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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

melissa0mochi
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You are not alone. 
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WavesandSea
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[happy to talk to you 40 min-1 hour and I can't offer long term support at this time] *you won’t know, but dream* "...The nineteenth century dislike of Realism is the rage of Caliban seeing his own face in a glass. The nineteenth century dislike of Romanticism is the rage of Caliban not seeing his own face in a glass..." Oscar Wilde. The Picture of Dorian Gray, Preface. Being and Time, Martin Heidegger: https://archive.org/details/beingtime00heid/page/116/mode/2up?view=theater Allow yourself. ✨L'chaim.     To Life. Fun and Jazz? Django Reinhardt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lGAi1Bjarik [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lGAi1Bjarik]
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giggleWinter576
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A psychology graduate who would like to pursue a career in counselling psychology. I really would like to take my skills gained from academia to support individuals with their mental health to make a positive impact on individuals wellbeing.
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CourtzJadeXOXO
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I am a 24 year old mum to two sons. I have been through loads of different things in my life so can give support on a wide range of issues that I have gone through myself. I am very understanding, sympathetic and a really good listener but I can also say it how it is if you want someone that is upfront and abrupt too.
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youronlinesafespacewithamy
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Hello a warm welcome to my profile. My name is Amy and I am a new listener here at 7 cups. I myself have ASD (Autism) ADHD and OCD myself so I can put myself in your shoes. I also have 10+ years worth of personal experience combining of being a full time carer and working at a care home so I can relate to the struggles that come from both of these situations. Currently I am studying all about ASD which will make me qualified upon completion and also training for aspects of all common situations that you may experience so I can help support and guide you in the best possible way. My purpose and passion is to help provide you with a safe none judgemental space. Reaching out is the first brave step to your journey and I can’t wait to help guide you along that.Nobody should go through difficult times on their own. My aim is to work with you empathetically to go from shame and blame to self compassion.  NOTICE: If there comes a time where you do want to re schedule another chat with myself you’re more than welcome to leave me a message. Please note I have an availability icon which states if I’m on or offline. If I am online and I don’t reply it’s most likely because I’m chatting with another member. I will try and respond to your message within 1-3 days! Thank you and I look forward to chatting with you again,Amy
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sallysalmon5555
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hi im sally :) as dedicated listener, i believe in creating a safe space for everyone to share their experiences. i’m here to provide support, understanding, and encouragement as we navigate through challenges together. If you see me online, don’t hesitate to start a chat! If I’m offline, feel free to message me, and we can arrange a time to connect. I’m here and looking forward to our conversation!!
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lucy2
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Hello my friends, Apologies to those members whose chats I was unable to take, I was ill for sometime but I am back now and happy to take your chats <3 You can leave me a message and I will get back to you asap<3 I am so pleased you have found me on 7cups of Tea! My roles on 7cups I am the Community Mentor Leader for General Support. (Previously) Adult / Teen Listener Needs reply team (Previously) Door Keeper Global Moderator I'm a trained Teen and Adult Listener  and I look forward to supporting you. I hope you will feel comforted knowing there is someone here who understands your needs and worries and I look forward to chatting with you. If my status is shown as offline or busy, please message me and I will get back to you asap or please Browse Listeners here to chat with another Listener, thank you! Need to Talk to Someone? - 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Chat soon Lucy2 <3
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RarelyCharlie
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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BryanM9999
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HI.  I might have only been on 7Cups for a relatively short amount of time but I have gotten an enormous amount of value out of it and wanted to put a bit back.  I have been in professional life for nearly 30 years and have experienced a wide variety of work-based challenges.  I enjoy everything from culture, travel, gardening and city life through to spending time with my friends and family.   I have had some experience in recent times with anxiety and stress and have, as I said, gotten a great deal of help from 7Cups and I hope you do too.
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kindSmiles16
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  **Not currently taking chats** Hi! I'm really glad you're here. If you just need someone to vent to or talk things over then please just send me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as possible. And even if it feels like nobody cares, that's not true, I do. I'm here for you whenever you need it.
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Kieran000
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Hey thanks for checking out my profile, I’ve been on this site since the very start of 2019.  I do a lot of work inside 7 cups, but also keep in mind I have lots of work outside 7 cups. I do volunteering on the side of work & study and have experience in many different settings but can’t go further into it. (Not a doctor etc and I can’t give any professional advice on here) My involvement with 7 Cups Group Support Mentor Leader (Retired Currently)  I previously managed the communication and supported the implementation of community feedback relating to group support via bi-weekly community meetings and liaising directly with the admin of the group support domain. I was also tasked with recruiting new chatroom moderators and mentors, and helping them in their role as a wider responsibility of my mentor leader position. Global Chatroom Moderator (Current) I am a moderator in all of the group support rooms, meaning I assist to keep the rooms welcoming, safe and appropriate. I’m also part of the trauma support leadership team, and am specifically a moderator on the leadership team there as well, which I also host discussions for as well as a discussion leader.  Group Support Mentor (Current) I assist with the welcoming of new chatroom moderators and room supporters regardless of their chosen communities that they’re specifically supporting.  Listener Chatroom Mentor (Returning After Long Break)  I used to provide support to the listener support rooms as well, as mentor and moderator. Helping to keep the chats supportive and I was tasked with assisting with questions from listeners, as well as chat support and peer support.  Adult-Teen Listener (Current) I have been approved through an interview to support both, teen and adult members and listeners.  Quality Mentor (Current) I support listeners with their quality of listening by providing feedback, mock chats, and long-term mentorship.  Doorkeeper (Current) I have the ability to access the Chatroom Management panel where I can open and close all the 100+ listener and member chat rooms. If you’d like a room open in order to host a discussion you have scheduled please do feel free to send a message.  Chat Supporter (Current) I support the answering of chat related questions whilst listeners are actively taking part in member support chats, without breaking any confidentiality. I also help those who have been impacted negatively by a member chat.  Safety Team Outreach Member (Current) I reach out to users whose profiles have been flagged as violating the community guidelines, providing a chance for them to correct it before any further action is taken.  Community Mentor Leader (Retired) I used to manage the Newbie Hub sub-community where it was my role to onboard and support new community leaders, as well as manage discussion scheduling and supporting existing leaders too.  Anonymous Evaluator (Retired) I used to anonymously evaluate listeners by posing as a member (authorised) to get information on their quality of listening and then report back to admins.  Support Team Leader (Covered within GSM position) I previously co-led the Support Room 24/7 Coverage project which aimed to provide quality listening support to those in both teen and adult Support Room 24/7. This project was successful for a few months and then it was no longer operational, hopefully can get it back around with more support to continue it in event of leader(s) going on break.  Academy Mentor (Retired) I used to assist students of the Internship and Leadership Development Program with keeping track of their progress and supporting with any questions or concerns.  If you are a member reading this, I am not available for 1-1 support chats. You will be able to find me usually in any of the member group support rooms. I am always open to questions as messages, so feel free if it’s that otherwise I will not be able to respond. *I may go online to take chats at my own discretion, if I have the green dot next to profile picture, I have chosen to accept and will take the chat* I am not acting in a professional capacity here nor can I provide you crisis support on 7 Cups My likely response schedule (UK time) Monday: 8:00-11:00, 18:00-23:00  Tuesday: 8:00-11:00, 19:00-23:00  Wednesday: 21:00-23:00 Thursday: 8:00-23:00  Friday: 8:00-12:00  Saturday: 11:00-18:00  Sunday: 11:00-23:00  I’d say I’m most experienced with supporting people experiencing issues with the following topics: (The number of *’s indicate the amount of personal experience with the issue, and the familiarity with it) Self-Harm (Historic & Post-Recovery Journey, Addiction) *****  Break-ups, Relationship and Family Stress ***** Sexual Violence / Abuse ***** Grief (Parental, Sibling, Friends, Medical Vicarious Grief) ***** Anxiety (Generalised, Social and Trauma-Related Anxiety) **** Student Life **** Depression **** Work Stress **** Domestic Violence / Abuse *** Addiction (Self-Harm, Drugs, Alcohol) *** Self-Esteem *** Bullying *** Loneliness ** Managing Emotions ** Cancer * Schizophrenia * → Just some awesome people from my journey of cupsing who I’ve near enough known forever here 😛❤️ @Aimee198 (RIP, I miss you, especially the *hair flicks* and 😛’ing sooo much 💛💛💛) @AlwaysForYou197 (RIP as well you loved sharing your poems with me and I wish you still could 🥺❤️❤️❤️) @EmmaE @Azalea98 @mxmes @LoveLilly @Gracey @ASilentObserver @Suryansh @Rebekah @ListeningSarinn @Anna706 @Sia1325 @lueurspace @emotionalTalker2260 @HopieRemi @Jenna @Amy @Hope @JessHobson @Angelx28 @TayTayy @ALovelyFriend @VicK5123 @Anna706 @Sunisshingandsoareyou @optimisticMagic0014 @enchantedlove @Mishi3015 @cuteOrange213 @fujitheflowerboy @Ines1229 @ThoughtfulNarwhal3963 @shiningSky3745 @Dajia215 @niceTruth1478 @bookworm274 @KristenHR @ItssssMJ @fairyava and moreee Some links relating to me that you might like (Clickable below) Kieran’s Appreciation Corner [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gldd/AppreciationCorner_2202/KieransGroupAppreciationCorner_234229/] Kieran’s GLDD Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gldd/FunCorner_2236/DinnerWithOurAlumnikieran000_248266/] Kieran’s Self-Care Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/addiction/GeneralAddictionSupport_725/ATalkOnSelfCareWithKieran000_277292/] Kieran’s Living-with-Leaders Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/LivingwithLeaders_2290/Beingthebest_276987/]
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WareWithAll
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Need an understanding ear to listen without judgement and to help you brain storm solutions? Welcome to 7 Cups today,  I'm glad you're here, let's talk :)
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