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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Kait
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☺️Hello friend!! ☺️ I'm so happy you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.  🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿  I'm a 27 year old verified active listener and I love talking with and supporting people who are in need of a non-judgmental & friendly chat. I've been on 7cups for a while now and enjoy the work we do together. Life has a habit of throwing us a few curveballs and sometimes we just need someone to talk to. My approach to active listening centers community, mindfulness, and gratitude, because these are my core values as a listener & as a person in mental health recovery myself.  Please note: I am a volunteer listener, not a mental health professional. Therefore, if you are experiencing a crisis, such as suicidal thoughts or self harm thoughts, please see the 7cups crisis resource page, which can be found here- https://www.7cups.com/crisis/ About chatting with me: I am a part of the LGBTQ community and enjoy taking chats regarding LGBTQ topics. I also have personal experience with topics such as anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationships and codependency (as well as non monogamous/polyamorous relationships), borderline personality, OCD, PTSD, women's issues, spirituality & religion, chronic pain and physical disabilities, and self harm. I accept a variety of chats both within these issues and outside of these issues and have education in social work.  Please note that I do not offer chats related to details about sex. My chats are typically 30 minutes, sometimes up to 1 hour in length & are offered on an ad-hoc basis. I unfortunately cannot off reliable, on-going chats (I do no offer long term listening). I might offer a follow up chat or two, and/or brief ongoing check-ins as my capacity allows, but these are not guaranteed 😊 About Me:  ✨✨✨✨✨✨ In my free time I enjoy painting, playing board games, spending time in nature, stargazing, and volunteering. I also love to dance, swim, read, spend time at the library, swim, and painting. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and I hope we can connect soon!
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Lilacdreams00
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You have to believe in yourself when no one else does
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peacefulTree
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Hello! My name is Paul. I'm here to give a kind ear to people who are going through difficulties in life. So if you need someone to listen to you, you are welcome to contact me.
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prismaticlotus
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please send a brief message about the topic you would like to chat about when reaching out, thank you 
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aCalmOasis
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Connection,  Compassion,  Community When we connect, we can heal.  I am here to listen, you are not alone, you have a friend.❤️ I am open to taking chats regarding most topics, except for chats about Sexual Health matters. Thank you for understanding. I am a 7 cups internship honors graduate, a forum moderator for the ADHD community, and an Internship mentor 😊 Drop me a message and I will put on some tea!  My time zone is CET  P.S I love cats, nature, reading, music, cooking, travel and art. 😻🌳📚🎵🍕🗽🎨
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Juul
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Welcome to 7Cups! My name is Julia and I can be your listener.   I'll try to help you by sharing my personal experiences and providing a safe space where you can share your story.  I'd really appreciate it if you'd leave a review after our session! We can have one session or talk daily/weekly/monthly. Things might seem dark right now, but I promise, there's light at the end of the tunnel!  Love, Julia
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HopeAura
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I am dedicated to offering empathetic support and helping others navigate their challenges.
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Jenna
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Hello and welcome! I'm glad you’ve reached out. Life can feel overwhelming at times, and having someone to listen without judgment can make a difference. Whether you're feeling lost, anxious, or simply need a space to share your thoughts, I’m here to support you. I aim to create a safe, empathetic environment where you can feel heard and understood. We all battle things, and thankfully we don't have to do it alone even if it's just someone on the other side of the screen offering support. ------------------------- Topics I support Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Grief, LGBTQ+ PTSD/Trauma(Sexual Abuse/Assault), Terminal Illness ------------------------- What to expect I focus on being a compassionate listener, asking thoughtful questions, and helping you process your emotions. My goal is to help you feel lighter by the end of our conversation. I believe in the power of kindness, honesty, and mutual respect in every chat. My chats are 1 hour long and I support repeating members once a week. Feel free to reach out when you're ready to talk. Let's walk this journey together, one step at a time. ------------------------- Online - This indicates I am available to support you. Busy - This indicates that I am online, but I am already in a chat or not able to reply right away. Offline - This indicates that I am not online or taking chats at the moment. ------------------------- Twin Brian AnnaSilverberg Listener Quintuplets blithesun94, coolvibes, Kristynsmama, Teagan, vivelespatates
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LittleBirdie30
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I am not currently taking any chats. Please reach out to another Listener at this time. Thank you. Hello! My name is Birdie! Thank you for visiting my profile! I am happy you are here!  Listener Twin: @ChillingRain 💛 My roles include:  -Chatroom Moderator -Care Team Lead Team Leader -Peer Supporter -Safety Patrol Team -Adult and Teen Quality Mentor -Quality Ambassador Please do not hesitate to reach out to me with any questions! I am here for you!  *I am not online during the weekends, so I will do my best to get back to you during the week. Thank you!* National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 & Crisis Text Line: 741-741 A list of international hotlines: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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Ivy229
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*Currently Not Taking Any New Member Chat Requests, Unless I Initiate The Chat. Only Available To Take Listener Requests For Peer Support And Related Matters*  To Find Available Listeners Check Out The Following Link: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]  Currently online listeners will have a green dot, but please read their profile first to ensure they are taking new chats, support the topic you are interested in talking about, and another important information. [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Additionally, you are able to join the chat request queue, and the next available listener will accept your chat request as soon as possible. Check Out The Following Link:   Connect Now | 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/connect/] ------------------------- About Me: Full-time university student majoring in Human Services with a concentration in Direct Service and double minor in Psychology and Medical Social Sciences INFJ (Myers-Briggs Personality Type) Hobbies: Listening to music, traveling, spending time with loved ones, cooking, learning, volunteering, drawing, the beach, amusement parks Since a young age I have been very passionate about giving back and helping others. I truly believe one of my biggest purposes in life is to try to do whatever I can in my lifetime to help improve the lives of others and try to leave some sort of lasting positive impression on the world Favorite Quotes/Mottos I Live By:   "Just When the Caterpillar Thought the World Was Over, It Became a Butterfly", "Where Words Fail, Music Speaks"-Hans Christian Andersen, "Be the Change You Wish to See in the World"-Mahatma Gandhi ------------------------- I feel so blessed for this opportunity to connect with people around the world with whom I have so much in common. I have noticed we are all a bit optimistic, we believe in humanity, we believe in kindness, we believe in a better tomorrow.   We are all here because we believe that kind word even from a stranger can make a change. And it Can!   You never know fully what impact you have on another human being! Did you save relationships today? Did you save someone's career? someone's life? health? friendship? We never will know for sure, however, I have certainty that you changed someone's day, someone's life today.   Today is (05/12/2021 or whatever the date is when you are reading this). It is a unique day. There will be 05/13/2021 / 05/12/2022,2023 etc but never again 05/12/2021😊 And we had the opportunity to live this day, for one reason or another. Maybe it is so we can tell our grandchildren about this day, maybe today is the day you start feeling better, maybe today is the day you are finally able to accomplish something you couldn't before, maybe today is the day you finally are able to love yourself exactly the way you are, maybe today is the day you feel completely carefree and grounding, maybe today is the day.................😊   I hope I can help make this unique day better for you, to enjoy this day, to feel loved, supported, heard, understood, and whatever it is you may need to make this day all the more unique and special. The day which will never happen again in the history of humanity So, I want to thank each one of you for being here, for giving me the opportunity to listen to you, for having the courage to be vulnerable, honest, and giving me an insight into whatever you may be feeling/thinking/experiencing, and ultimately giving me the chance to not only be a part of this unique day in your life but giving me the chance to make someone's day better. Each chat I get the fortunate opportunity to have whether it is with a member or listener is my chance to be present and listen to your valuable, unique, important, and personal story. Remember you are never alone; you matter and are needed in this world.  ------------------------- If the circle on my profile picture is red, I am either offline, busy, or not taking chats even if I am on the site. Feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you when I can. If I respond expect responses to be delayed. If the circle is orange, I'm working on something, or I am in a chatroom. Again, feel free to try me as I likely will be able to respond, but responses will be delayed. If it's green, I am here and I can take chats. If I have a time limit, I will let you know. If for some reason your first message the response isn't quick, I am probably away from the computer for a moment (though I usually try to switch to yellow) or your chat got buried which sometimes happens randomly. Please give me some time and I will respond as soon as possible. ------------------------- *I am open to taking all types of chats as long as they are within the appropriate terms of service according to 7 Cups of Tea. However, I reserve the right to let you know that I might not feel like I am the best person to handle a chat and will do my best to help find a listener who I feel would be better suited.  * If you plan on being inappropriate and cannot adhere to the terms of service please do both of us a favor and do not attempt to message me. You will be reported and blocked as I take my roles on 7 Cups serious and do not have any time or desire to engage in these types of situations on here.  *I have checked off multiple different issues I am comfortable providing support, but the ones that I feel most adapted to handle include: Anxiety, Borderline (BPD), Relationships, Bullying, Chronic Illness/Pain, Depression, Panic Attacks/Disorders, Disability, Domestic Violence, General Mental Health, Loneliness, Managing Emotions, Body Image Issues, and Women's Issues. *My chats are typically 30-60 minutes long unless agreed to something different. *I am able to do offline chats as well as live chats through scheduled chats, and inquiring if I am able to talk outside of that set time when my status is online.  *My time zone is EST. Here is a Time Zone Converter https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 (Please Note Eastern Time is New York Time when you are using the converter) ------------------------- Current Roles @7 Cups - Verified Listener  -Group Support Leader (Room Supporter) Depression Support Room  (As of May 13, 2024) -Peer Supporter (As of May 21, 2024) -Safety Patrol (As of June 16, 2024) -Listener Chatroom Supporter (As of September 18, 2024) Academy Programs I Have Graduated From: - 7 Cups Leadership Development Program (LDP) with Honors    (June 23, 2024) - 7 Cups Quality Listener Program (QLP) with Honors (August 2, 2024) - 7 Cups Internship Program with Honors (Student Track)  (November 19, 2024) I have successful Completed:  -ALL 4 Active Listening Training Guides -ALL Currently Offered Training Guides -ALL Peer Trainings 1-12  (Peer Pro) - Community Building Course   (June 7, 2023) - Time Management Course   (May 10, 2023) -Inner Development Goals Course  (May 25, 2024)
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InsightfulPhoenix
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My name is InsightfulPhoenix or Phoe 🥰 I'm 100% Nonbinary Demisexual bean, my pronouns are she/they I'm a proud parent, I'm also very much married💖 I enjoy the little things in life. I'm an Infj-a personality type with a knack of having too much love to give lol <3  Please respect my pronouns, boundaries as a person. We all have things we go through so choose kindness, because some people fight silent battles💖
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