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xxxniareht
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Loneliness chat room
Site Updates / by xxxniareht
Last post
 January 28th, 2021
...See more For coping advices, experience sharing and support, of course. Because most of Listeners don't really understand what it is to feel isolated and have no one to even talk and be oneself for years. They give mostly generic and useless advices or try to change the theme. Loneliness problem should not be mixed with Relationships. You can feel yourself lonely even if you have someone. It is the connection problem. Like you are numb to feel another human being or don't feel yourself at home anywhere. There are may be trusting problems, lack of empathy, etc. Loneliness is a big and complex problem. I believe there are dozens of users who knows what I am talking about. Would be nice to have some space for ourselves.
It's hard to find someone special
Relationship Stress / by xxxniareht
Last post
 February 15th, 2020
...See more Hello. As I said in the title, I have some problems with finding my soulmate. To be clear, I don't know how can I find a girl for chatting (for start). Yes, there are plenty of dating apps, but I didn't have any good experience with them and don't want to use them again. Don'tg to offend anyone, but let's say it loud: a lot of profiles are horribly boring and basically same. It is like an attack of the clones, only about 15% of profiles have something unique. Unique writing behaviour, some photos that are NOT your typical selfies and their listed interests are NOT "journey, music and movies". It's too general. You should have something unique and interesting. Looking pretty is not enough. Can say pretty the same about social nets. And I am not too picky, I just want to talk with person, not with walking cliché who likes Avengers and Drake. I know that I am the person for my hobbies, journalist job I proud of, my research, some achievements, music taste based not on popular things, etc. I see my own individuality. I don't really want to damage my daily routine and force myself to "go places" or ask someone to link me up with someone (absolutely don't want it, won't explain why). I am not a hunter for a potential GF, I am not gonna go somewhere and filter all people there. And you know that you are not meeting interesting people on everyday basis so I am not relying on random opportunities. It may sounds naive, but that's how I really feel: I just want to meet a girl by coincidence. Like this: living my life, doing my job and somehow accidentally meet her. I think it is 100% perfect for me. I know it's hard to make any advice in such situation, but I want to unstuck and at least try something. P.S. Feel free to ask questions but I don't guarantee answers for too personal questions like my income, experience, parents or something like that.
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