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tohealthemoon
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts15 Forum posts5 Forum upvotes1 Current upvotes1 Age GroupTeen Last activeMay, 2024 Member sinceMay 16, 2024
Bio

queer & trans

osddid system

autism + adhd

16yo

a tad screwed in the head HAHAH

got social anxiety so i swear if i sound dry, i'm not trying to, i just don't wanna make a fool of myself 😭

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gender identity / sexuality with DID
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by tohealthemoon
Last post
 May 22nd
...See more whoopeee yeah i may make my personality disorder a big part of my online personality [go figure HAHAH], but eh, the autism + psychology interest be kicking in and it's cool to talk about less wellknown things i have firsthand experience with so hERE WE GO starting off with gender, the body is afab, but its identity is *** if i know. our first host was a-okay with being a girl and is the one identified with this body the most, but she's been dormant for YEARS and after that, it's been all over the place. a majority of our alters identify somewhere on the masc or neutral spectrum, but there are still quite a few fem-alligned alters as well. generally, we've just kinda labelled ourself as genderqueer, since it's a really broad term and there's no specifications on what can / can't apply, just as long as it isn't exclusively man or woman. dysphoria can also vary depending on who's in front. i sometimes get minor top / bottom dysphoria, but others in the system feel one or the other a *** of a lot harder, and some just don't experience it at all. as for pronouns, we stick with they / them and basic neopronouns, since everyone is at least okay with those, and whoever's in front can just say their personal preferences whenever it's relevant to an interaction. we have a few designated collective names as well. kaoru, eurus, and dante. preference between the three can fluctuate and most of us have a distinct alter name as well, but having those makes things easier when introducing ourself to new people or if front gets too blurry to figure out who it is. TL;DR, short-ish answer is that it can be very complex and difficult to pinpoint a single label that encompasses every alter's relationship with their gender identity -- so we mostly just on figure out how we want to be previeved by others, instead now for sexuality. This one's really simple for us because it doesn't tie in to our personal category of "baseline information needed for more than one interaction" -- which consists of name, pronouns, and occasionally gender identity. of course we've thought about it, but with how vast our attraction differs from alter to alter compared to our gender [we got people who are bi, pan, straight, sapphic, achillean, aroace, etc], there's no way for us to reliably label it all under any one term, so we don't. unlabelled is the best label to choose for this one
osddid
Trauma Support / by tohealthemoon
Last post
 May 17th
...See more we have complex childhood trauma that led to our DID forming - it's a trauma specific disorder we don't consider ourself as singular because we're not. we're multiple parts to a whole, and each part is distinct in some way. be it preferred names / pronouns, or mannerisms, sexualities, hobbies, interests, and even certain opinions. sure a lot of them are common among all of us, but certainly not all of them. for us, it kinda feels like having brain roommates. we live together and work as a team to keep the body functioning and survive daily life. almost everyone has a role of some kind, whether it's innerworld or outerworld so yeah. i kinda just wanted to ramble about our sys a lil to get it off my chest. a common interest between a lot of us is psychology, so feel free to ask any questions about our system / osddid as a whole, and we'll answer to the best of our ability. if we get stumped on something, we'll try finding a reliable resource of some kind to explain it instead - though it may be difficult with how little research there is on it compared to other disorders we're also open to making friends and would enjoy having more people to talk to, so feel free to shoot us a message :]
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