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sympatheticWest110
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PathStep 17 Compassion hearts22 Forum posts18 Forum upvotes7 Current upvotes7 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2025 Member sinceJanuary 11, 2025
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Something isn't right between us...
Relationship Stress / by sympatheticWest110
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5 hours ago
...See more Far from a perfect world and far from a perfect relationship yet something inside me says there's something wrong on a different level. I don't know what it is and i have no way of knowing if my partner is hiding something which undoubtedly adds to the urgency of the moment. I've done everything possible to determine whether or not my partner has cheated and come up with the answer that my partner has in fact not cheated. However i feel no less relieved. At least if my partner had cheated i would have my answer and be able to chart my course accordingly. To have an answer is to have validation in that respect. Yet i have none. It only adds to my concern that when i finally find out what's going on i will be more vulnerable but honestly how much more vulnerable can a person be? Financially, emotionally, physically we are all vulnerable when we invest in a relationship so then maybe spiritually could be the thing I've neglected? There's a feeling setting in that i need to just leave instead of trying to determine what's going on. I've also considered that it me that could be the issue. My head and my heart are misaligned. Maybe a cognitive dissonance is awash over me and only when I'm out of the situation will i be able to achieve the clarity i need.
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Why can't i just leave already ?
Relationship Stress / by sympatheticWest110
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Sunday
...See more Why do i keep holding on to hope? For what? It's not even good enough when it was good.
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