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Blue Butterfly's Art Collections
Arts & Crafts / by thoughtfulGrapes1163
Last post
 October 1st
...See more In this thread, I'm gonna share all my artwork that I create, heehee 😁 I am excitedd. Let's do this!! But before I forget, lemme tag some peeps : @beecake, @finefrog15, @karel0, @lavalau ( I hope I got that one correct ), and, umm, oh yeah, @kylersartpace. I'll add more, but for now, you guys are the special vip entrance guests 😍 😍 😍 enjoyy!!
Safe hideout for Kyler and Grapes
Pen Pals / by thoughtfulGrapes1163
Last post
 September 2nd
...See more This is a hideout for Kyler and Grapes. If you are not Klyer or Grapes, please do not respond. Thank you 😊 tagging you, @kylersartpace, to let you know this is here 😊 Can't wait for all the fun things we're gonna do 😃
Safe hideout for youth and blue butterfly
Pen Pals / by thoughtfulGrapes1163
Last post
 February 18th
...See more This is a safe space for Youth and Grapes, please dont respond if ur not youth or grapey. Thanks 😊 Tagging @autisticyouth to make sure you know I made this for us 😊 
Studying, Procrastination, and Frustration
Student Support / by thoughtfulGrapes1163
Last post
 January 27th
...See more Heyyy Lovely Peeps!!! 😍 😍 😍 I'm so happy you found my post 🥰 🥰  In this post, I wanted to discuss, or perhaps talk about, the effect of our health on our ability to focus on our studies, assignments, projects, and such. Very often, we attach our inability to focus on what we need to get done, such as our work, to procrastination and laziness. But I feel like sometimes ( read : all the time ), there may be a deeper reason why we aren't getting that assignment done. Why we switch to youtube, or reddit, or twitter, almost instantaneously after we open the web. Because we are afraid, in some way, of that work. Maybe we feel like, deep down, the performance we show on that assignment is a showcase of who we are, is evidence for people to point to and judge us, to put us on a scale. Maybe its more personal to you, maybe your parents are the ones judging. And its also uncertainty involved in it, in a way. If you work really hard and submit that assignment, before the result comes in, you have an expectation that its going to be a great grade, and then it comes out as a horrible grade. It breaks your heart. Much more preferable is not working on it at all and knowing for a fact and certainty that you will get a low grade. The certainty, and the confidence, gives you a sort of control, and you are ready for it. You prepare yourelf in advance for the punishment, the yelling, the (hopefully not) beatings. But if you work really hard, and still get that bad grade, you aren't ready for that punishment, and you get hurt really bad, because your defences might not have been up to protect you from that attack. We dont want that, so instead, we just not work, not study, and rest assured that we are getting that punishment. You're ready for it. Those are my thoughts, feel free to comment on what you think about it!  Grapes 🍇  
Creating this thread to keep me connected to my peeps 😁
Pen Pals / by thoughtfulGrapes1163
Last post
 March 10th
...See more Allrighty, I'm gonna cut right to the chase. I'm taking a semi-break from cups, which basically means I am going to limit my time on here. Its in order to be real again, to be in nature, and to feel alive again. Being in front of a screen for so long is taking a noticeable change in my life, and I wanted to set that right.For that reason, I am setting times for when I will be available on here in a week. I will post that here when I decide on the timings.  Tagging all my lovely buddies on here ( pretty please, if I get someone's username wrong, please be a darling and put a tag with the correct username. Thankie so much!!) :  @artemisstormwolf @exuberantgrapefruit8347 @lsdbookclub @happyducky8 @purplepenny6979 @drumdrummer @vlinderina @versatilesailboat827 @autisticyouth @georginahowe @spongbobishappy @tinywhisper11 @okeyyyy @walker7957 @justmiles @wooof @iampapaya @beecake @borbie777 @mondoralph @isitizzy @bestvibes 
Grapes’ thread 🍇 (Full of tw’s, be on your guard)
Journals & Diaries / by thoughtfulGrapes1163
Last post
 March 9th
...See more I wanted to create a thread for myself for a very long time, but I was very scared to, because I did not feel like I deserved it. Oh no, I’m going into my rambling already 😅😅.  So, this thread is my first thread, and it’s my quiet space. It’s a space for me to be me, to not be hurt. I am going to be myself over here, not a jumpy, happy go lucky buddy. Not that it’s not good, but, I can’t be that all the time, you know? I can’t. It’s painful. But I can’t say this to peeps in the chat. I can’t say, hey, I’m gonna be a crazy, unstable psycho, don’t mind me. No, I can’t say that. Not to my buddies 🥺.  That’s why I created this thread. Over here, I’ll be all I want to be. I’m gonna be my raw self here. I won’t care what other people say. I am going to be me. 😣  Life has been hard for me. It’s been painful. I hold some pretty gut wrenching memories. To quote someone from somewhere, I am not who you think I am. I am not grapes, as much as I want to be. I am a scar, both mentally and emotionally. I have been through things that have torn me, burned me, drowned me, inside. I don’t how to live in this world. Without a debilitating mental breakdown every day. I’m broken, from the core.  So yeah, that’s me. Might not be what you guys thought I was, but that is who I am. You guys are welcome to comment, but please, be considerate. Please. I would appreciate it. 
I'm going insane ( Slightly nsfw
Depression Support / by thoughtfulGrapes1163
Last post
 January 3rd
...See more I don't know where I should start. I feel like screaming out loud, until my voicebox breaks. I don't think I've posted anywhere else, the reason for me being like this. I'll explain. Before any of this started, I was a bright child. I had goals, dreams, aspirations, achievements that I was proud of, and generally, I was happy. I felt content. Then my p**n addiction happened. It destroyed me, emotionally, mentally, completely. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about
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