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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Remina
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To Listeners, I do not do random casual conversations. You can message me for 7cups related questions and mentoring. I reply to PMs as soon as I can.  If messaging, let me know if you are seeking peer support, mentoring, or chat support. I can also edit Forum Posts. To Members:  I have been honored to be a listener since June 2016.  Time boundaries and personal boundaries are important for me as I do not talk about myself or use this for support and I have limited time. I do not offer advice as that can be harmful to you. I am able to support any topic outside of sext, active suicidal ideation, or homicidal ideas. If you feel like you're in crisis (Suicidal, homicidal, self-harming), please check out this helpful resource [https://www.7cups.com/crisis/].  I mostly offer support in the group room as a Moderator and the forums as a Community Mentor.  I accept new members. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. If you need immediate support, I recommend you browse [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] for a listener who is online. If you have been referred to me, please send me a message and let me know you are a referral. By the way, my favorite color is Blue. What's yours? My Listener Twin -> Fenrisulfr
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Maebyb
L Advanced 724
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💙I have worked in the education and health care fields for most of my life and now am so excited to help people in a different way.  I have great respect and admiration for everyone on 7 Cups the members and listeners make it a very special community and I value what everyone has to share. 
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Clairvoyantmercenary
L Exemplar 14 8913
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I'm not a psychic, but I definitely consider myself to be intuitive, which enables me to understand people better. Please let me know you are an adult as I am only qualified to support adults 18 or older. My expertise and passion is in spirituality and holistic healing, but I am not religious.
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GentleKiteFly
L Maven 3 1131
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Hello! I am GentleKiteFly! I would like to help you all with your needs if you give me a chance :D I'm a great listener and would love to tell you about my past struggles and to help you with yours! I like to paint and play piano. If you need any  help on issues ask me because I know how to fly a kite ;D and I'll teach you how to fly yours too!
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Brightwords12
L Explorer 10 223
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 ━━━━━━༻❁༺━━━━━━    Hello & Welcome  ‣ Topics: Anxiety, Self-Esteem, Panic Attacks. ‣ I Can't Help with Relationships, Loneliness and Casual chats.  ‣ I can only offer a one-time chat at this time.  ‣ Chat duration is 40 minutes (max.).  *** I offer offline chats, you can leave me messages and I will reply ASAP. I do my best to reply within 24-48 Hours.  I wish.. a more humane world. I am understanding and compassionate listener who can relate to the above topics. I prefer to accept chats related to mental health, except for trauma related issues which I will not be able to discuss because they are triggering to me.  @Rosshini one of the kindest people ever, a great mentor and a friend.  @niamh333 brilliant and amazing mentor.       ━━━━━━༻❁༺━━━━━━
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bouncyFaith2988
L Veteran 12 2858
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Hey there!! I'm Nithin. I'm a pharmacy graduate :P What inspired me to join this website is that I was a member here and I learnt that we can make a difference in someone's life by just being a kind empathic listener. Therefore I strive to become a better listener every day so as to make a small difference in my little world 😃 Please feel free to write to me even if you are having a bad day or anything at all I'd be happy to help :) 
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Aurelius121
L Supporter 1 166
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* Leadership scouts. I am currently not looking to advance any further than I have on 7 Cups of Tea. I prefer to remain on the front lines, and it is all I personally have time for at the moment. Thank you for your interest. SCHEDULING. - I usually only have time to volunteer on 7 Cups once or twice a week. Since I am an ATL, I prefer to see if a teen is in need of assistance on Saturdays. I usually speak with adult members on Sundays. - I typically do 45 minute sessions with members. - If I am working with you, please note that I am on Central Time. (CT) - I usually have an opening to volunteer on 7 Cups somewhere around 5 PM Central Time. - My schedule gets complicated in November and December. I have less time for 7 Cups during those two months. INTERACTIONS. - I am always marked as offline because I receive requests while marked as available or busy. I am only able to help one person at a time. It would be neat to do two or three, but that is beyond what I am capable of. - If I do not receive a response for ten minutes, I will assume the discussion has concluded or ask a member to submit a new chat request. - If we have agreed to work together and you would like to reschedule our next meeting, please let me know as soon as you are able. I will need to refer you to a different Listener if our schedules do not match up. - If we have agreed to work together, I am interested in helping you move past whatever obstacle is currently blocking your path forward. Venting is fine, and it is best to vent constructively. Something might not be ideal, but there is a way to make it tolerable. It might not be the preferred way, but it is better than not doing anything at all or letting the problem stew until emotions boil over. - I usually provide support documents for the members I listen to. These are summaries of what we discuss. They can be used to reflect on our session or provide a different Listener with a quick version of what you are currently going through. METHODOLOGY. I am a proponent of individual psychology. Cognitive behavioral therapy, Stoicism, and existentialism also interest me. A member may vent about their circumstances or someone who has wronged them, but I am mainly interested in what they intend to do going forward. All of us have goals we are pursuing either consciously or subconsciously. If possible, I prefer to identify those with the member. BIO. Life is inherently difficult, but we can find a way through it. I earned a Bachelor's of Science in psychology, and stopped college to go on to make very poor decisions for 12 years. I got tired of being lazy in 2021. Over the course of a few years, I dropped fifty pounds, overcame several lifelong fears, and went on to have a far more dynamic range of the human experience. If it is within my ability to help someone in the same manner that I was assisted, then that is something I must do. I believe everyone has the answers they seek, but sometimes they need help finding them. ~ ~ ~ With my physical health in order, I sought to get my mental health in order at the start of 2023. I read books, articles, and watch videos related to self-improvement while taking notes. I then put these notes into an app called Flashcards World and study them when I have a moment. Here are some resources that I found quite valuable. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. The Courage to Be Disliked by Koga and Kishimi. How to be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use by Randy Paterson. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Escaping Ordinary on YouTube. Admiral McRaven's address to the University of Texas at Austin Class of 2014 as edited by MotivationHub. ~ - ~ * Quality Listening Program Graduate - July 2024 * Adult/Teen Listener - August 2024
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caringKiwi8601
L Specialist 5 702
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Hi. You can call me caring, kiwi, or Anna ( This is a nickname my friend calls me). My favorite animal is a wolf and my favorite color is teal. I love listening to music and reading. My fav people are pen pals and my best friend Ann as well as my elder brother / cousin/ relative. I want everyone here to know you are strong and brave. I have had many issues in past and I know what it's like to feel like to not have anyone to talk to. I loving helping people and especially want to help you cause I know you guys are very strong. Although I do take casual chats. I do have some boundaries. If something comes up I will inform and we can change the topic. I also do have a few triggers such as talking about explicit sexual issues and all caps messaging. I am very sorry if you need help with that but I am sadly not able to help you. To talk a little about my schedule. I am free after 4 on weekdays but I may also be free earlier this also applies to Saturday. On Sunday though I will be active on the constant. Chats with me our around 30 minutes to an hour but can go on longer if you would like. green: I am free and am open to any pm's Orange: I am currently in another chat so I might take a few minutes to respond. I could also be in a room but I will respond as soon as I see your message. Red: I am most likely offline and will not be taking any Chats at the time. I could also take time to respond to your pm. For a range it could be a few minutes to 12 hours most of the time.
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Honey7122
L Beginner 2 28
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"Hello! I'm Honey7122, a compassionate and empathetic listener here to support you. I've personally experienced anxiety and understand the overwhelming feelings that can come with it. I know how it feels to be left alone with your thoughts, struggling to cope with the weight of your emotions. I'm here to listen and offer a supportive space for you to share your thoughts and feelings. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, feeling overwhelmed, or just need someone to talk to, I'm here to listen."
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BlueCrystalSoul
L Intermediate 237
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Hello, I'm BlueCrystalSoul , I'm Verified listener on 7cups, above 30y woman, and I been through a lot in my life which is the source of my strength to help and support you in your difficult times. I can say I will do my best to support you with positive vibes so you could express more your feelings and thoughts safely with no judgements. Always try your Best & Rest. No Regrets. Stay blessed. P.S I don't discuss sexual health issues, nor accept causal chats. Also, I don't login much this days, so I apologize for not being there when you need it, but surely I would reply when I'm already online and after accepting your request. Hope you understand and surely you would find another listener here who may help you better with that.
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0EmilyNancy
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Hii! I I'm a 15 years old girl who want to see how good is she at making people happy. 🌱 Btw, I'm from Romania, and if you're living in a state who have a very big discrepancy of hour then romania, I will probably reply to you're questions tomarrow! C: hope you will understand
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TheMeaningfulLife
L Guru 8 2403
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"Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger." — James 1:19 Hi there! 😊 I’m a man and catholic listener ✝️☦️, but most importantly, I’m here to listen and support you, no matter where you’re coming from or what you’re going through. I only chat with one person at a time to give them my full attention, so if I take a bit to reply, it’s just because I’m already talking with someone. Don’t be shy—feel free to say hi, and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can! Looking forward to chatting with you. 🌟
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