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Currently not taking chats with new members. Thanks for understanding 💜
Number of ratings39 Number of reviews36 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Portuguese Listener sinceFeb 24, 2021 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 211 People helped86 Chats509 Group support chats210 Listener group chats181 Forum posts589 Forum upvotes1,296
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Hey amazing human! Thanks for stopping by and reading my bio! 💜

First of all, I just wanted to say that you are doing great, no matter if everything else makes you think otherwise! You. Are. Amazing! 💜

You can call me Stars, Dark or Lu! 💟  (or "a dark sky full of stars" according to le wonderful @emotionalTalker2260 :P)

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💜 Things to note about me as a listener: 💜
• I do not take schizophrenia/psychosis chats. 
• I never take more than one chat at a time, so my attention is 100% focused on you. 
• My timezone is GMT (EST + 6), and I'm usually online during my daytime hours! 😴☀️
• I usually tend to write quite long, bulky messages, so don't worry if I haven't immediately replied when we're chatting (I'm here for you, always!)
• I usually don't take chats that are longer than 1 hour, but if you message me we can schedule a longer chat! 
• My status is 99.9% of the time offline, which doesn't mean that I'm not on cups! My response time is maximum 3 days 💗
• I am usually offline on weekends! If you need immediate support, check out the "Browse Listeners" Page

💜 My previous roles here on 7Cups: 💜

Peer supporter, Chat supporter, Teen community star (Healthy Living sub-community), Support Team Teen Star (Support Room 24/7 project), Chatroom moderator, Discussion host, Listener sharing circle host, Listener verifier, QLP mentor, Care team guide, Doorkeeper, Safety Patrol


💜 Wall of appreciation: 💜
• @shiningSky3745 - best and funniest guy ever 💕 Literally impossible to not laugh your face off talking to him. My Hamilton twin 💓 #favouritefightingfrenchman 

•  @SparklingSeashells- #telepathybuddy 💚I appreciate you soooo much, and I hope you know that you have a true heart of gold 💗Time flies when chatting with you! (and psst, I get the final word XD)

•  @Victor04 - I know that I can always count on you to make moi smilee! Your never-ending light shines brighter than the stars! My wonderful big bro, I appreciate you 💗

Other people that I appreciate more than loads with all of my heart:  @Bubbles2025 @LoveLilly @lueurspace @jessrabbit7 @sia1325 @Angelx28 @mamtasha22 @Kara13V @BeautyOfGrace @DonaldDraper @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @NovaGalaxy @Estrellitaa

To dearest @Emily328 💗 I miss you loads! Hope you're as bright as always!

💜 Some random things about me: 💜
• I am a vegetarian 🐮❤️
• I love "Grey's Anatomy" and "Hamilton"! 
• I absolutely love reading (currently reading “House of Flame and Shadow" by Sarah J Maas) 📚

If you have any book, movie or song recommendations, feel free to pop me a message; we can talk for ages! 😝

#HopeForHappyFeet ❣️
#edgang #edgangforever ❣️

And remember:
when it rains, look for the rainbow, and when it's dark, look for stars! 🌟💕

Recent forum posts
Happy birthday @SparklingSeashells 🥳🥳🥳
Positivity & Gratitude / by whenitsdarklookforstars
Last post
 August 16th, 2023
...See more Today is a very special day!! It's the wonderful @SparklingSeashell 's birthday!! She is a bright light and I am so so glad I met her 💗 Can't believe you're in the oldie side now 😮 Thank you for bringing your amazing energy to 7cups and brightening the lives of so many people, dear friend! You really are ✨sparkling✨. Hope you have the best day 💛💛💛 I haven't been active on here for a while but a few people I think are worth tagging: @TabbyCat97 @Angelx28 @sunisshiningandsoareyou
Tuesday Icebreaker: Talent Show! 🎉🕺
Healthy Living / by whenitsdarklookforstars
Last post
 February 9th, 2023
...See more Hey hey fabulous people! I hope January has been kind to all of ya 💓 While it's easy to focus on the things we can't do, I thought for this icebreaker we'd celebrate the things we *can* do! So: What's your funniest talent? (or un-talent? 😛) Looking forward to hearing your ~talented~ answers :D Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @DonaldDraper @vivelespatates @whenitsdarklookforstars @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @DonaldDraper @vivelespatates @whenitsdarklookforstars @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @Regmo @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987 @777Bre777 @affectionateCat9553 @AffyAvo @Bre4Me @BrookieLou96 @bubbleOcean2604 @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @Dallady @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022 @ForeverRed @GoldenNest2727 @nordurnStar @ouiCherie @PandaHelp000 @positiveRiver9935 @Rebekahwriter13 @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @Tzivia @willingNorth9642 @BestMaple2045 @purpleTree4652 Want to share more? Check out this week's check-in here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/WEEKLYCHECKINsONLY_1021/WEEKLYHEALTHYLIVINGCHECKINJANUARY21ST2023_296384/]!
A Reflective Tuesday Icebreaker 💬
Healthy Living / by whenitsdarklookforstars
Last post
 January 21st, 2023
...See more Hello hello hello! Hope that you all fantabulous humans are doing well 💛 *sending hugs and chocolate chip cookies* This week's icebreaker is quite personal: Have you ever lied about an interest/talent to impress someone? What happened next? It's very easy to feel pressured into saying things that aren't 100% truthful. This is a judgment-free space to share your thoughts and feelings in relation to this common experience. 💛 Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @DonaldDraper @vivelespatates @whenitsdarklookforstars @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @DonaldDraper @vivelespatates @whenitsdarklookforstars @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @Regmo @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987 @777Bre777 @affectionateCat9553 @AffyAvo @Bre4Me @BrookieLou96 @bubbleOcean2604 @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @Dallady @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022 @ForeverRed @GoldenNest2727 @nordurnStar @ouiCherie @PandaHelp000 @positiveRiver9935 @Rebekahwriter13 @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @Tzivia @willingNorth9642 @BestMaple2045 @purpleTree4652 Want to share more? Check out this week's check-in here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/General_2447/WEEKLYHEALTHYLIVINGCHECKINJANUARY14TH2023_295913/]!
Icebreaker: Disney Bonanza 🪄
Healthy Living / by whenitsdarklookforstars
Last post
 January 12th, 2023
...See more Hello hello everyone! I hope you're all doing well and having a great start to 2023! #woop 🙌 This week I thought we would take a look at the iconic and large range of animated movies with some questions which will hopefully be fun :D Feel free to answer as many as you like! 1. Which of Snow White’s seven dwarfs describes you best right now (Bashful, Doc, Dopey, Grumpy, Happy, Sleepy, or Sneezy)? 2. What's your favourite Disney song? Why? 3. Would you rather have a genie 🧞‍♂️ , like Alladin, or have your own powers ✨, like The Incredibles? 4. What was the last Disney movie you watched? 5. If you could pick anyone to go to Disneyland with, who would it be? Looking forward to seeing all of your wonderful answers! 💙 Healthy Living Team Leaders: @PoliteOcean @DonaldDraper @vivelespatates @whenitsdarklookforstars @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @DonaldDraper @vivelespatates @whenitsdarklookforstars @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @Regmo @EmbStitcher33 @calmsoulmeet @sweetrosa1987 @777Bre777 @affectionateCat9553 @AffyAvo @Bre4Me @BrookieLou96 @bubbleOcean2604 @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @CyclingThroughLife @Dallady @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022 @ForeverRed @GoldenNest2727 @nordurnStar @ouiCherie @PandaHelp000 @positiveRiver9935 @Rebekahwriter13 @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @Spectaculaur @Tzivia @willingNorth9642 @BestMaple2045 @purpleTree4652 Want to share more? Check out this week's check-in here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/WEEKLYCHECKINsONLY_1021/WEEKLYHEALTHYLIVINGCHECKINJANUARY7th2023_295307/]!
Psst! Check out this sweet icebreaker! 🍬😮
Healthy Living / by whenitsdarklookforstars
Last post
 November 3rd, 2022
...See more Heylo fabulous humans! I hope you're all doing well in this first week of November! For this icebreaker, we're focusing on the multiple meanings of the word "sweet" (because what's not to like about that word?) While it can obviously mean something that *tastes* sweet, it can also refer to the way someone acts or is. So these are this week's questions: 1. When you think of someone who you consider "sweet", what specific actions or things come to mind? What makes someone sweet? 2. In your opinion, what is the hands-down, no question best candy in the world? HL Leaders: @PoliteOcean @DonaldDraper @SirenOfSerenity @vivelespatates @azuladragon34 @EmbStitcher33 @WillofHeart @Artalistens Taglist: @777Bre777 @affectionateCat9553 @AffyAvo @Aileen1114117 @AveryLove @Azuladragon34 @bestMaple2045 @Bre4Me @BrookieLou96 @bubbleOcean2604 @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @Chevy81 @CyclingThroughLife @Dallady @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DonaldDraper @EmotionalTalker2260 @ForeverRed @GoldenNest2727 @HopieRemi @jigsaw3638 @lovelycoacoa @Mellietronx @nordurnStar @ouiCherie @pamharley003 @PandaHelp000 @politeocean @positiveRiver9935 @Rebekahwriter13 @Regmo7 @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @SirenOfSerenity @SmileSravani @Spectaculaur @ThoughtfulBlossom @Tzivia @vivelespatates @whenitsdarklookforstars @willingNorth9642 @youcancallmeLili Want to be added/removed from the taglist? Please click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/HealthyLivingAnnouncements_828/2022HealthyLivingTagListtypePleaseaddmeorpleaseremoveme_275396/] 🍭 Want to share more? Feel free to check out this week's check-in here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/WEEKLYCHECKINsONLY_1021/WEEKLYHEALTHYLIVINGCHECKINOCTOBER29TH2022_289499/] 🍭
Tuesday Icebreaker: What is your spirit animal? 😮🦋
Healthy Living / by whenitsdarklookforstars
Last post
 October 18th, 2022
...See more Hello hello amazing humans! How are you all doing in this first week of October? 💙 Today is World Animal Day, so I thought what better way to celebrate it than to find out what animal matches your personality? Feel free to take the quiz here [https://www.spiritanimal.info/spirit-animal-quiz/] and let us know the results! You can also answer the following ✨prompts✨: 1. Do you feel like the result is accurate? 2. Would you say there is another animal that better matches your energy/personality? Looking forward to seeing you guys' answers! 💙 HL Leaders: @PoliteOcean @DonaldDraper @AveryLove @SirenOfSerenity @vivelespatates @azuladragon34 @WingedSoul Taglist: @777Bre777 @affectionateCat9553 @AffyAvo @Aileen1114117 @AveryLove @Azuladragon34 @bestMaple2045 @Bre4Me @BrookieLou96 @bubbleOcean2604 @Caringmama2022 @CarolineEmily01 @Chevy81 @CyclingThroughLife @Dallady @determinedCat7367 @diamondintheROUGH2022 @DonaldDraper @EmotionalTalker2260 @ForeverRed @GoldenNest2727 @HopieRemi @jigsaw3638 @lovelycoacoa @Mellietronx @nordurnStar @ouiCherie @PandaHelp000 @politeocean @positiveRiver9935 @Rebekahwriter13 @Regmo7 @selflessSpruce1515 @SilverSeastar @SirenOfSerenity @SmileSravani @Spectaculaur @ThoughtfulBlossom @Tzivia @vivelespatates @whenitsdarklookforstars @willingNorth9642 @youcancallmeLili Want to be added/removed from the taglist? Please click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/HealthyLivingAnnouncements_828/2022HealthyLivingTagListtypePleaseaddmeorpleaseremoveme_275396/] 🦋 Want to share more? Feel free to check out this week's check-in here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/WEEKLYCHECKINsONLY_1021/WEEKLYHEALTHYLIVINGCHECKINOCTOBER1ST2022_287111/] 🦋
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very nice and caring
she's amazing i love her/him for being so honest and supportive towards me
I liked her very much. She's a very good listener. And a good friend. ☺️
Overall one of the best listeners I’ve had
They are a really good listener
Let's see.. they're literally perfect as a listener. They made me feel really comfortable sharing my story and made me feel heard afterwards. The more chats I schedule with them the more I admire them to be honest haha. They're absolutely wonderful and lovely! Talking to them isn't only comforting and really helpful getting my thoughts and feelings together but is also fun. I could see myself talk to them all day and not get bored. 10^100000/10!
It was awesome
If you're looking for a perfect listener, this is the one 😎 they're so incredibly amazing haha! They listened really well and made me feel heard and understood. And they're really sweet and fun to talk to, I could talk to them for hours and not get bored. I'd say they're the best listener I have talked to on 7 cups and even in real life. Made me feel better and gave me the support even my family never was able to give.
you're patient and a perfect listener
Absolutely amazing! So attentive and sent lots of text showing that they understood. Stars and I goofed around on my listeners but really took what I was saying seriously. Stars, from the beginning to end, you were there for me. You were attentive and you made me feel a lot better. You are an amazing listener, and anyone would be lucky to talk to you. You are kind, patient, and validating my feelings when others didnt. You truly are doing amazing, and I hope you see that. Stars, thank you for everything, truly. You are an incredible listener and I’m glad to have met you. Keep up the amazing work, and I can’t wait to grow our friendship. Thanks for everything you do for me and 7 cups. Keep it up! ~B
Very understanding, patient and really helped me get some things off my chest
Great chat lovely person
Sweet and attentive.
Understanding and nice
Amazing person and listener, plus very responsive and caring!
This person was so helpful
SHe is one of the best
Absolutely incredible, was so nice to me
Helpful listeninget understanding trustworthy
very caring and a great listener
Very poggers, they were very helpful and sweet
Great listener. Highlights positivity whilst still acknowledging pain. Very well spoken.
they absolutely understood what i was going through, and put it in words that I couldnt find. I loved talking with them, and they were very patient and kind. Thank you so much for your help!!
Understanding and sweet.... wanted to listen
Lu helped me very well in my situtation with my bf!
Nice and understanding
They helped me with through one of my biggest insecurities/issues and for that they get 5 stars!
The. absolute. Most. amazing. Listener I have ever had. They were empathetic and understanding. They let me vent and helped me understand what I was feeling. Plus, they love books, so, automatically awesome.
very helpful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They. really. helped and were a great listener. They asked all the right questions and gave some really nice feedback :)
they’re a very good listener!
Awesome chat with: whenitsdarklookforstars aka lu! I loved her!!
very good listener
Really helpful! awesome, and hoping to chat again :))
Good. Very good.
It was very helpful and a great listener and very smart and patient.
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