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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

CommunityModLynn
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Hello everyone! Welcome to my profile! I am Lynn. I am a Community Moderator. Unfortunately, I am not available for 1-1 chats so if you seeking support, please find and connect with a listener here!!
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MidnightRaven999
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 I do not do schedule chats or chats when I'm offline, sorry! This means that I ONLY accept personal requests when I'm online, and general requests when I chose. Please read the whole profile before contacting me! (except quotes section you do not have to read that unless you're interested)  About Me My name is Jayson and I'm a transgender guy! I use he/him, they/them, and zey/zem pronouns. I've suffered through ADHD, PTSD/trauma, anxiety, and BPD, and I'm proudly a part of the LGBT+ community. I am also disabled and I have several chronic illnesses. I'm always here if you need to talk. I want you to know that when you open a chat window with me, it is a safe, confidential place where you can share as much or as little as you want with me. Things I do here! Peer Support- I offer support to listeners after they have been through a difficult or stressful chat Quality Mentor Quality Ambassador Safety Ambassador Quality Mentor Leader Chatroom Mentor Global Mod Safety Patrol SPOT- the Safety Patrol Outreach Team; we train all the safety patrol members, as well as outreach to people that need to change their profiles to comply with site rules! Verifier Team Chat Support - I offer support to listeners during a difficult/hard chat ~Quote The Raven, Nevermore~ "Sometimes there is no darker place than our thoughts, the moonless midnight of our mind" -Dean Koontz "We're all needed, even those who sometimes think we're worthless, plain and dull. If we love and allow ourselves to be loved...Well a person who loves is the most precious thing in the world, worth all the fortunes that ever were." -Dean Koontz "Being polite is not only the right way to respond to people, but also the easiest. Life is so filled with unavoidable conflict that I see no reason to promote more confrontations." -Dean Koontz "There's no such thing as being cowardly in a fight" -Edward Elric "Sometimes it's good to be scared, it means you have something to lose" -Richard Webber "Just put one foot in front of the other, just get through the day." - Meredith Grey  "I'm a human being, I make mistakes. I'm flawed, we all are." - Derek Shepherd "The future is the home of our deepest fears and our wildest hopes." -Owen Hunt
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niamh333
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Hello :) I'm Niamh and I'm glad you've found your way to my profile on 7CupsOfTea :) I'm a 31 year old female who lives in the UK.  I am a trained active listener who loves to help people as I've been helped many times in my life. I have just graduated as a fully qualified Person-Centred counsellor/psychotherapist! However, I am here to support you in the role of Active Listener so cannot give advice or make diagnoses <3 I am happy to talk about anything at all bothering you and help in any way I can! I have particular expertise when it comes to matters of: anxiety depression self harm sleeping issues bullying family and relationships work stress LGBTQ+/GSRD issues neurodivergence However there is no matter I wouldn't happily discuss with you. My roles on 7Cups include: *Peer Supporter *Chat Support *LGBTQ+ Community Mod *Global Mod *Quality Mentor *Listener Coaching Team *SPOT Team  *Chatroom Mentor Please get in touch!
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CommunityModJennie
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Hi! My name is Jennie and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats. 
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Ranaeil
L Connoisseur 8 352
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Thank you for finding my little spot here at 7cups. I will do my best to listen to you and hear you out. I can't guarantee solutions, only a listening ear. Some areas where I can best support are: anxiety, grief, disability. I enjoy listening to music, playing video games and reading. I have had my share of rough patches in life, but I came out on the other side. My current roles here at 7cups: •Chatroom Mentor •Quality Mentor •Chat Support •Peer Support •Safety Patrol Team Member •Anonymous Evaluation Team Member • Adult-Teen Listener I do not take pregnancy or parenting chats.
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SweetAurora77
L Connoisseur 9 1115
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Hi, I'm Aurora. I provide a supportive, empathetic space for anyone looking to share their thoughts and feelings, so please feel free to reach out.
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Yati2
L Expert 7 1089
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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I am here to support those who need little push to break shackles or an ear for who just need to be heard. Just say Hey !  
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tuffattack
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Hi, I'm Tuff! I am here for you to listen to what you need to talk about, whatever that might be :) Big or small, or just a fun chat. I am proud of you for reaching out for help.  My Amazing listener twin is @Violetnotes  My Previous Roles ✔️ Listener Chatroom Supporter  ✔️ Anonymous Evaluations Team ✔️ Listener Verifier ✔️ Verified Listener ✔️ Peer Support My Status Meaning  💚 Green - I am online, and you can message me! 💚 🧡 Orange - I am currently busy, and I am not accepting any new requests 🧡 ❤️ Red - I am offline, however you can message me! I will respond within 24 hours ❤️ Experience I have struggled with my own mental health problems through out my life. This include depression, anxiety, personality disorders, substance issues, eating disorders, etc. For most of the chats I accept, I may know a little bit more than you might think (: In my life time, I have also been in mental health treatment, which includes a residential treatment center for 9 1/2 months. I am pretty open about my time in treatment, so feel free to ask any questions you might have. Chats I do not take For personal reasons, I do not take LGBTQ+, dating/relationship issues, and sexual health related chats. Thank you for understanding About Me I’m a pole vaulter and I’m currently vaulting 12 feet! I’m obsessed with the pbs kids show, Arthur. It’s been my biggest interest since I was a little kid My dream job is forensic psychology.  I really enjoy art and poetry. Currently I mainly do water color and free verse poetry.  My personality typing is INFJ IN(F) IEI 5w4 469 so/sp EVLF /R/[L]oai melancholic [dominant] Quotes "Destiny is a gift. Some go their entire lives, living existences of quiet desperation, never learning  the truth that what feels as though a burden pushing down upon their shoulders is really a sense of purpose that lifts us the greater heights. Never forget that fear is but the precursor to valor, that to strive and triumph in the face of fear is what it means to be a hero. Don't think. Become." “What which we manifest is before us: we are the creators of our own destiny. Be it through intention or ignorance, our success and our failures have been used brought upon us by none other than ourselves” You deserve to be listened to and heard  -Tuff #HopeForHappyfeet Thank you for being in my life 
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Fuechsin
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🍃 Hey wonderful person, I'm Josephine or Füchsin! 🍃 I will need to focus on my well-being and mental health for the foreseeable future. I won't be able to answer any messages for the time being. Unfortunately, I cannot accept any new members right now Click "Show More" for more information about me as a listener Everyone deserves to have a happy life. Receiving the time and space for venting can be crucial for that journey. As a verified listener, this is what I can provide for you. ⯈ My status ⯇ Green Available for listening now. Feel free to reach out! Orange Currently busy with another chat or other 7 cups duties. Expect a delay of several hours Red Currently offline, but I'll get back to you as soon as possible ⯈ Chats with me ⯇ I will solely focus on you and what you want to talk about. You can expect open-mindedness and empathy while I'm trying to understand your point of view. We will explore your situation at hand and work towards making you feel comfortable. Chat sessions with me are up to 60 minutes long to give you my undivided attention. All topics are welcome, even if they aren't listed in my categories I cannot provide support regarding self-harm, alcohol / drug abuse, or eating disorders ⯈ Chat slots for long-term support ⯇ My schedule outside 7 Cups can be unpredictable, so I have limited slots for chats. That's why I stick to three slots for scheduled chats and long-term support. My current slots are (CEST / CET / Berlin time): Tuesdays from 4:30 pm to 6:00 pm Thursdays from 4:30 pm to 6:00 pm Fridays from 10:30 pm to 12:00 am 🦊 About Me 🦊 Name: Josephine Country of origin: Germany Age: 28 Pronouns: She / Her Occupation: 👩‍💻 Software engineering and architecture consultant Hobbies & Interests: 🎮 Video Games, 🧗‍♀️ bouldering, 🫛 vegan cooking 🦊 Fun fact: Füchsin means vixen in German 🦊 ⯈ My listener twin ⯇ My wonderful listener twin is dreamIcicle8467 We're sharing the same brain cell
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WatermelonLover22
L Explorer 4 219
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Hii, I'm Bailey 💜 I hope you are having a wonderful day ♡ and if you are not that is okay! Everybody, has ups and downs in their life, and it's important to remember through them all, that you are only human and it's okay to ask for help. If you ever need somebody, please feel free to message me or another member of the 7cups community. We are all so proud of you for seeking support instead of staying quiet ♡ We are all cheering for you and want to help you get through this together!  🚧BIO IN CONSTRUCTION 🚧  About me 😊  ❤️I am 16 years old ❤️  ❤️I love to help people ❤️  ❤️My 3 main interests are animals, travelling and theatre ❤️  ❤️my favorite colour is purple (+ a bit of red) ❤️ Daily Reminders 💜 you are loved! ♡ you are special and unique! ♡ You are so amazing! ♡ Don't let yesterday, take up too much of today! ♡ You can do anything if you put your mind to it! ♡ 7cups Roles 💙: * Verified Listener - Primarily my role is to support you and other members in the community through hardships. My role is to be an online friend when you feel alone, and even if I make you feel the tinniest bit better, that's worth it to me because you have infinite worth. * Member of the Safety Patrol Team - I try and ensure safety within the community for all listeners and members by searching for inappropriate profiles. * Peer Supporter - Listeners, I support you too! If you have had a rude or triggering chat then my role as a peer supporter is simply to ensure your wellbeing as a listener because you have the right to be happy too. You can contact the team via the form or alternately you can message me directly. * Kahoot Session Host - I am authorized to host Kahoot sessions in the teen special event room. Potential Members Hii, If you are looking for a listener, I will happily be yours. I know how lost and confused a lot of us can feel at times, and I know how important it is to have someone there to support you and care for you, and talk to without feeling judged. Don't worry, I'm not here to judge, I just want to get you going again after a fall, and help you get back on track and to feel happy, and free because that is what every human deserves. Never forget your self worth, or how important you are! ♡ As a listener, my role is to support you as best I can, and try and give you a boost when you are feeling down. This is why I aim to respond to any messages within 24 hours. I feel its important you establish trust and a connection with your listener, in order to open up and get some of the highest quality chats with them, and to do that, its best that as a listener they are on the journey with you, so therefore I will happily accept any long term members. ♡ However, please be mindful that I am human too, and any sexual / addiction topics are not ones I am comfortable with and my knowledge is limited so please let me know if you want to talk about something I may need to research. ♡ 💜 I'm looking forward to speaking to you soon! 💜 Status Meanings 🟢Green - I'm online and ready to talk. Please feel free to reach out! 🟡 Amber - I'm online but slightly busy at the moment. Please feel free to drop me a message and I will respond as soon as possible. 🔴 Red - I'm offline and not available at the moment. However feel free to drop me a message and I will aim to respond within the next 24 hours. Quotes 💚 "A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mind." "Don't let other people's perception of you define you!" "I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.” - Jimmy Dean "Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time that we fall.” - Confucius "Be gentle with yourself. You're doing the best you can." "May the flowers remind us why the rain was so necessary." — Xan Oku "You are enough, you got this!" Thank you so much for reading my bio. I hope you find what you are looking for on 7cups. Have a wonderful rest of your day! 💜💜💜 Last updated: 30th June 2024
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magicalTree4461
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Verified listener 👂 💠 Room Supporter 🗒️💠 7 Cups Internship alumnus 🧑‍🏫 INTJ personality 🧠 ------------------------- Welcome to 7 Cups of Tea! 🍵 My chats are LGBTQ+ friendly. ☺️ I am not currently available for long term or short term support. Please avoid chats that are sexual in nature. I know what it feels like to not be heard or listened to adequately by others, as I personally face this in my day-to-day life. Many people can be busy, closed off, unsupportive, or ignorant to the idea of providing personal support to others. In this way it can be difficult to process thoughts and emotions. Please let me know what is on your mind. I will be glad to support you :-) ------------------------- Some gentle piano music and nature imagery: https://youtu.be/dTI3I9ZFzTI?feature=shared Relaxing music with birds singing: https://youtu.be/FMrtSHAAPhM?feature=shared
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wishfulForest1871
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I'm a 25-year-old individual with an M.Sc. Applied Psychology (Spcl. Clinical Psychology). I specialize in being a compassionate listener to people struggling with anxiety, relationships, or simply need someone to talk to. However, I do not offer any advice. I'm here to offer a safe space for everyone to express themselves. With empathy and understanding, I'll provide support without judgment and help others explore coping strategies and set goals for positive change. As someone passionate about mental health and well-being, I believe in the power of empathetic listening and peer support in fostering resilience and recovery. 
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