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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Fuechsin
L Maven 5 726
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🍃 Hey wonderful person, I'm Josephine or Füchsin! 🍃 I will need to focus on my well-being and mental health for the foreseeable future. I won't be able to answer any messages for the time being. Unfortunately, I cannot accept any new members right now Click "Show More" for more information about me as a listener Everyone deserves to have a happy life. Receiving the time and space for venting can be crucial for that journey. As a verified listener, this is what I can provide for you. ⯈ My status ⯇ Green Available for listening now. Feel free to reach out! Orange Currently busy with another chat or other 7 cups duties. Expect a delay of several hours Red Currently offline, but I'll get back to you as soon as possible ⯈ Chats with me ⯇ I will solely focus on you and what you want to talk about. You can expect open-mindedness and empathy while I'm trying to understand your point of view. We will explore your situation at hand and work towards making you feel comfortable. Chat sessions with me are up to 60 minutes long to give you my undivided attention. All topics are welcome, even if they aren't listed in my categories I cannot provide support regarding self-harm, alcohol / drug abuse, or eating disorders ⯈ Chat slots for long-term support ⯇ My schedule outside 7 Cups can be unpredictable, so I have limited slots for chats. That's why I stick to three slots for scheduled chats and long-term support. My current slots are (CEST / CET / Berlin time): Tuesdays from 4:30 pm to 6:00 pm Thursdays from 4:30 pm to 6:00 pm Fridays from 10:30 pm to 12:00 am 🦊 About Me 🦊 Name: Josephine Country of origin: Germany Age: 28 Pronouns: She / Her Occupation: 👩‍💻 Software engineering and architecture consultant Hobbies & Interests: 🎮 Video Games, 🧗‍♀️ bouldering, 🫛 vegan cooking 🦊 Fun fact: Füchsin means vixen in German 🦊 ⯈ My listener twin ⯇ My wonderful listener twin is dreamIcicle8467 We're sharing the same brain cell
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melonMeloncholy
L Master 6 728
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Reaching out is a great thing, a strong thing. Sometimes just talking helps. Listeners are eager to acknowledge what's said without judgment; to empathize; to encourage self-reflection, honesty, and mindfulness. There are always choices, no matter how small or undesirable, and those choices can be explored safely. Ongoing List of Healthy Distractions (& Self-Love) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/ManagingEmotions_47/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317] or follow along this custom growth path: Melon's Self-Care Stepping Stones Path [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/ManagingEmotions_47/AnExtensiveListofHealthyDistractionsSelfLoveTechniques_53317] Grounding techniques, self-care, healthy distractions Need a Listener or Peer Support when Melon isn't here? Connect to a Verified Listener [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?verifiedlistener=on] Listeners: Connect to Peer Support [https://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=98] Keep seeking the support you deserve. "Rivers know this: There is no hurry." - A. A. Milne, "Winnie the Pooh"
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magicalTree4461
L Explorer 1 117
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Verified listener 👂 💠 Room Supporter 🗒️💠 7 Cups Internship alumnus 🧑‍🏫 INTJ personality 🧠 ------------------------- Welcome to 7 Cups of Tea! 🍵 My chats are LGBTQ+ friendly. ☺️ I am not currently available for long term or short term support. Please avoid chats that are sexual in nature. I know what it feels like to not be heard or listened to adequately by others, as I personally face this in my day-to-day life. Many people can be busy, closed off, unsupportive, or ignorant to the idea of providing personal support to others. In this way it can be difficult to process thoughts and emotions. Please let me know what is on your mind. I will be glad to support you :-) ------------------------- Some gentle piano music and nature imagery: https://youtu.be/dTI3I9ZFzTI?feature=shared Relaxing music with birds singing: https://youtu.be/FMrtSHAAPhM?feature=shared
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SpacedOutSun
L Expert 4 456
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Currently not taking new requests/messages , taking a mental break. Life is so short, so delicate. Where will we be tomorrow when our day ends and we shut our eyes and try to move on from the hardships of our current day. Time always seem so fast when we look back though, and yet day by day we want the day to finish as quick as possible but it feels slow. Years and months feel quick, weeks and days feel slow. Feeling stuck in a pattern with no growth is just not worth it. We live all our lives and feel like we haven't scratched the surface of what there is out there. So tell me, would you like to request me? Maybe take that first step of finding out whats out there together with me? Maybe we can leave our mark on the world. Together, because friend. You are not alone. 
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magnificentNutella
L Expert 2 828
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ON A BREAK Will be checking in occasionally (uchiha if you see this, please leave me a message) I'm here for you🌌 feel free to message me anytime!! Hello to the beautiful and kind soul that came across my profile! You've come to the right place to find solace and to share all your worries and achievements! I'm a human like you who has been through a lot and my experiences have turned me into a person who'd definitely understand 💜And make you feel heard💜  Come say hi, what are you waiting for!😊 About me aka Nutella🌰🍫: I'm a lover of all things cosmic and natural, from the stars above to the bustling city below. I'm in awe of phenomenons like supernovas (aren't they so pretty and mesmerizing😮). It is my dream to witness northern lights aka an Aurora Borealis once in my lifetime🌌 so enchanting it is (go google it!). Also, as my name gives it away, I'm obsessed with chocolates and I love M&Ms! When I'm not exploring the cosmos or hiking through the great outdoors, I'm making new friends and sharing laughs wherever I go. Life is too short to deal with everything alone, so let's uplift each other and make most of every moment! A virtual choco & teddy from me to precious you:🍫🧸 PS. I'm not comfortable with talking about sexual stuff, sexual health/advice & LGBTQ. I think someone else might better help you with that!  #Respect for all regardless of who they are, please also be respectful of the boundaries I've set🐧💙🦋  I'm a Muslim, so feel free to talk about Islam with me😀🐧💙 Also, I like this website, maybe you'll too: https://www.islamestic.com/ My current roles: Smile Spreader (PAT) and Positivity Corner Room Supporter  -magnificentNutella🇺🇸🇵🇰
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FrenchToast
L Virtuoso 2 1461
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Please note that I am no longer an active ambassador nor do I have any leadership roles on 7 Cups anymore. Hello everyone, I'm Toast! Welcome to 7 Cups and my profile :) I try my best to contribute positively to the community. Unfortunately, at this time, I do not have the time to take up regular member chats. I do have some occasional times that I might be able to, but my status will be green at that time and I only take one-off chats so if you are looking for long-term support, please reach out to another listener. I also only do 45-minute-long chats. But otherwise, my other life commitments restrict me from responding in a timely manner. Please look at my profile for topics I am and I am not comfortable with. That being said, my PMs are always open! I will get back to you as soon as I can, please bear with me on my response time. Feel free to always resend a message if need be! ------------------------- {the undercurrent pulls my body it sweeps pulling my out its anger it keeps the undercurrent draws a turbulent tempt it tumbles my heart with vehement intent the undercurrent rages But I'm sturdy and strong adept in the water for that's where I belong the undercurrent subsides I'm floating serene my eyes see the sun I still live, I still dream -Eileen Manassian, "The deleted poems". } ------------------------- "Our wounds are often the openings into the best and the most beautiful part of us." -David Richo
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CommunitymodChristine
L Paragon 5 1275
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Hello! My name is Christine and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.
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Comphi
L Sage 9 1742
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Hello Amazing People, I am Comphi.  Believe and Hope for the best. There is lot left to explore. If you have stumbled upon my profile, I believe we might have come across either in chatrooms or in PMs. It was fun to be here and take up many roles and perform them with outmost honesty even though I remain occupied in my work for about 16 hours each day, but nonetheless, it was a nice experience being here. I came online to distract myself from my personal life problems and it worked to a lot of extent. But the truth is, real life is actually real and the struggles we face there cannot be undone and putting our time elsewhere will only increase them.  I took a break, a long one and I realized that I was needed elsewhere more. My personal life needed me more, the duties there demanded my presence more. To cut short, we must give more importance to our personal and professional life because that is something that will help us keep going and with that thought in mind, I decided to leave the platform. To anyone reading this, I wish you best of luck in life and remember, believe and hope for the best. There is lot left to see.   I shall see you around.   Calm II Polite II Patient II Positive II Reflective II  Sublime Confidence of Purest Beliefs  !! Unparallel approach in remaining Non-Judgemental !! Sheer dedication towards attaining Positivity !! To the point conversation, quick and easy II No Advices II Intellectual Beginnings II ------------------------- My Cool Listener Twin😉 : @cristlecares [https://www.7cups.com/@cristlecares]
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ChaoticListener
L Intermediate 8 64
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✨Availability ~ I will respond to Direct Messages when I see them, please allow up to 1-5 business days✨ 📚Thank you for understanding, as I am a public school teacher📚 🌴A chaotic listener. Vegan & Forest power! Chats will usually be ~30 minutes🌴 ------------------------- Here are some free mental health apps  — * https://tinyurl.com/Big-List * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=is.vertical.ptsdcoach * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=id.com.WorryDolls&pli=1 * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.jacksontempra.apps.whatsup&gl=US * https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.woebot ------------------------- * USA National Suicide Prevention Hotline: * 1-800-273-8255 [tel:+18002738255] * USA warm line directory for non-crisis mental health or emotional issues. Call or text. Warm lines do not contact police: * https://www.warmline.org/ * The NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) website where you can find free mental health resources: * https://www.nami.org/Home ------------------------- No matter what you feel or what you have been told regarding the amount you need to do to "just not feel depressed [insert any other mental illness here]" know that whatever you do for yourself is enough, mental illness can be debilitating, and the fact that you are here shows you are doing the healing work. I wish for you the world, I wish for you the power to change age old systems of oppression and to heal yourself in the process.
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Erato
L Epitome 5 3836
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Hello, I’m Era!  I'M NO LONGER ACTIVE AS A LISTENER.  ───✱*.。:。✱*.:。✧*.。✰*.:。✧*.。:。*.。✱ ─── I’m the Mentor Leader of the Teen Community. I oversee the teen community alongside Obs [https://www.7cups.com/@ASilentObserver].  My main responsibilities include strengthening teen community in all areas (group support, forums, listener rooms, etc.), addressing concerns and safety in the teen community, and building more structure, transparency, and communication in the teen community. You can reach out to me if you have questions/clarifications to ask, experiences you would like to share, suggestions/feedback about teen community or just want to poke my PMs for a pizza! ───✱*.。:。✱*.:。✧*.。✰*.:。✧*.。:。*.。✱ ─── Other Current Involvements: ➤ Mentor roles: Teen & Adult Chatroom Mentor | Teen Transitioning Mentor ➤ General roles: 7Cups Intern Grad with Honors [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DisabilitiesSupportCommunity_47/LearningDisabilities_262/WhatareLearningDisabilities_85828/] ​| Adult-Teen Listener  ➤ Supporter roles: Listener Room Supporter | Peer Supporter | Chat Support​​ ➤ Group Support roles:  Doorkeeper | Global Group Mod ➤ Community Projects/Teams: Safety Patrol team member ➤ Buddy System: Peer Support Buddy  ───✱*.。:。✱*.:。✧*.。✰*.:。✧*.。:。*.。✱ ─── ------------------------- I’m a fast-learner and an explorer so before my almost 2-year break, I tried out so many teams and roles and got involved in different areas of the community. Here are my previous roles! ➤ Mentor Leader roles: Group support Mentor Leader (Teens) ​| Internship Mentor Leader ➤ Mentor roles: Global Forum Mentor | Forum Mentor for Listener Learning & Journey [http://7cups.com/home/listenerjourney] ​| Support Team Mentor  ➤ General roles: Forum Supporter for 7Cups Internship [http://7cups.com/home/interns] ​| Project Agent for Social Soldiers Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ProjectsEvents_184/SocialMediaSoldiers_1619/] ➤ Community Projects/Teams: Forum Flag Team member ​| Listener Verifiers Team member ​| Translation Team member ​| Welcoming Team member ​| Q&A Approval Team member ​| Sponsor/Sponsee Program ➤ Group Support Teams: Events Team ​| Compassion Corner ​Team ​| Depression Support Team ​| Healthy Living Team | Positivity Team (Motivation & Self-Help Team)​ | Support+ Team ➤ Buddy system: Mentor buddy ​| Group mod buddy ​| Intern buddy ───✱*.。:。✱*.:。✧*.。✰*.:。✧*.。:。*.。✱ ─── CLICK ME FOR A SURPRISE! [http://mwkworks.com/desiderata.html]
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MelodyoftheOcean
L Marvel 7 3256
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Hey there, you wonderful Human, please note, that I am caught up with many tasks on the Cupsland at the moment, which is why I can't always respond to you immediately. I can't take any new long term Members and Mentees right now, but I'll be around for everyone who already knows me. For the rare occasion in which my status is green, I am available for a chat, just not for taking on someone on long term. Feel free to reach out if you'd still like to talk! If timezones are being difficult, feel free to schedule a time! PM-land is always open ❤ ------------------------- "Stories can make someone immortal as long as someone else is willing to listen." — Adam Silvera ------------------------- Hello, my name is Ocean, I am just another human, here on the Cupsland. I've always liked to listen to people and support them, in any way possible. Feel free to share any topics you need to talk about with someone, I'm always here for you. Since I don't know you, I will definitely not judge you for whatever it is that you have on your mind. My pm-land is a safe space for everyone, regardless of age, gender, nationality, ethnicity or the issues you are facing. But most importantly - I will care I'm looking forward to meeting you! Ocean (they/them) ------------------------- “Putting language to something for which you have no language is no easy feat.” ― Carmen Maria Machado ------------------------- As Ambassador for the Listener Coaching team, and involvement in various different Quality and Safety teams, please always feel free to contact me if you happen to have any questions!  ❤ ------------------------- A big thank you, to everyone I met on here, everyone who supported me, everyone who ever made me smile and every single member and mentee of mine. I can't mention all of you, but I am truly happy that we crossed ways! Tagging my Cupsland Sibling, whom I am grateful to know for such a long time by now. I hope you get the time to log in occasionally @BlueRivercares ❤ And my amazing Twinnie that has been supporting me throughout my whole journey @Audienta ❤
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GoldenRuleJG
L Pinnacle 9 6344
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last month
🤍Back 🤍 FEMALE LISTENER  There are awesome community sessions which are scheduled in various rooms. You can check them out here: 7 Cups Community Calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php] Please read below about what I try to be as a listener: Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat.   When the circle near my profile pic is green that means I’m available to talk to you now. If you leave me a message and I don't respond this can because im busy (orange circle) or because im offline (red circle).  *1 hr duration chats * Bright7cups former amazing twinning buddy - thank you ❤️
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