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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

truecurt
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I am a thoughtful person and husband, working remotely in tech. I have a dog and a cat. I believe in people's human-ness and feel a strong urge to explore ways to engage that piece within others. I hope to help.
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cheerfulWindow5228
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bouncySpace84
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Hello. I love listening, and helping people. Ive been though a lot. Including, self harm troubles. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here to listen :) <3.
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Sweeterbeach79
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Hey! You found me. My name is Ashley I am here to listen and help any way I can. I have battled my own personal  struggles so I understand how hard it can be to just get out of bed some days but I'm here to do anything i can to make things better even if its just a friend. 
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TheCatArtist
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A nerdy, autistic, mid-30s Southern enby (she/they) with a bad back that strives to create a safe space for venting and comfort, who will listen without judgment but will also tell it to you straight and sometimes uses swears. My schedule will be somewhat sporatic due to work, but I am usually NOT available on Tuesdays. Chat sessions usually last around 30-60 minutes.  Very few topics bother me, as long as you're respectful. I like: art/drawing, reading/listening to audiobooks, Good Omens, Our Flags Means Death, Supernatural, Centaurworld, rock music, animal bones, and small versions of things.
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MirthfulMao
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★彡[ɪɴᴛʀᴏᴅᴜᴄᴛɪᴏɴ]彡★ Hello friends, how has life been treating you lately?🌻 When you send a message📨, please feel free to introduce yourself, provide what topic you would like to discuss, and (optional), what goals would you like to achieve regarding the selected topic.  ❌ As a listener, I cannot offer advise, so I recommend you check out our Community and request advised there. Thank you for your understanding. 🙏 Motto: “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” ― Bernard M. Baruch Goal: The goal is to provide you with support in a no-judgement zone and to be a part of your journey in healing, achieving, and turning your life around to however you wish for it to be. Chat Sessions: I am available between 10-20mins at a time to listen to a chat. I will let you know in the beginning as you message me and provide gentle reminders. ☺️ I am also currently open to long-term listening. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ꧁༒☬𝓠𝓾𝓲𝓬𝓴 𝓕𝓪𝓬𝓽𝓼☬༒꧂ * I'm a domestic abuse survivor & single parent who escaped (formerly alcoholic) abusive ex fiancé. * Went through another heartbreak after ex and landed in a toxic relationship that last close to a year that ended in being ghosted. 💔 * Used to have severe anxiety & panic attacks back during my college years, it lessened up over the times. 😰 * Depression is currently on and off, have coping methods for that. 😞 * Am mixed-race, parents from different countries. Dealt with a lot racism in the past & with culture identity issues. 🌐 * I'm an atheist, so would not be useful for religious/spiritual talks, apologies. ⚛️ * Bisexual but not part of LGBTQ+ community, I do my own thing. 💙💜💗 Thank you for reading & I hope you have a wonderful day!!
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calmHorizon321
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<3 Welcome everyone <3 * I would be grateful for you to call me River (They/Them) I am 17 years old and I will always do my best to listen and support you. My dream is to be a professional therapist, specifically a teen therapist. This website has the ability for me to be a listener for free and help a wide spread of people that use this platform. * I joined this website as a member a time ago, I was going through a rough time and I found some amazing people that were able to help me. I still have some things that need to be figured out and helped with but I got the support and strength to spread the kindness that I got on here. Helping others and knowing I have helped even a small bit, helps my mental health so much. I may be young, and to some, you may not want to share your struggles to someone who is still in high school and I completely understand that. To those who want to take a chance and open up with me, I am here for you, I will listen to you, and I will support you. It's truly an honor for me to help others feel accepted and loved. I may not be able to relate to your struggles, but I understand the pain of suffering alone. I am here to tell you, that you are NOT alone, I will do my best to answer as fast as I can, once I can, I will be there for you if no one in your life has. * Topics I am not comfortable with discussing (They may be triggering towards me or make me uncomfortable due to my lack of knowledge) * : *  Relationship stress or breakups * Cancer * Disabilities * Financial stress * Women's/Men's Issues * Racial & Cultural Identity * Relationship stress * Schizophrenia * Sexual Health * Spirituality * I don't allow inappropriate behavior/conversation. After three warnings you will be blocked. So please keep this in mind and behave appropriately and respect my boundaries. * I will be available during 9am to 11pm MST (You can text between those times and I will reply as fast as I can)  
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adorablePalm2583
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wannatalkaboutit
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** I will be taking a hiatus for around 2-3 weeks for mental health, see y'all soon!**  Hey y'all! I'm crystal, a chill and positive person that wants to help you out and support you. I know how it feels to be alone, and I'm here for you and ready to listen to whatever you have to say. I am also a verified listener on here and a fun and friendly neurodivergent bisexual ;]  And I really do love talking to yall, you make my day worth it. While I can't solve your problems or fix your pain, I will be there for you every step of the way. I have personal experience with ADHD, LGBTQIA+, racism and POC issues, mental health struggles, and eating disorders.  she/they (shoutout to all the closeted and questioning peeps!)  I am not comfortable discussing these topics at all (please don't pm asking why :] )  - sex: incidents relating to sexual trauma, sexual health, or sexual issues - self-harm -Eating disorders -weight management or exercise         "100 bad days make 100 good stories" - AJR  
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FAEZ3H
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It’s you but in blue
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Yrfriendlyneighbourhoodlistener
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Hey! I am your friendly neighbourhood listener! (spiderman reference). I'm here to hopefully provide you with a judgement-free zone and a safe space that allows you to conversate about whatever your heart desires. I have gone through various hardships in myself so I know how hard it is going through things alone, which is why i hope to be there for you in showing you that you aren't alone!  
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Cpcoleman1WSU
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Hi!  I’m Conner, a verified 6+ year veteran listener here on 7Cups! Safe to say, I think you'll be in good hands! I have 29 years of life under my belt and after the unfortunate end of a 7 year relationship with a young lady with a lot of trauma in her past I’ve about seen it all. I also sadly know what it's like to be cheated on. To help you better, please try and read as much of this as you can :) Help me help you!    I'd say that relationship and breakup support is probably my best specialty, along with college life. Dating, Jesus, pregnancy (including loss), sexual assaults, college life, and breakups are all things I'm happy to talk with you about! Please keep those in mind when personally requesting me; anything outside of those specialties I can try and help with but you may find better results with a different listener. I'm sadly not a psychologist nor psychiatrist, and won't be able to help much with any severe mental health-related issues.  Per 7Cups rules “I am obligated to make a crisis referral for active suicidal thoughts and behaviors.”   Interpret that as you will. More than happy to chat about life and hopefully get you feeling better. I'd hate for a beautiful person like you to choose a permanent option to a temporary problem! We have great resources here to help with that kinda stuff.   I am religious, so if you'd like to talk about Jesus feel free to reach out; if not let me know too.  I’m active fairly often both on PC and mobile so feel free to reach out! If I'm online, feel free to chat. That means things are slow.  If I'm busy, that can mean one of 2 things: 1st: I am literally busy and likely multitasking between 7Cups and my daily life. 2nd: I hit my request cap-I'll usually take about 5 requests then flip from Online to Busy so I can give them the attention they need. Feel free to message me anyway and I'll see if I can fit you into my workload  Expect 5-10 minute delays in replies. I'm likely literally busy, or with other members. If I'm offline, I'm either asleep, or just offline in general.  ->BUT, fear not :) Send me a message and if I'm not too busy I'm more than happy to talk with you   Other important things to know: -This is NOT a fetish chat. We can talk about intimacy-related issues, but it can't and won't go any further. -7Cups system is the one that asks you for a review of me so soon; not me. I'm not being greedy! Reviews greatly help though and I appreciate the kind words  -"Hearting" my comments helps me know when I'm helping you; feel free to use the button  -I'm on Arizona Standard time.  -Good English and grammar preferred too please... it makes it much easier for me to help you :P -Feel free to check out my song of the day  I post a new one each day I'm online!    Oh and Go Cougs!    
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