toastyCabbage
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Connoisseur 2
Rating
Number of ratings47
Number of reviews43
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish, Norwegian
Listener sinceDec 27, 2018
Last activemais de 6 meses atrás
GenderHomem
PathStep 63
People helped240
Chats1,524
Forum posts5
Forum upvotes1
Bio
! PLEASE READ BEFORE MESSAGING ME !
Hey there and welcome!
I am toastyCabbage, but you can call me anything you really want.
I am a Verified Listener and have been through quite a lot throughout my 24 years of being alive - you can probably tell by all of the categories that I have "direct lived experience" in. I do not take relationship related conversations, if you're experiencing relationship stress or going through a breakup, I am not the right person.
What I currently deal with
As of this moment, ADHD and clinical depression. Besides the ADHD, I've been dealing with eating disorders and clinical depression for as long as I can remember, but I am getting better slowly! I hope that my experience with those two very sensitive topics can help you feel validated, because it's way more common than you might think.
Other things that I can help with
I am an experienced dominant in terms of S&M / BDSM and have spent the majority of my time within the DDLG dynamic. However, I do have experience with being a hard dom, so do not be afraid to chat with me about this. If you're unsure if what you want to talk about falls under the umbrella terms of BDSM, then feel free to ask; there are no real guidelines, as long as safety, trust and consent is involved.
Please do note that I will not endorse dangerous or illegal behavior and recommend that you seek professional help if you have thoughts about seriously hurting somebody.
Be kind
We're all humans at the end of the day, there is nothing more that I want than just to help out and listen to you. I take long term members and prefer it that way, meaning that I'm more than happy to keep in contact with you over a long time instead of one single chat.
But hey, thanks for reading. I sincerely hope that you find solutions and answers to your problems as your life goes on. You deserve it just like everyone else.
For Norwegian speakers
Hallo! Takk for at du tar en titt på profilen min, jeg håper at alt står til. Ikke vær redd for å snakke med meg på Norsk, har bodd i Norge så-og-si hele livet. Jeg skriver helst bare på Bokmål, men kan forstå Nynorsk bra nok.
Feedback & Reviews
Toasty is an overall great guy and amazing listener! He is extremely intelligent, yet personable and conducts himself with integrity. He approached the conversation very delicately and treated me with the upmost respect. Where you would normally expect judgment, his genuine love for humanity takes the forefront. I don’t know that I’ve ever met someone so understanding. He is truly a kind soul and a hidden gem. Tusen takk.
Thank you for your perspective and time, thank you for being present
very helpful, awesome
Very good listener who tries to help efficiently
Good guy. Listens to you.
Super helpful and caring
Wonderful listener, interested in helping
toastyCabbage is a wonderful listener. He's kind and attentive and really listens to you. Thank you so much!
Really easy to talk to :)
Lovely, friendly listener.
Very understanding good listener
Really understanding, asks genuine questions and relates very well
Very patient, understanding and made me feel I'm supported. Also, not judgmental. Wonderful listener :)
Amazing listener. Makes you feel valued and appreciated. Helps you open up about your struggles and validates your emotions.
Best listener I found this far. Really a great person overall.
This guy makes me feel super at ease!
Amazing listener, really understands and engages.
Awesome, sweet, attentive and patient listener! Would recommend.
He is a really good listener and after talking to him I felt really great and motivated
very good listener
Extremely compassionate soul. The convos really makes me feel heard and understood. They are really patient even when I find it confusing to explain what I am feeling because I myself don't get me sometimes. They seem like a wonderful being
Hes so helpful and caring!!!!
very responsive and thoughtful
Thanks alot so patient and friendly 😊❤️ Thank u for giving me a chance talking to u wish u all best
very helpful and kind, let me express my emotions fully without judg
Extremely kind and sweet. Was really understanding and allowed me to talk about whatever was in my mind. Their words were comforting. Thank you.
Good listener and communicator
thank you, appreciate it
Really good listener, not too intrusive but gets you to open up a little so they can help you more, personal experience really helps, no judgement
She is positive. She prefers listening to the other person. She quite uplifts you through her supportive replies. Better than a friend or family.
Thsnks for being a pillar for me. I cant explain how much I appreciate it.
Brilliant and understanding.
An incredible listener. Showed compassion and support.
Thank you, xioni! I almost did silly things had I not talked to you.
Very kind, positive and thoughtful. 5 stars, absolutely.
It was a great experience, and he is the best listener you could met.
Helpful. Understanding. Uplifting. Positive. Great Listener
Helped take my mind off my issues and I had a wonderful time
Such a great listener, he takes time to understand the situation, can sympathize with what you’re going through, and also helps with practical observations.
I definitely feel better after the chat!
Helpful and nice listener
Kind and empathetic listener who cares. Felt like I was talking to someone who was real. Like a friend.
Such a carrying and good listener. Enjoyed every second of our conversation. Feeling much better thanks to him. :)
Right of the bat, I knew it was going to be worth the chat. Thank you. You are a truly good soul.
Badges & Awards
45 total badges
Listening Ear
Long Ears
Magnet
PenPal
Jester of Smiles
Clerk of Bear Hugs
Ellen
Jump Start
Depression
Eating Disorders
Managing Emotions
Panic Attacks
Surviving Breakups
Listener Oath
Self Harm
Alcohol & Drug Abuse
Verified Listener
Bullying
Chronic Pain
Family Stress
Sleeping Well
Love Bug
Refresher
Loneliness Guide
Affirmative
Listening Ace
Social Anxiety
Managing Bipolar
Community 101
Loyal Friend
Tick Tock
Fellow Friend
Steadfast Soul I
Steadfast Soul II
Steadfast Soul III
Reconnection Hero I
Reconnection Hero II
First Chat
First Post
Five Steps
High 5
Hang 10
Open Door
Thankful Heart
Gratitude Abound