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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Ivy229
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*Currently Not Taking Any New Member Chat Requests, Unless I Initiate The Chat. Only Available To Take Listener Requests For Peer Support And Related Matters*  To Find Available Listeners Check Out The Following Link: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]  Currently online listeners will have a green dot, but please read their profile first to ensure they are taking new chats, support the topic you are interested in talking about, and another important information. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Additionally, you are able to join the chat request queue, and the next available listener will accept your chat request as soon as possible. Check Out The Following Link:   Connect Now | 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/connect/] ------------------------- About Me: Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or another. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible. ------------------------- *I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service please do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different. *I am able to do offline chats as well as live chats through scheduled chats, and inquiring if I am able to talk outside of that set time when my status is online.  *My time zone is EST. Here is a Time Zone Converter https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 (Please Note Eastern Time is New York Time when you are using the converter) ------------------------- Current Roles @7 Cups - Verified Listener  -Group Support Leader (Room Supporter) Depression Support Room  (As of May 13, 2024) -Peer Supporter (As of May 21, 2024) -Safety Patrol (As of June 16, 2024) -Listener Chatroom Supporter (As of September 18, 2024) Academy Programs I Have Graduated From: - 7 Cups Leadership Development Program (LDP) with Honors    (June 23, 2024) - 7 Cups Quality Listener Program (QLP) with Honors (August 2, 2024) - 7 Cups Internship Program with Honors (Student Track)  (November 19, 2024) I have successful Completed:  -ALL 4 Active Listening Training Guides -ALL Currently Offered Training Guides -ALL Peer Trainings 1-12  (Peer Pro) - Community Building Course   (June 7, 2023) - Time Management Course   (May 10, 2023) -Inner Development Goals Course  (May 25, 2024)
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Hello, welcome. I’m Mya. If you’re needing urgent help and I’m unavailable, reach out to another listener and they will do their best to support you. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ If you're worried whether you can talk about a specific topic with me: I will let you know if it's something I feel uncomfortable with. Otherwise, you're okay. I'm here for you. If you’re coming to me for support with sex related topics - I’m here to help and support you, not just to chat about sex. If this happens I will direct you to the focus of the conversation, if it happens again you get a warning. Beyond that, you’ll get blocked, and I don’t want to do that, so please be mindful of this. Thank you 💜 
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Elise849
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**not taking casual chats** Hey there! I will do my best to provide support and/or insight, whichever is wanted or needed! Just drop me a message if you want to talk :)  ------------ policies: 1. due to reasons, i will only be accepting members who are ready and open to help themselves. this doesn't mean that you have to agree with me 100% of the time, only that you have to be open to thinking deeply about your situation. 2. i am not taking any new offline chats (aka if you leave me a text when i'm offline and we have no previous record of chatting.) 3. full respect, I do not accept requests to talk about (as main themes): - politics - lgbtq+ - sexual health - alcohol and smoking issues - incest, friends with benefits and taboo relationships - infidelity, relationships involving infidelity or suspicions of infidelity ------------ ✨no the cat in my profile pic is not mine✨ ✨judgement free zone ;D✨  ✨if you try to be sexual i can and will block you immediately :D cheers!✨ You're very welcome to leave a review or simply let me know how you felt the chat went. Teamwork makes the dream work! ;)   pronouns: she/her --------   Quotes: (cuz i can, so i will :D)   "Everything you ever wanted is on the other side of fear." - George Addair   ---   "Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." - Nelson Mandela   ---   "And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation." - Khalil Gibran   ---   "How lucky we are to be loved, even for a moment." - Barbara Hamby   ---   "This is my last message to you: in sorrow, choose happiness." - Fyodor Dostoevsky, adapted   ---   "Facing it--always facing it-- that's the way to get through." - Jospeh Conrad, Typhoon   ---   "When you are on your way looking for a life, don't forget to live." - Mahmoud Darwish   ---   "People at war with themselves will always cause collateral damage to the lives of those around them." - John Green   ---   "In the struggle you end up learning." - Jean Luc Godard, Masculin-Feminin   ---   "For a star to be born, there is one thing that must happen: a gaseous nebula must collapse. So collapse. Crumble. This is not your destruction. This is your birth." - Zoe Skylar   ---   "Your now is not your forever." - John Green, Turtles All The Way Down   ---   "Mostly it is loss that teaches us the worth of things." - Arthur Schopenhauer, The Wisdom of Life   ---   "You are trying to close that door because you're scared. But you won't always be scared." - I Origins   ---   "We can't change the past. What we can do is choose how we move forward." - The Way Back --- "Everything you love is very likely to be lost, but in the end, love will return in a different way." - Franz Kafka --- "We are all of us alone to be sure. What can we do but hold our hand out in the dark?" - Ursula K. Le Guin   ✨Keep going guys! Cheering for you! Airdropping you lots of love and light! :D ✨
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HopieRemi
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor. I do accept chats on Fridays and Saturdays, if it is a topic I support. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours?
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Derek777
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I'm a 55 year old male with life experience in the categories listed. I truly care about the people I talk to and absolutely want to help. If that is ok with you then great. If it's not, that's ok too and there are other great listeners available to help you.
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MintSage
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Olá! Sou uma pessoa que gosta de ajudar os outros e acredito que todos merecem alguém que ouça com atenção e empatia. Decidi me tornar ouvinte porque quero oferecer suporte a quem precisa e contribuir para um ambiente mais acolhedor e solidário. Sou uma pessoa paciente e compreensiva, e acredito que posso ajudar a tornar os momentos mais difíceis mais leves para aqueles que buscam apoio. Estou aqui para ouvir e oferecer uma conversa atenta, e espero que possamos encontrar juntos formas de enfrentar desafios e encontrar soluções.
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StarlitCove
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This is your safe space, free of judgement, here you may scream or cry or rage or whisper softly of all that troubles you, but i hope that when you leave, you may leave with a light heart. ​​​​ (I dont listen to relationship/sexual issues. For that I'd recommend finding another listener. Inappropriate chats, bullies and trolls will be reported and blocked)
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urtakabootar1996
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Just a 27 year old guy here to help and listen.
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JaseByTheSea
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Hi I’m Jase if you’d like to chat please message me and I’ll get back to you asap even if I’m offline I check my messages regularly. I live on the south coast of England, with my son and 🐶 I was diagnosed with ASD (autism) when I was 40, also have OCD and recently been diagnosed with ADHD, I have experienced Sleep paralysis throughout my life. I’ve completed a mental health awareness qualification, and have also taken neurodevelopment disorder qualifications, as well as a counselling one also. I have struggled with anxiety all my life but am now in a position, where I feel I’m ready to help others, who are struggling with similar issues. I consider myself to be a kind and decent person, and I just want to help other people, who just may need someone to talk with.  I’m often told that I’m a good listener, which is what has bought me to 7cups, as I feel I have something to give which may help others. I don’t have lived experience with eating disorders or Schizophrenia but I’m happy to listen to anyone that struggles with these issues, and I’ll always do my best to be there for someone that needs a listener. 
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Graham Barrone

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Counselor, ICHP, MCBT
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Believing in and supporting you wholeheartedly, we cultivate gentle awareness for responsibility in thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Together, we foster growth, improve your
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Fostermykittens
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I am no Guru by any means, but I am a good listener. That's enough about me, let's talk about You.
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9teacups
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Salam everyone, 👋🏻 Hello ☺️😊 Am a T(h)inker who spent almost no day without a cup of tea 🍵 and writing aphorisms 🍂 A bit witty and sarcastic, bear with it. I mean no harm. That’s just may blunt way to offer you some different point of view. 😉 In daily life, i always trying to treat people the way i wanna be treated. But as a listener here, i would try to treat people they way the need. 🤍 Light is easy to love, show me your darkness~ I am a proud and practising muslim. I can tell that im religious and spiritual person. Eventho im still faaaaaar away to be called pious 😔😢 I’ve been learn about the other Abrahamic beliefs, and other beliefs as Hinduism, Buddist, Satanic, and Orisha. So feel free to drop a text if you are interested. ⚠️ For LGBTQIA+ I could only talk to intersex and people in asexual spectrums. A part of demisexual gang 🙂🙃😄 📛❌ Don't talk to me about sexual stuff‼️ ❌📛 ⚠️⚠️⚠️ Only allowing long-term members with the issues that I've mentioned below ⬇️⬇️⬇️
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calmingDreamer8084
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Here to listen and help whoever is in need .. 100% judgement free. -No relationship Issues please. ـ بتكلم عربي -Hablo español. -Falo português.
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