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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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CommunityModAlex
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Hi, my name is Alex! I am a Community Moderator and I am unfortunately unable to take 1-1 chats.
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CommunityModWillow
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Hello! I am a Community Mod named Willow. I’m not available for 1-1 chats.
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GrimSox
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Hi, I'm Grim! aka Rocky(Summer), Grimmo(Fristo), Grimsby (Beecake) "MEOWDY? what sort of cowboy kitty is that? 😮 is that McFluffy Marky Meowzers?"(WhiteJenny) Listener Twin: Bouncy (@bouncyCandy4246) Will be on self-care break from 1st May '24, for an indefinite amount of time. I'm grateful to be on this amazing platform that has helped me in myriad ways, and so I'd decided to give back to the community as a verified listener. I believe that due to some reasons or the other, we tie ourselves into emotional knots that are hard to undo, especially when we don't find a comfortable place to work on it. We tend to wound ourselves up more and more in the helplessness. As a listener, I aim to provide a non-judgmental and comfy space to ground so that you could be gentle with yourself. Then, bit by bit, you could do what's needed for you, and free your heart!   Qn by @KartikListener: "If you had 1 big wish, what would you wish for (only selfish wishes allowed)?" Ans:"I wish to have a big farm with a nice cottage with flowers, where I would grow a lot of vegetables, where I would bake my own bread, make pasta and wine, where I would have books, cats, wild birds and animals, and would just do what my partner finds cute (she's amazing, and I trust her completely). We would host good people from all around the world as our guests and volunteers to help around our big farm, and we can learn from each other's life experiences, and sing and dance. I hope it's not too much, and you asked for a big wish so....😊" #ByeByeCliques Preferred Topics: - Bipolar - Anxiety - Depression  - General Mental Health - Grief - Getting Unstuck - Exercise Motivation - Managing Emotions - Self-esteem and self-harm - Relationship Stress - Racial and Cultural Identity - Spirituality P.S. : Please do reach out to me in case you want to talk over other related issues that overlap with the aforementioned topics, except: Issues I Don't Want to Discuss: - Marital topics - Financial Stress - Cancer/Diabetes Some more stuff: Green means 'online and taking personal requests'. Orange means 'online but busy conversing with another member'. Red is 'offline'.  Please do leave messages even when it's orange/red, I'll see them and reach out to you as soon as I can, even the next day!  Looking forward to connecting with you! Regards,   --- 7 Cups is built on collaboration, and a little appreciation goes a long way! It takes just a second to make someone's whole day right now: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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CommunityModLou
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My name is Lou and I am a Community moderator. I'm unfortunately not available for 1-1 chats.  
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DanCat1128
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Hi I'm Dandan and I'm a listener here on cups 😊 😊  Chat Overview: My chats include a 30-45 minute chats. I don't take inappropriate chats and/or depression chats. I say ok as acknowledge what is being said and process it. This is no sarcastic ok remark by any means.  Roles: 😺 Room Supporter (Newbie hub) 😺 Peer Supporter  😺 Chat Supporter  😺 Chatroom Mentor  😺 ATL 😺 Quality Mentor  😺 AE team  😺 Academy Mentor (Ldp and Qlp programs) Fun facts: 😊 Cocoa is my cat  😊 My mom is a high school teacher  😊 I'm part of a did system 
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Heartsandrosesandpaws
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I greatly love learning new things, nature, cats, and much more.
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CheeryMango
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Welcome to my bio!  Please note that my response time is within 3 days.  Hello, Bonjour, Hola, Guten Tag, Ciao, Ola, Ni Hao! I'm CheeryMango or commonly known as Mango here on 7cups. I'm currently the Subcommunities Coordinator which means I oversee all operations within the Subcommunity Domain.  Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I am unable to take on chat requests right now. Please connect to our listeners here!  [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]
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KristenHR
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Do to my schedule, I am no longer taking on individual chats except those I already am in individual chats with.  If you want to seek out a listener, please use this link:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ I love life.  I enjoy helping.  My focus is recovery from abuse and sexual trauma, eating disorders and dissociation.  I have interests in university internships and career development.  I am a Christian and that gives me strength. If you are wanting faith-based support, please let me know. I know that for some individuals, Christians have been very hurtful. If you are not a Christian, I'm not here to judge or impose my spiritual beliefs - I'm here to listen. I will not talk to you about God unless you ask to talk about faith.  I do not take theological chats. https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 - Time Zone Converter:  Eastern Time is New York time. My involvement with 7 Cups: Eating Disorder Community Verified Listener Team
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pamharley003
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***** Not taking any 1-1 chats right now please use https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to find a Listener. ***** Will not take any chats with sex of any nature  I am sorry ***** *****twins with @Thedoctorno12 *****                   Adult and Teen Listener I am  a long term listener and a verfied listener on 7 cups. I also have the door keeper badge. Chat's I do take: Anxiety BipolarBorderline (BPD) BreakupsBullying Chronic Pain Depression Diabetes Disabilities Domestic Violence Eating Disorders Exercise MotivationFamily Stress Financial Stress Forgiveness General Mental Health Getting Unstuck Grief LonelinessManaging Emotions Panic AttacksParenting PTSD/Trauma Relationship Stress Self-Esteem Sleeping Social Anxiety Spirituality Student Life Weight Management Work Stress *** I will repsond back to Your PM'S when I return online ****
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Kieran000
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Hey thanks for checking out my profile, I’ve been on this site since the very start of 2019.  I do a lot of work inside 7 cups, but also keep in mind I have lots of work outside 7 cups. I do volunteering on the side of work & study and have experience in many different settings but can’t go further into it. (Not a doctor etc and I can’t give any professional advice on here) My involvement with 7 Cups Group Support Mentor Leader (Retired Currently)  I previously managed the communication and supported the implementation of community feedback relating to group support via bi-weekly community meetings and liaising directly with the admin of the group support domain. I was also tasked with recruiting new chatroom moderators and mentors, and helping them in their role as a wider responsibility of my mentor leader position. Global Chatroom Moderator (Current) I am a moderator in all of the group support rooms, meaning I assist to keep the rooms welcoming, safe and appropriate. I’m also part of the trauma support leadership team, and am specifically a moderator on the leadership team there as well, which I also host discussions for as well as a discussion leader.  Group Support Mentor (Current) I assist with the welcoming of new chatroom moderators and room supporters regardless of their chosen communities that they’re specifically supporting.  Listener Chatroom Mentor (Returning After Long Break)  I used to provide support to the listener support rooms as well, as mentor and moderator. Helping to keep the chats supportive and I was tasked with assisting with questions from listeners, as well as chat support and peer support.  Adult-Teen Listener (Current) I have been approved through an interview to support both, teen and adult members and listeners.  Quality Mentor (Current) I support listeners with their quality of listening by providing feedback, mock chats, and long-term mentorship.  Doorkeeper (Current) I have the ability to access the Chatroom Management panel where I can open and close all the 100+ listener and member chat rooms. If you’d like a room open in order to host a discussion you have scheduled please do feel free to send a message.  Chat Supporter (Current) I support the answering of chat related questions whilst listeners are actively taking part in member support chats, without breaking any confidentiality. I also help those who have been impacted negatively by a member chat.  Safety Team Outreach Member (Current) I reach out to users whose profiles have been flagged as violating the community guidelines, providing a chance for them to correct it before any further action is taken.  Community Mentor Leader (Retired) I used to manage the Newbie Hub sub-community where it was my role to onboard and support new community leaders, as well as manage discussion scheduling and supporting existing leaders too.  Anonymous Evaluator (Retired) I used to anonymously evaluate listeners by posing as a member (authorised) to get information on their quality of listening and then report back to admins.  Support Team Leader (Covered within GSM position) I previously co-led the Support Room 24/7 Coverage project which aimed to provide quality listening support to those in both teen and adult Support Room 24/7. This project was successful for a few months and then it was no longer operational, hopefully can get it back around with more support to continue it in event of leader(s) going on break.  Academy Mentor (Retired) I used to assist students of the Internship and Leadership Development Program with keeping track of their progress and supporting with any questions or concerns.  If you are a member reading this, I am not available for 1-1 support chats. You will be able to find me usually in any of the member group support rooms. I am always open to questions as messages, so feel free if it’s that otherwise I will not be able to respond. *I may go online to take chats at my own discretion, if I have the green dot next to profile picture, I have chosen to accept and will take the chat* I am not acting in a professional capacity here nor can I provide you crisis support on 7 Cups My likely response schedule (UK time) Monday: 8:00-11:00, 18:00-23:00  Tuesday: 8:00-11:00, 19:00-23:00  Wednesday: 21:00-23:00 Thursday: 8:00-23:00  Friday: 8:00-12:00  Saturday: 11:00-18:00  Sunday: 11:00-23:00  I’d say I’m most experienced with supporting people experiencing issues with the following topics: (The number of *’s indicate the amount of personal experience with the issue, and the familiarity with it) Self-Harm (Historic & Post-Recovery Journey, Addiction) *****  Break-ups, Relationship and Family Stress ***** Sexual Violence / Abuse ***** Grief (Parental, Sibling, Friends, Medical Vicarious Grief) ***** Anxiety (Generalised, Social and Trauma-Related Anxiety) **** Student Life **** Depression **** Work Stress **** Domestic Violence / Abuse *** Addiction (Self-Harm, Drugs, Alcohol) *** Self-Esteem *** Bullying *** Loneliness ** Managing Emotions ** Cancer * Schizophrenia * → Just some awesome people from my journey of cupsing who I’ve near enough known forever here 😛❤️ @Aimee198 (RIP, I miss you, especially the *hair flicks* and 😛’ing sooo much 💛💛💛) @AlwaysForYou197 (RIP as well you loved sharing your poems with me and I wish you still could 🥺❤️❤️❤️) @EmmaE @Azalea98 @mxmes @LoveLilly @Gracey @ASilentObserver @Suryansh @Rebekah @ListeningSarinn @Anna706 @Sia1325 @lueurspace @emotionalTalker2260 @HopieRemi @Jenna @Amy @Hope @JessHobson @Angelx28 @TayTayy @ALovelyFriend @VicK5123 @Anna706 @Sunisshingandsoareyou @optimisticMagic0014 @enchantedlove @Mishi3015 @cuteOrange213 @fujitheflowerboy @Ines1229 @ThoughtfulNarwhal3963 @shiningSky3745 @Dajia215 @niceTruth1478 @bookworm274 @KristenHR @ItssssMJ @fairyava and moreee Some links relating to me that you might like (Clickable below) Kieran’s Appreciation Corner [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gldd/AppreciationCorner_2202/KieransGroupAppreciationCorner_234229/] Kieran’s GLDD Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gldd/FunCorner_2236/DinnerWithOurAlumnikieran000_248266/] Kieran’s Self-Care Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/addiction/GeneralAddictionSupport_725/ATalkOnSelfCareWithKieran000_277292/] Kieran’s Living-with-Leaders Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/LivingwithLeaders_2290/Beingthebest_276987/]
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Hope
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Hi! I am Laiba, also known as Hope! I oversee 7 Cups academy [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/HsHaven_1970/StriveTowardsLeadershipProfessionalExcellencethe7CupsAcademy_232978/1/]. At the moment I am unable to provide listening support to members. I believe education should be practical and available to all. I have the honor of contributing to just that through 7 Cups academy. Explore your options and reasons to join the academy here [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/7-cups-academy/] All our programs are free and we provide a certificate and a badge upon completion. If you have feedback about an academy program or you wish to recommend a new program, please let us know using this form.  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdQ6rJ-wZOzUVpI_FDpc4dkHRKgBiJQwq1NfoK_aL7F-RyP8g/viewform] Please read before PMing! ✦ My response time is within 2 working days. I am typically not available on weekends.  ✦ I am no longer taking member support requests/listening requests concerning personal issues. If you are looking for a supportive listener, please find one here! [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] I have created a few growth paths (some in collaboration with the community) that I would love for you to explore! ✦ Preventing Burnout at 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/preventing-burnout-at-7-cups/] ✦ Managing Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/managing-anxiety/] ✦ Leadership Basics [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/leadership-101/] ✦ Watering Hope [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/watering-hope/] ✦ Study Motivation [https://www.7cups.com/path/playlist/study-motivation/]
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