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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

emmaSpinsSabre2008
L Explorer 2 238
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Hi! I'm Emma!! I'm a Verified Listener here at 7 Cups! I'm very busy with exams right now, so I don't have much time for new chats, but I try my best to be as active on Cups as I can! I have been diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder so I mostly take anxiety-related chats, as I have the most experience with that! Shoutout to @LynLyn87 for being the best listener twin!   I do color guard year-round! My favorite equipment to spin is sabre, (like in my user!) Chat topics I will NOT take: -anything sexual in nature -womens/mens issues -addiction/substance abuse -domestic violence I hope you have a lovely day!!! "I think it's perfectly acceptable and rather admirable to be moderately delusional" -Matthew Gray Gubler "Scars remind us of where we have been, they do not dictate where we are going" -David Rossi (Criminal Minds)
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HigherFlyer
L Advanced 2 734
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I'm a young person hoping to help make changes in the lives of those who need it! A bit about me: I'm an 'Advocate' (INFJ-T). I'm Non-binary,Asexual and Pansexual. I also have anxiety and autism. (Work in progress!)
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courageousghost
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Here to help you.
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Harsvin
L Paragon 11 4201
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Hi, my name is Harsvin. Thank you for stumbling upon my profile. I’m a listener since 2015, and it’s been a long journey on this site that has helped to shape me into a compassionate and caring individual who truly understands the importance of being there for someone. I’m currently a Quality Ambassador for the AL Team Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListeningTrainingsTestsWhatYouShouldKnow_56907/] to learn more about Active Listening Tests You can check the updates threads of each test here AL 1 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListening1Updates_294348/?post=3237880], AL2 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest2GradingUpdates_300791/], AL3 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest3GradingUpdates_300792/], and AL4 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest4GradingUpdates_300794/] to know when badges have been last updated. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions to ask regarding Active Listening Tests, or need guidance on your ongoing chats. It's my pleasure to help.
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GrimSox
L Master 11 859
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi, I'm Grim! aka Rocky(Summer), Grimmo(Fristo), Grimsby (Beecake) "MEOWDY? what sort of cowboy kitty is that? 😮 is that McFluffy Marky Meowzers?"(WhiteJenny) Listener Twin: Bouncy (@bouncyCandy4246) Will be on self-care break from 1st May '24, for an indefinite amount of time. I'm grateful to be on this amazing platform that has helped me in myriad ways, and so I'd decided to give back to the community as a verified listener. I believe that due to some reasons or the other, we tie ourselves into emotional knots that are hard to undo, especially when we don't find a comfortable place to work on it. We tend to wound ourselves up more and more in the helplessness. As a listener, I aim to provide a non-judgmental and comfy space to ground so that you could be gentle with yourself. Then, bit by bit, you could do what's needed for you, and free your heart!   Qn by @KartikListener: "If you had 1 big wish, what would you wish for (only selfish wishes allowed)?" Ans:"I wish to have a big farm with a nice cottage with flowers, where I would grow a lot of vegetables, where I would bake my own bread, make pasta and wine, where I would have books, cats, wild birds and animals, and would just do what my partner finds cute (she's amazing, and I trust her completely). We would host good people from all around the world as our guests and volunteers to help around our big farm, and we can learn from each other's life experiences, and sing and dance. I hope it's not too much, and you asked for a big wish so....😊" #ByeByeCliques Preferred Topics: - Bipolar - Anxiety - Depression  - General Mental Health - Grief - Getting Unstuck - Exercise Motivation - Managing Emotions - Self-esteem and self-harm - Relationship Stress - Racial and Cultural Identity - Spirituality P.S. : Please do reach out to me in case you want to talk over other related issues that overlap with the aforementioned topics, except: Issues I Don't Want to Discuss: - Marital topics - Financial Stress - Cancer/Diabetes Some more stuff: Green means 'online and taking personal requests'. Orange means 'online but busy conversing with another member'. Red is 'offline'.  Please do leave messages even when it's orange/red, I'll see them and reach out to you as soon as I can, even the next day!  Looking forward to connecting with you! Regards,   --- 7 Cups is built on collaboration, and a little appreciation goes a long way! It takes just a second to make someone's whole day right now: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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anonhelp123
L Advanced 5 372
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hello and welcome to my profile here on 7 cups! Embarking on this journey as a Listener was a transformative decision for me. My aim is to assist you in navigating any life challenges you may face. Here, you can truly be yourself, so take a moment to unwind and let's engage in a meaningful conversation. My professional background, characterized by navigating high-pressure environments, coupled with my own personal life experiences, has equipped me with valuable insights. A key understanding I've gained is our collective desire to live life fully and richly. While I'm here to support you, please note that I am not available for long-term member chats. I also am unable to take random incoming member chats as it wouldn't be fair to to other members and mentees who may have possibly scheduled a chat session ahead of time as well. Feel free to express whatever is weighing on your mind, relax once more, and let's begin our dialogue :) Just to ensure that you've actually read my profile and have understood the above please use this code: ]d-6+i}s*g{q*e/ and initiate the chat starting with this code. Cheers!
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CheeryMango
L Exemplar 1899
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Welcome to my bio!  Currently on break for the month of January. Please reach out to @Heather225 or @tommy for any forum/communities related concerns. Hello, Bonjour, Hola, Guten Tag, Ciao, Ola, Ni Hao! I'm CheeryMango or commonly known as Mango here on 7cups. I'm currently the Subcommunities Coordinator which means I oversee all operations within the Subcommunity Domain.  Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I am unable to take on chat requests right now. Please connect to our listeners here!  [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]
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NovaGalaxy
L Master 442
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hi there, this is NovaGalaxy, a friendly listener, I’m slowly coming back to 7cups, it may take a while to settle back in.  A small reminder: I am a human who is chronically ill, it may take a bit of time to answer, therefore I cannot offer Live chats as it is very draining on myself. But don't be afraid to message me, I will respond at some point.  NovaGalaxy is also open to casual conversations Adult Teen Listener. I am 20.  I’m also trans 🏳️‍⚧️ and is a system I also understand a little bit of German and Spanish, not the most, but I am learning those two languages.
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jovialSunshine5049
L Discoverer 3 303
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
I'm currently with 3days offline response time. If you want to have a talk at once, please click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to browse more awesome listeners About talking languages: Hi!Here to support people who use english and chinese.我会中文😃 Subjects i dont take: I don't take Family stress, Financial Stress, Men's& Women's Issues, Schizophrenia and Sexual Health.Being so sorry... My statues: online/green means i am avaliable to take new requests, feel free to contact me please busy/orange means i'm taking scheduled chats or busy in other roles in 7cups, it may take about 3mins for me to reply offline/red means i'm unable to take chats. But please do not hesitate to leave a message anytime! About me: My pronouns are she/her and I love exploring new languages and knowledges. I'm a super K-HIPHOP lover, also being a fan of Stray Kids, Day6, and Twice.Feel free to message me, I'll reply asap💙 ​​​​My roles on 7cups: --verified listener&verifier team member It means i'm verified by a verifier on listening skills/ is able to do mock chats for listeners who wanna be verified. However, i may not suitable for you too, click here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to browse more wonderful listeners💙 --safety patrol member I'm a member of the 7cups safety patrol to help flagging the inappropriate accounts --peer supporter I'm a peer supporter, who is here to help listeners after their tough member chats. Dont hesitate to PM please ​​​​--translation team i'm the leader of chinese translation project, feel free to contact me if you want to join🧡 My mentor(link clickable): @ [https://www.7cups.com/@Azalea98]Azalea98 [https://www.7cups.com/@Azalea98] lovely queen helps me a lot thank you so much!!! My listener friends(links clickable): @shiningSky3745 [https://www.7cups.com/@shiningSky3745]  the frist ps i've talked. amazing shawesome and great listener yeahhhhh ​​@Greenchoice1 [https://www.7cups.com/@Greenchoice1] everyone here in 7cups is smart and makes a green choice, so dont miss green!!! @starmelon7 [https://www.7cups.com/@starmelon7] my night friend for our chat always be good night since the time difference. and i love her shawesome emjoys!! Listeners i love to talk and wanna be friends(links clickable): @Mmishi [https://www.7cups.com/@Mmishi] mishi was my first listener when i was a member lol. she's quite amazing awesome tysm!!!
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RosaHere
L Explorer 3 216
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Listens toTo Teens Last activein last week
"And if you cannot find your way out of the darkness, I will sit there with you and show you the stars." ❤ Hello! My name is Rosalia 🌹. I'm 17. I'm just someone who's willing to lend you a listening ear. Tell me about what's upsetting you. You don't have to worry about being misunderstood, judged, or invalidated. This is a safe place. I will listen to you compassionately and do my best to understand you. That's what I'm here for.  Please note a few points before messaging me. ❤️ * I typically respond within 2-3 days. If you don't hear back from me within this time frame, feel free to leave another message. * I limit live chats to 30 minutes.  Have a wonderful day/night! ❤️
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SilverSeastar
L Maven 3 868
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hello! I'm Silver.    (⊃。•́‿•̀。)⊃━⭑・゚゚・*:༅。.。༅:*゚:*:✼✿  I'm here to listen to you with empathy and support you with compassion. 💙  I have struggled with BPD (borderline personality disorder), NPD (narcissistic personality disorder), panic attacks, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and family stress. These are the topics I'm comfortable with, but feel free to message me about other topics you'd like to talk about.  Status Icons  🟢 Online—I am active and available for live chats.  🟠 Busy—I am online, but my replies may be slow.  🔴 Offline—I am occupied or offline. Kindly expect that it might take a while for me to reply.  。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🍪 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。 My Current Roles Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerVerificationProject_1839/GetVerifiedon7Cups_290064/] Safety Patrol [https://www.7cups.com/forum/safe7cups/Part1SafetyTeam_1685/ApplyfortheSafetyPatrolTeamNowOpentoListenersandMembers_273682/] Adult-teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/agingup/AdultTeenListenerProgram_2487/BecomeAnAdultTeenListenerATLSupportTheTeenCommunity_292412/] Academy Mentor (Content Development and Marketing Program) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyTeam_2313/Applytobecomeamentorwith7CupsAcademy_303162/] Forum Supporter (Content Volunteer Team) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/CommunitiesInformation_2314/UpdatedCommunityTrackLeadershipRolesMasterpost2023_289838/] ------------------------- 7 Cups Academy Quality Listening Program Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/7CupsAcademyQualityListeningProgramLaunch_238010/] Content Development and Marketing Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/7CupsAcademyContentDevelopmentandMarketingCDMProgram_236685/] 7 Cups Internship Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/Jointhe7CupsInternshipProgram_238009/] Leadership Development Program Graduate with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/LeadershipDevelopmentCourseStartHere_2118/LeadershipDevelopmentProgramBecomealeader_288442/] Community Building Course Completion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ldp/CommunityBuildingCourse_2308/CommunityBuildingCourse_291468/] Time Management Course Completion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/academy/AcademyPrograms_2311/7CupsAcademyTimeManagementCourse_280718/] ------------------------- Previous Roles Forum Supporter (Personality Disorders Support) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/personalitydisorders/] On-spot Host (Listener Sharing Circle) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerSharingCircles_2133/LCDHostingOpportunitiesListenerSharingCircle_257571/] Project Agent (Listener Events Team) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ProjectAgentsWantedListenerChatroomTrack_264063/] Forum Team Member (Listener Learning & Journey) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/?rid=17140016] 。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🦪 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。 (∩^o^)⊃━☆ My Listener Twinnies:  @horizon22 @BlueRiverCares @Mellifluous11 [https://www.7cups.com/@Mellifluous11] @jasishereforallofu; 💫 I miss you, @fallenAngel19 @LexIris @Goodhomespring. 。・:*:・゚★,。・:*:・°☆ 🐙 ☆°・:*:・。,★゚・:*:・。
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bookworm4
L Exemplar 14 2652
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hi there! Welcome to 7 Cups :) I’m part of the Admin team as a Safety Specialist. I'm also a trained active teen and adult listener and I like to support people struggling with about anything. I came here to find help myself and I did and it made me feel a lot better and I want to do the same for others by listening to them. I love to read and listen to music. You can vent out, think out loud, talk about anything you like and I will be here to listen to you without judging you at all as I know how hard it is to open up. I want you to feel safe with me while you talk and know that I am here for you. I am: * A Safety Admin on 7 Cups * A Teen Ambassador * An Adult - Teen Listener Just know that I’m here for you :)
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