rain. Strengthen yourself with feet bare on the earth and with all that comes from her. Become smarter every day by listening to your intuition, and looking at the world with the small eye in the center of your forehead. Jump, dance, and sing to have a happier life. Heal yourself, mijita, with beautiful love, and always remember... you are the medicine." — Ale Padilla of the FB page, Mujeres Luna Sagrada (Note: this poem has been incorrectly attributed to Maria Sabina) Shared with Public
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honeyhani
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Ready to listen
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sweetRose1322
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Hello! My name is Rose. Through my personal experiences, I have found that having someone to talk to has helped me overcome difficult moments in my life. I want to be that person that others can talk to. I feel that I am most comfortable about talking about teenage, high school, and college life.
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