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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Asher
L Virtuoso 4 986
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Hello, my name is Asher. I'm currently a student working on my Master of Business Administration. Looking forward to working with you. I have also provided 5,000 hours of Peer Support for those in need, while focusing on a holistic approach for each member. I do take all issues and will support you on them to the best of my ability (except issues of suicide or active self-harm).  Interests: Narrative Psychology, Mythology, Children Literature, Public Health, Mental Health, becoming a Doctoral student in Public Health or Healthcare Administration, Leadership, and Sociology of Health.  7 Cups Leadership Roles Project Lead, Being Asher Former Roles Community Ambassador  Executive Editor, 7 Cups Newsletter Community Admin Support, Group Support in Community Engagement Community Mentor Leader of 7 Cups Leadership Quality Mentor, Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Project Lead of International Resource Database Chatroom Support/ Teen Chatroom Support Safety Patrol Outreach Team  Peer Support / Teen Peer Support Forum Supporter, Need Replies "Cause I'll be there when you can finally make it home"                                                                 - Missing Piece, Vance Joy "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"                                             - Up, Disney            "Go big, get loud, or go home. You gotta check that bucket list before going to the crypt"                                                                                        - Chaz Cardigom                                                 
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Zarram77
L Explorer 2 206
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Hello I am Zarram (She/her).  I can help anyone who wants to share their problems. If you have no one to listen to you then don't worry. I am here for you! P.S: Please do not share any kind of personal information and do not ask for it. It is against community guidelines. 
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VerseArt
L Veteran 3 1922
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Hello, I am here just to listen and help. I hope my words bring you some comfort and motivation to move ahead. Just know that I'm all ears when I'm with you. I will try my best to create a "happy place" for you where you feel safe. 7 cups is a safe place, a no-judge area. It's on you how much you want to or doesn't want to share. I understand how difficult it can be to trust someone online and I'll make sure that we work together towards building the trust and hence listen to and support you in whatever way I can.  Stay Motivated! Stay Strong! Stay Safe! P.S. I do not take any Sexual or inappropriate chats. I personally never use any offensive or abusive language and will expect the same from you as well. If I feel uncomfortable, I will have to block you after 3 warnings.  Thank you for reading! Have a great day ahead! 
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SoulPitstop
L Master 1309
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|| psy || Stop running. Just walk. Take in the scenery. You are in no hurry for anything. It's just your surroundings make you feel you need to urge for something. Just breathe. There is no such thing as "success" or "being successful." Success is just an idea between human beings who can't afford what they have already.  Don't try to win. Just enjoy your life without disturbing other living beings. Winning would eventually make you lose your mind. Winning is boasting material. So, just keep on living. All the best, Enjoy.
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jennysunrise8
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Hi i am a listener married with three children who are all adults now and you are welcome to message me anytime day or night 🙂 I really do enjoy talking to people of all ages dealing with a lot of different situations and i am fine with casual chats but you should take the lead and you can take all the time you need when it comes to saying whats on your mind i am ok with waiting and do not expect quick replies or every question i ask to be answered If i am in online mode (green) you can always expect an immediate response and chat and if i am in offline mode (red) i might not be able to have a live chat right away but just leave a message and i will get back to you however i usually do stay in offline mode even when i am on here so i might message back immediately I have many different interests and i am open to talking about almost anything however above all else i believe in communication and honesty between people and will let you know right away if its a topic that I cannot support you with i am very interested in and try to practice mindfulness every day and also clear communication If you are feeling stuck in your life right now I would love to help you work through it in whatever way you feel is best for you just let me know we can all choose to do something different at any time outside of the established habits and routines that we have created for ourselves you choose when and how but change is absolutely possible and it is never too late or if you just want to vent about something going on in your life you can do that too  😊 〰 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 🌀 ➰ 〰 7cups crisis resources  https://7cups.com/crisis/ [https://7cups.com/crisis/]   free confidential support from a helpline/hotline near you - online chat text or phone (international just put in your country)   https://findahelpline.com/ [https://findahelpline.com/]   Tiny Habits free program here on 7cups to easily add new habits into your life  https://tinyhabits.com/program/ [https://tinyhabits.com/program/]   sign up for a tiny habits coach  https://bjfogg.typeform.com/to/QXc0WJ great articles and resources on this amazing website Lifehack  https://bit.ly/2J75bK2 [https://bit.ly/2J75bK2] free procrastination workbook and self help modules  https://bit.ly/2GOcU3e [https://bit.ly/2GOcU3e] ProgressiveMuscleRelaxation  https://youtu.be/f7I2Upk5jqI [https://youtu.be/f7I2Upk5jqI] * https://youtu.be/ihO02wUzgkc [https://youtu.be/ihO02wUzgkc] Systematic Desensitization to reduce triggers that cause panic attacks or phobias  http://bit.ly/2yUhPbg [http://bit.ly/2yUhPbg]         great website everything related to SD and free ebook  http://web.csulb.edu/~tstevens/Desensit.htm [http://web.csulb.edu/~tstevens/Desensit.htm] visuals that help with breathing during panic attacks  https://dailyburn.com/life/lifestyle/stressed-gifs-breathing-exercises/ [https://dailyburn.com/life/lifestyle/stressed-gifs-breathing-exercises/] 7cups discussion on dealing with panic attacks  https://bit.ly/2MomF97 [https://bit.ly/2MomF97] 7cups discussion on reframing negative thoughts  https://bit.ly [https://bit.ly/2OnBaxv]/2OnBaxv [https://bit.ly/2OnBaxv] 30 grounding techniques to quiet the mind  https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques [https://www.healthline.com/health/grounding-techniques] 7cups discussion on managing negative internal dialogue  htt [https://bit.ly/2HOwCLl]ps://bit.ly/2HOwCLl [https://bit.ly/2HOwCLl] 24/7 youtube livestreams of relaxing sounds  https://youtu.be/63GF7qbr34U [https://youtu.be/63GF7qbr34U] * https://youtu.be/4qtD8RmvWn0 In a language as idiomatically stressed as English, opportunities for misreadings are bound to arise. By a mere backward movement of stress, a verb can become a noun, an act a thing. To refuse, to insist on saying no to what you believe is wrong, becomes at a stroke refuse, an insurmountable pile of garbage. - Ian McEwan
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Harsvin
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Hi, my name is Harsvin. Thank you for stumbling upon my profile. I’m a listener since 2015, and it’s been a long journey on this site that has helped to shape me into a compassionate and caring individual who truly understands the importance of being there for someone. I’m currently a Quality Ambassador for the AL Team Click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListeningTrainingsTestsWhatYouShouldKnow_56907/] to learn more about Active Listening Tests You can check the updates threads of each test here AL 1 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ActiveListeningTestsListenerQuizzes_2102/ActiveListening1Updates_294348/?post=3237880], AL2 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest2GradingUpdates_300791/], AL3 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest3GradingUpdates_300792/], and AL4 Updates [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/General_2422/2023ActiveListeningTest4GradingUpdates_300794/] to know when badges have been last updated. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questions to ask regarding Active Listening Tests, or need guidance on your ongoing chats. It's my pleasure to help.
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SmileyPower
L Proficient 11 261
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*LEFT CUPS* Hello! I'm so glad you have found me on 7 cups of tea. I'm a verified and trained adult-teen listener and I'm here to listen to you and support you in the best way I can. Members You are free to message me and I will try to respond as soon as possible. How I do chats? I'm doing 1 hour for live (scheduled) chats. Listeners Feel free to message me for any questions you might have Projects and roles I'm involved 🔸 Group Moderator (ex) 🔸 Peer Support (ex) 🔸 Verified Listener 🔸 Safety Patrol Team 🔸Support Session Leader (ex) 🔸Safety Patrol Outreach Team (team member) (ex) 🔸 Quality Mentor (ex)
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GrimSox
L Master 11 859
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Hi, I'm Grim! aka Rocky(Summer), Grimmo(Fristo), Grimsby (Beecake) "MEOWDY? what sort of cowboy kitty is that? 😮 is that McFluffy Marky Meowzers?"(WhiteJenny) Listener Twin: Bouncy (@bouncyCandy4246) Will be on self-care break from 1st May '24, for an indefinite amount of time. I'm grateful to be on this amazing platform that has helped me in myriad ways, and so I'd decided to give back to the community as a verified listener. I believe that due to some reasons or the other, we tie ourselves into emotional knots that are hard to undo, especially when we don't find a comfortable place to work on it. We tend to wound ourselves up more and more in the helplessness. As a listener, I aim to provide a non-judgmental and comfy space to ground so that you could be gentle with yourself. Then, bit by bit, you could do what's needed for you, and free your heart!   Qn by @KartikListener: "If you had 1 big wish, what would you wish for (only selfish wishes allowed)?" Ans:"I wish to have a big farm with a nice cottage with flowers, where I would grow a lot of vegetables, where I would bake my own bread, make pasta and wine, where I would have books, cats, wild birds and animals, and would just do what my partner finds cute (she's amazing, and I trust her completely). We would host good people from all around the world as our guests and volunteers to help around our big farm, and we can learn from each other's life experiences, and sing and dance. I hope it's not too much, and you asked for a big wish so....😊" #ByeByeCliques Preferred Topics: - Bipolar - Anxiety - Depression  - General Mental Health - Grief - Getting Unstuck - Exercise Motivation - Managing Emotions - Self-esteem and self-harm - Relationship Stress - Racial and Cultural Identity - Spirituality P.S. : Please do reach out to me in case you want to talk over other related issues that overlap with the aforementioned topics, except: Issues I Don't Want to Discuss: - Marital topics - Financial Stress - Cancer/Diabetes Some more stuff: Green means 'online and taking personal requests'. Orange means 'online but busy conversing with another member'. Red is 'offline'.  Please do leave messages even when it's orange/red, I'll see them and reach out to you as soon as I can, even the next day!  Looking forward to connecting with you! Regards,   --- 7 Cups is built on collaboration, and a little appreciation goes a long way! It takes just a second to make someone's whole day right now: Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
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lueurspace
L Genius 3 2835
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**busy with university at present, NOT accepting any chats. replies will be delayed** **please read my bio before messaging [at least till the start of about me section]** hi! I am lueur :3 my name lueur means a glimmer of light and the PM land with me is a space I aspire to make une lueur d'espoir (a glimmer of hope) for you. I take up member chats when I can. if you're reaching out to me for support, please also express how I can be of help and share what you need support with (kindly check my chat topic triggers below to see what I may not be able to best support you with), so that we can be off to a great start! :) a simple "hey/hello, can you help?" doesn't give me an idea of what you want support with, so do let me know what you're seeking support with by saying something like, "I need support with relationship stress/anxiety, etc,". I am not filtering what MBTI types I support people with, saying you are an X type, doesn't give me an idea of your situation. topics I am not comfortable with and for which I may re-direct you to another listener: self-harm, eating disorder, substance use, OCD, panic attacks, and schizophrenia. it would be helpful for me if you do not reach out to me regarding these topics because I am very limited in my knowledge and/or triggered by these topics. topics I love supporting people with: relationship stress, breakups, general mental health, student life, managing emotions, grief, family stress, depression and anxiety. other topics, that I haven't listed, don't trigger or make me uncomfortable, and I'd be open to listening to you on them. ミ⛧ about me ⛧ミ pronouns: she/her my interests: anime, writing, reading, listening to music, playing keyboard and guitar, tv shows such as this is us, rick and morty, b99, f.r.i.e.n.d.s, parenthood, gilmore girls (paris is my favourite character), and blah blah (basically, the generic stuff) [^^ it's beautiful to love the ordinary ^^] »»————- ♡ ————-«⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅»————- ♡ ————-«« ‿ʚ˚̣̣̣͙ɞ words that resonate with me ʚ˚̣̣̣͙ɞ‿ "maybe anyone worth knowing is worth knowing for only a short while. maybe anyone worth loving is worth loving inconclusively. and when you look at it that way, it doesn't seem quite so unbearable at all: to allow yourself to love someone with everything you've got - and then to fully and completely let them go." - Heidi Priebe "touching people's lives in a positive way is as close as I can get to an idea of religion." - Keith Haring "but it cannot be a mistake to have cared... it cannot be an error to have tried... it cannot be incorrect to have loved." - Nikki Giovanni »»————- ♡ ————-«⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅»————- ♡ ————-«« ♡ people people people ♡ @Starmedia & @Mango3 people who have had the most special impact on me @greasemonky 🐳 my whale buddy, somebody who brings out the best in me  @Yukihiko & @DreamTouch my listener twinnies @Starlasky @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @SparkyGizmo @DonaldDraper @whenitsdarklookforstars @mamtasha22 ♡ ————-«⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅»————- ♡
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CheeryMango
L Exemplar 1899
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Welcome to my bio!  Currently on break for the month of January. Please reach out to @Heather225 or @tommy for any forum/communities related concerns. Hello, Bonjour, Hola, Guten Tag, Ciao, Ola, Ni Hao! I'm CheeryMango or commonly known as Mango here on 7cups. I'm currently the Subcommunities Coordinator which means I oversee all operations within the Subcommunity Domain.  Please feel free to reach out for support connected to the site and Subcommunities! I am unable to take on chat requests right now. Please connect to our listeners here!  [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners]
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Skyglider
L Proficient 10 1390
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Thank you for reaching out. It takes a strong person to ask for help! I'm Skyglider - you can call me Sky. :) I'm a trained and verified listener. I'm 50-something and live on the east coast of Canada. I'm open to discussing a variety of topics, even if you feel it might be an uncomfortable one. I will not judge nor discriminate no matter your age, gender identity, sexuality, religion, race, or current state of mental/physical/emotional well-being. I will respond as quickly to your chat request as I can. :) Availability: I operate in the Atlantic time zone, so an hour later than Toronto or New York City. I often have my status set as "offline" so feel free to drop a note. Due to the number of roles I am responsible for, my response may not be immediate, but I do my best to respond within 48 hours of receiving a message.  The world is an interesting, challenging place at times. Know you're not alone.
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kindLemonade
L Genius 4 1160
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I am not taking on any new member chat. Please find other listeners >here< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Due to commitments offline, I am unable to support you as much as I wish to. I am currently working full-time, so it's difficult to find time to give you the best of me, as a listener. Thank you for reading. Progress Not Perfection  When life gives you Lemonade, practice mindfulness ‣Free Mindfulness Exercises > [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]HERE [https://www.7cups.com/exercises/mindfulness/]< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] What are your favorite self-care activities?  TWINNIE ‣ 🐺 [https://emojipedia.org/emoji/%F0%9F%90%BA/] Wolfie Twinnie: @DigitalKnight ‣ 🎶 Events Twinnie: @Star996  ‣ ❤️ [https://emojipedia.org/red-heart/#:~:text=A%20classic%20red%20love%20heart,other%20for%20two%20consecutive%20weeks.] Room Supporter Twinnie: @MilaTheListener ‣ 👽 Alien Twinnie: @mentalspace7cup [https://www.7cups.com/@mentalspace7cup]   ‣ 🎨 Multipotentialite [http://www.ted.com/talks/emilie_wapnick_why_some_of_us_don_t_have_one_true_calling?language=en#t-181079] Twinnie:  @AriadneLove (she made my profile picture!) ‣ 👭🏼 Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/PeerSupport_397/UpcomingPeerSupportTrainingDiscussions_253073/]Twinnie: @unique73 ‣💅 Self-care & Higs Twinnie: @jovialButterfly6752 MY PAST ROLES  I am a verified listener, mentor, and global forum supporter on 7cups ACADEMY ‣Academy Mentor for CDM (Content Development & Marketing) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ContentVolunteerTeam_198/ContentDevelopmentandMarketingProgramCDM_2192/] & GLDD ‣Graduate for GLDD, LDP & Internship, QLP & CDM (with honors)  ‣Project agent for LDP SUB-COMMUNITY ‣Co-Support Team Leader for Healthy Living ‣Chatroom Moderator for Healthy Living, Positivity & Gratitude, Mindfulness Center OTHERS ‣Peer Supporter ‣Listener Chatroom Supporter ‣Doorkeeper ‣Discussion Host for Listener Discussion, Peer Support Discussion, ALE sessions, Pop-up events, Past: LCI, LSC, SC ‣Others: Team Lightship, Project Agent for Sharing Circle & Listener Sharing Circle 
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