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How do you get over someone you thought was "the one"?
Relationship Stress / by versatileApple4527
Last post
 May 20th, 2018
...See more Back in March, my boyfriend of three years broke up with me out of the blue. It was the worst thing I've ever felt emotionally and it still hurts to this day. I felt like my world came crashing down, that I would never be happy again, and that my future and my dreams were shattered. We had a great relationship - we were chill with each other, we supported each other, we worked things out when problems arose, we trusted each other 100% and discussed having a future together. When I thought about my future, I saw him there by my side. Our families and friends thought we were great together and people looked at us as the couple that would last - the one that people said "if they break up, there's no hope for the rest of us". He told me the reason we broke up is because he needed to do what was best for him even though he hurt me in the process. My anxiety/stress was getting bad and it just seems like he completely gave up. He didn't want to fight anymore. It seems like he's exactly the same as when we were together, he just doesn't have to worry about me and my anxiety. I still want to talk to him - I feel like I still need answers and closure. I still would like to keep him as a friend, but I don't know how easy that's going to be. I just want to get some closure but I don't know what to say to him. I'm trying to get back out there and talk to some new guys but I feel so guilty talking to them and I'm so scared that if something does happen with one of these new guys, I'm just going to end up getting hurt all over again. I can't deal with it. If anyone has advice on how to get over it or what I should do regarding talking to him, I would really appreciate it. 
Does anyone else feel like they've been kicked out of a group of friends?
Relationship Stress / by versatileApple4527
Last post
 January 22nd, 2017
...See more Over the past year and a half, I feel like my group of friends at college has been slowly kicking me out of the group and now just a few days before graduation, I feel completely gone. But here's the kicker - it's only a few people that I feel have kicked me out but as a result, I feel like nobody wants me around. I went through so much with them and now it's like I don't exist to them. I want to be able to enjoy graduation, rather than feel terrible because I don't belong. They were like my second family getting through school and now it's like I'm invisible. They don't tell me when things are happening (I usually find out through the grapevine or social media), they don't talk to me, and I feel like I'm just ignored. Has anyone else had a similar experience? I know I can't do much to fix this in a few days and quite honestly I don't know if I want to even try. I could just use some advice if anyone is willing to help.   
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