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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

LivinginDiscomfort123
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(Currently on Self-Care break & no longer accepting new members at this time <3 I am so dearly sorry to any members I was listening to, and anyone new wishing to speak to me. I am currently busy, and will most likely respond later than usual.) May your life be filled with happy moments, beautiful people, and success in the way you define it. - A Wish From a Random Living to You! (My Friend) The following is something I wrote in a dark hour as I fiddled with the idea of Life, it's meaning, and what a day, as we define it (24 hours), really means. Hope you give it a read, and it brings a smile your way :) "As nightfall sets the stage for new yet pre-historic rays of charged sunlight, the compounded fears and judgments of yesterday are sifted away. All, while the hopes of today and eons before are rudely awaken from their hibernate like state so that they may bring forth their unrelenting rage and beauty. Today is a new day. Today is day one. And our path, still fogged and unwalked upon; lies before us whether we want it to or not. And if it is indeed in our nature to fall as humans, let's walk our path, but fall forward with each and every new discovery."  Life is hard, life can be a pain, but in trying again, in trying with friends, you find why life is beautiful. And to anyone trying to change their lives, and the lives of others, remember that: "No matter how gifted, you alone cannot change the world" - L That is why I am a listener. My members and I are family. We all visit the sharing circles, we all meet, catch-up with each other, joke around, listen to one another, challenge each other. We all are able to be vulnerable, raw, transparent without the fear of judgment. I hope the wish in the beginning of my bio comes true for you. This is the wish my members and I - complete strangers but best friends - wish for You! Thank You
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Misssmilingangel
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AM ON A BREAK FROM CHATS KIINDLY BROWSE OUR OTHER HELPFUL AND VERY KIND LISTENERS
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WendyBird15
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Not accepting New Chats at this time! Please feel free to reach out to another one of our great Listeners for support. YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!! *Please Note that I have limited availability at this time but please feel free to reach out and I will be happy to set up a time a time for us to chat. "No Act of KINDNESS, no matter how small is ever wasted" Hello, I am so glad that you have found me and I want to be here and help you with whatever struggle you are going through. I can't solve your problems, but I can offer a safe place for you to open up and talk about what is going on. I don't have set available days or times when I am online but most likely to be found in the evening est. If you want to chat and I am not online please feel free to leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. I would greatly appreciate it if you would leave a review after a chat as it helps me as a listener learn and grow.  If you are looking for other listeners you can also reach out to My very awesome Listener Twins: musicalMagic [/@musicalMagic], and TsukinoTheHag . Without them I wouldn't have gotten this far in my journey.
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Capana4u
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Currently I'm not taking personal requests due to my mental health care, thanks for understanding 💜 ------------------------- Hii everyone! You can call me Capana or Cap 😄 I'm 24 yo and I'm a huge music lover 🎤💜 I still figure some things out and I know that life can be hard so right now I'm here for you! I'm all ears 👂🏻 ------------------------- ✨Remember, what doesn't defeat you, makes you stronger!✨
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zencat6
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I believe in self-love as medicine and the core of our happiness.
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StJaume
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Do you feel, that, sometimes, like the world has left you behind? I understand the feeling very well, and have seen others feel it too. I've been through a lot of ups and downs in my life, and it has given me a desire to assist those in need, like you. I will do my best to listen to you with an open heart and open mind, and give you my perspective on whatever you're facing; expect questions! I look forward to talking with you. And remember: you'll never walk alone. Crois-tu, que, quelquefois, le monde t'a abandonné? Je comprends la sentiment trés bien, et je l'avais vue dans les autres aussi. Je connaissais beaucoup des hauts et des bas dans ma vie, et ça m'a donné une volonté pour aide ceux qui sont en détresse, comme toi. Je ferai mes meilleurs efforts pour t'entendre avec un coeur chalereux, et te donner ma propre perspective sure tes problèmes; anticipe des quéstions! J'ai hâte de parler avec toi. Et souviens-toi: tu ne marcheras jamais seul. Credi che, a volte, il mondo ti ha abbandonato? Capisco il sentimento tanto bene, e l'avevo visto anche in altri persone. Conoscevo molti tempi duri nella mia vità, et quello mi ha dato il volontà per aiutare quelli che hanno esperienza i difficoltà, come tu. Faró gli miei migliori sforzi per ascoltarti con un cuore gentile e una mente aperta; anticipi alguni domandi! Mi auguro di sentirti presto. E ricordi: non camminerai mai da solo! Crees que, a veces, el mundo te ha abandonado? Entiendo este sentimineto bastante bien, y lo había visto en otras personas también. Tenía muchas experiencias difíciles en mí vida, y eso mi ha dado la voluntad per ayudar aquellos que están en la angustia, como tu. Haré mis mejores esfuerzos per escucharte con un corazón amable y una mente abierta; anticipa algunas preguntas! Espero oír pronto de tú. Y recorda: tu no caminarás nunca solo! Creus que, a vegades, el mon t'ha abandonat? Entenc aquest sentiment tan bé, i ho havia vist també en altres persones. Jo coneixia molts temps difícils en la meva vida, i això m'ha donat la voluntat per ajudar aquells que sont en perill, com tu. Faré els meus millors esforços per ascoltar-te amb un cor amable i una ment oberta; anticipar algunes preguntes! Espero amb interès de parlar amb tu. I recordis: no caminaràs mai sol!
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bookworm274
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Not currently taking new member chats  Hi there! I'm bookworm274 but you can just call me bookworm, book or worm. My chat style: My chat times range from 20 minutes (typically a more casual chat) to 60 minutes. However, I am always happy to do longer chats as long as they have been scheduled. Please scroll down to the list that states the topics that I am comfortable taking before asking to chat with me, thank you. Status meanings: My status is typically on Red or Orange, I hardly ever have it on Green. So please feel free to send me a message no matter what colour my status is because I may be on the site! If I'm not on the site when you send me a message then I will get back to you in a minimum of 24 hours as I check 7 Cups at least once a day for messages!  My roles: Verified Listener - I have been verified for my active listening skills which means you can trust that I am a high quality listener! Project Agent - I am a Project Agent for the 7 Cups Leadership Community mainly focusing on the Needs Reply team as the team-lead and onboarding new Forum Supporters but also working on overall subcommunity areas. Listener Twins: @tami150 - my first 7Cups twin - if I'm unavailable check out her account. She's an amazing listener and person and super sweet and helpful!  @Azalea98  - my supportive twin - she's super amazing and is always there to support me!   
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NeonTree1234
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I'm a single mom. I'm a Jr. High Teacher. I'm divorced. I have anxiety. I love sports
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Justhere2listn
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Have experienced alot in my own life and I know helping others helps me also.
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niamh333
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Hello :) I'm Niamh and I'm glad you've found your way to my profile on 7CupsOfTea :) I'm a 31 year old female who lives in the UK.  I am a trained active listener who loves to help people as I've been helped many times in my life. I have just graduated as a fully qualified Person-Centred counsellor/psychotherapist! However, I am here to support you in the role of Active Listener so cannot give advice or make diagnoses <3 I am happy to talk about anything at all bothering you and help in any way I can! I have particular expertise when it comes to matters of: anxiety depression self harm sleeping issues bullying family and relationships work stress LGBTQ+/GSRD issues neurodivergence However there is no matter I wouldn't happily discuss with you. My roles on 7Cups include: *Peer Supporter *Chat Support *LGBTQ+ Community Mod *Global Mod *Quality Mentor *Listener Coaching Team *SPOT Team  *Chatroom Mentor Please get in touch!
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Iamsidhere
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I think the best way to introduce myself will be using the words of one of my closest people-  *rap music starts playing* I’m Sid, One of the best kids, I ain't taking any new chats, But if we have talked before, we can still tip hats! I turned 18 not before much time, my friend doesn’t know how to make this rhyme - 😭 smh smh ain't she super cool guyssss 💛🧡❤️💚💙💜 I won't leave you my friend. I am here ❤️. SID THE SQUID!!!! #therewillforeverbehopeforhappyfeet ❤❤❤❤ thanks you emobean for the pfp 💛🧡❤️💚💙💜 I am not taking new member chats right now, if you are an old friend (all members and listeners I've talked to earlier) of mine or I allow you to pm in group support, feel free to pm me <3      ollie thank you ❤❤❤ UwU you are awesome   credits:- stacy❤❤ Hi, Welcome to my bio. I am Sid (well that's my pet name, real one is a tongue twister for most people). I am turning 18 next year, but i am planning to apply for Adult teen listener, so don't worry I will be here for you. I am not judging you ever, if you feel i am judging you, kindly let me know it will help me improve. After chats please leave a review for me. It also helps me grow. You can talk to me about anything. I am comfortable with any issue you have but there are somethings that might trigger me. I do not usually get triggered but if I do let you know that the topic you are trying to talk to me about might trigger me, kindly  to find another listener. I hope we become friends. credits:- Stacy ❤❤ ( I love you Stacy thank you so much) Now to the real Bio One of my favourite nicknames is Sid the squid, by Stacy (she is the best don't you guys dare hurt her) yay new fav, squiggles ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ OwO new nickname yayyyy it's by Hailey <3 (don't hurt her too she is cool <3)  sid the science kid New nickname yayyyyyy 💛🧡❤️💚💙💜 - siddybean by the lovely talker 💛🧡❤️💚💙💜💛🧡❤️💚💙💜💛🧡❤️💚💙💜💛🧡❤️💚💙💜💛🧡❤️💚💙💜 woohoo ❤❤ new nickname Skiddles and sidward and the new favourite sidly widly ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ by Emily, dont u dare hurt her she is da most awesome person she is awesome and UwU <3 thank u em <3 yayyyyy new nickname by stace ❤❤❤ sid lurker ❤❤❤ smh smh   Yay Another nickname I love is by angelx28(don't u dare hurt her she's awesome too ) so the nickname is sid the superfluid❤ I hope I become as awesome as a superfluid ❤️❤️❤️❤️ yay one more nickname dis XD by Stacey OwO I just wuvs them they are awesome <3 I am Sid and I think I am weird and I take that as a compliment. I believe if I am weird then I am not like everyone else, I am different and unique. I am an LGBTQ+ ally. I am not a member of the community but I do support them. I am proud of you all for accepting yourself. that is a great achievement. *hugs if you need them*. When I listen I usually call dear/hun. these are not for any inappropriate meaning but they usually seem to calm people. If you do not like it, let me know I won't repeat my mistake. I won't ever judge you. You are awesome and deserve every bit of love in life <3 <3. Don't ever think that you are bothering me!  So just feel free to leave me a message whenever you want to talk to me about something or just want to have a normal chat with me.  My hobbies:  I love to write poems, talk to people, listen to music, watch movies, collect stamps and different types of coins, and somehow I've been falling in love with drawing. I also love to learn new things. my most recent passion is coding.  Awesome listeners : sia1325 [https://www.7cups.com/@sia1325] : She is younger than me but she always helps me, to be honest she is like the best, she seems to be busy as she is a mod but she is the best. I don't know how to thank you <3 siaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. hahahhaah you know how long names I use for you <3 Mythicality01 [https://www.7cups.com/@Mythicality01]: ollie buddy, you are awesome and I wuv you. You are the best person to talk to when I feel alone, you make me feel better to thank you <3 BrightHeart116 [https://www.7cups.com/@BrightHeart116] em you are amazing and I hope you get better. you can beat cancer, you are one of the best people I've met on 7cups.  Paprika001  [https://www.7cups.com/@paprika001] Penguuuuuuu... I wuv u. you da best tysm for being part of my life Kieran sorry couldn't find ur link.. yay btw, we just say yay as a greeting and it's awesome mamtasha [https://www.7cups.com/@mamtasha22] you are awesome <3 Saturn0515  [https://www.7cups.com/@Saturn0515] Stacy, I am so happy to have met you. you are soo cool and awesome *huggles Stacy* you are the sweetest and cutest ❤❤ All of you are important to me. Thank you for being part of my life. My member friends:  first of all *hugs for you*, Jose- Jv *huggles JV* bud you are the cutest freaking guy after ollie. Ily bud. tysm for being an awesome friend Kase(kaselyn but she doesn't like to be called kaselyn call her Kase *hugs* shes awesome): i hope you find all the love you want in life. I hope you feel happy and you feel better much love, Kase  Lia (rose): no words can tell how awesome you are. Anna: you are the first friend I gained on cups, you are really important to me, thank you for supporting me and being there for me when I needed you Sam(basorexiaa sorry if i made mistake in username) : you are the best *huggles* sammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Bluelove13 talking to you is a lot of fun blue 💜❤️💜❤️ you da best Wonderingpup I just feel pure happiness seeing you. Thank you for that Another person I wuv is sya. She's an awesome person. She is a fun person to be around and just she'll make u comfy even though u are the listener. She's not just a member she's a friend 💛🧡❤️💚💙💜 *huggles sya* also I wanna thank u for always being here for me. it means a lot that u are here for me when I needed help and thank u... words can never be enough 💛🧡❤️💚💙💜 Another really amazing person is the talker - talker is the sweetest person I know *huggles* 💛🧡❤️💚💙💜 they are so nice and sweet. also, #talkerneedssleep smh hehe. well, thank u talker 💛🧡❤️💚💙💜stay amazing. also, the talker is a true freaking jellybean 💛🧡❤️💚💙💜💛🧡❤️💚💙💜💛🧡❤️💚💙💜💛🧡❤️💚💙💜 <3  I wuv you all <3 <3 sorry if I forgot to mention anyone of you. please feel free to let me know if you want to be mentioned here. <3 much love for you all Wow you made it till here *gives cookie* you might have been exhausted. *hugs if ok* hope you feel better soon, hoping to talk to you Love you all so much. <3   Few Resources | Crisis Resource [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] | Runaway Safeline [https://www.1800runaway.org/] | Live through this [https://livethroughthis.org/] | RAINN [https://www.rainn.org/news/rainns-new-app-offers-support-anytime-anywhere] | IMAlive [https://www.imalive.org/] | Project Semicolon [https://projectsemicolon.com/] | Grounding Techniques [https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques] | Childline [https://www.childline.ie/] | HelpGuide [https://www.helpguide.org/] | Su*c*de Hotlines [http://www.suicide.org/] | Love is respect [https://www.loveisrespect.org/get-help/] | SH Distraction [http://www.selfinjury-staging.com/perch/resources/distraction-techniques-pm-1.pdf] | Overcoming Social Anxiety [https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/565957/tips-for-overcoming-social-anxiety-disorder] | Overcome negative thoughts [https://www.happify.com/] | Free Mental Health Services [https://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/mental-illness-overview/free-mental-health-services-and-how-to-find-them] | Self Help resources [https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself] | Getting Control Over Thoughts [http://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/abcde.htm] | Managing Emotions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GeneralSupport_28/Discussions_1598/ManagingEmotionsDayOneImproveYourThinking_187330/] | Take Deep Breaths [https://static.highexistence.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/tumblr_nexv126czE1ql82o1o1_500.gif] | Dealing With Panic Attacks [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportShareYourStoryHowdoyoufeelrightnow_667/Panic_191059/] | Coping with flashbacks [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/flashbacks] | The Trevor Project [https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help-now/] | Warmline [https://warmline.org/] | Domestic Violence [https://www.thehotline.org/] | SH Alternatives [https://becausewecandothistogether.tumblr.com/alternativesforselfharm] | Calming and Relaxing Gifs [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Gifstohelpyourelaxandcalmyoudown_54192/1/] | Coping with Panic Attacks [http://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/TipstoCopewithaPanicAttack_50795/?notifyID=164697429] | Self-Care Techniques [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/selfcare] | Grounding101 [https://www.beautyafterbruises.org/blog/grounding101] | Showing love to yourself [https://www.7cups.com/forum/MindfulnessSupportCommunity_106/MindfulnessPracticesSkills_490/HowCanIShowLoveToMyself_101447/1/] | Self-care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/BipolarSchizophreniaPsychosisSupport_63/BipolarSupport_589/SelfCare_207145/] | Coping with depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/coping-with-depression.htm] | Increasing Self esteem/Self-confidence [https://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/self-esteem-and-self-confidence/] | Dealing w/ teen depression [https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/teenagers-guide-to-depression.htm] | SH Alternatives 2.0 [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SelfHarmRecovery_65/InformationandResources_1079/SELFHARMALTERNATIVES_2480/] | Practicing Self-Love [https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-12428/10-wonderful-ways-to-practice-selflove.html] | Reducing Self- Injury [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/post/69035624465/its-not-as-simple-as-just-stop-a-guide-to-reducing] | Handling Anxiety Attacks [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/anxiety] | SH Alternatives and Distractions [https://chooserecovery.tumblr.com/alternatives] #hopeforhappyfeet #napclub #kieranneedsbetterautocorrect I wuv you all so much ❤❤ You are unique You are smart You are talented You are worth it You are special You are valued You are amazing You are loved You matter *Hugs*
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Mercylistensalways
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I'm Mercy. I am here for you. It is my pleasure to support you.   
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