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Im an independent researcher not affiliated with any institutes or companies or universities. I study psychology, neuroscience and philosophy. I've never graduated college or received a formal education for this i just sort of picked it up when i was 15 and never stopped being interested in it and asking questions. I'm currently working on a lot of theories that are changing my life...and could very likely change many others.


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The Dream
To be a really impactful revolutionary pioneer discoverer

How it all started
I made a friend a while ago who was like i believe in you whole heartedly, i think you're a genius who is going to change the world and i may not be very smart but i'll be with you every step of the way to make it happen. I've always had big dreams and ambitions that i never had the courage to attempt until i met her and now im actually doing it! give https://www.7cups.com/@theyyloveelenaa some love if you like what im doing!

THAT SAID I'm in desperate need of encouragement, support, comfort, understanding or sympathy. If we are speaking i would simply ask that if you respond to something i say filter it through one of the five words i mentioned in my first sentence. I haven't felt safe opening up about my thoughts and ideas because i already spend so much of my will power and energy dedicated to solving big problems for humanity that i don't have enough left over for self-care/love and i rely on people i meet on here to supply me with that, but if anyone requires anything from me in return i just don't have the energy and i get angry. Please and thank you xoxo


Only one thing has to change for us to know happiness in our lives
where we focus our attention
- Greg Anderson

>>>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kd7KC3PaEaA <<<<<


MY BOXING THEORY

Have you ever watched a boxing movie? Like Rocky?

What happens at the last fight scene, right between when the boxer gets knocked to the ground for the last time and when he knocks out his evil opponent in one quick combo.

He runs a series of memories through his head and in a matter of seconds he's filled with more energy than he had at the beginning of the fight, a clarity of mind like never before and in a moment of pure logic and intellect tackles his problem with the precise measures necessary to defeat it. Accomplishing a daunting task of defeating his big bad opponent with the assistance of a tool he never thought he'd use or need to defeat him but without, would have undoubtedly have lost.

It gives him something that fucking...months of training and exercise (albeit important things) but pale in comparison to what this new found thing brings to the table.

The reaction that person is experiencing is created by their nervous system, which is responsible for creating emotional reactions to the data our sensors on our body are interpreting and based on what we experience and how we've been conditioned it will come up with an appropriate response.

The tool at our disposal is the ability to trick the nervous system into responding the way we want it too.

If we can develop an understanding of the types of responses the nervous system is prone to using and the triggers for each response we'll have a manipulable relationship with it and the possibilities are endless.

Imagine instead of just those few seconds at the last possible moment of the fight displaying that ungodly level of sportsmanlike ability...that you could pull those memories out at any time throughout the day. And the state of mind that person was able to achieve, could be their EVERY DAY experience.

Living in a world, where people are completely out of control of their nervous systems that person would be a god among men.

REALITY THEORY

Alright lets reevaluate your concept of perspective.
Perspective is like a 6 sided box, each of the 6 sides is broken up into 20 slices, and lets say initially when we look at something we have 1 whole sides worth of slices to make up our perspective.

Lets say that every thing a person has ever said to you is a box, and that every thing you've ever heard, you only had 1 side of the box worth of perspective. That means, peoples opinions...perspectives..thoughts..ideas...beliefs...comments...statements...their actions...their body language...their everything they've done...each individual thing you interpret from them..to make up your whole perspective..you only had 1 slice worth of 6 of perspective of it.

What does that tell you about your experiences in life?

Factually we can say that the brain is incapable of processing all the information revolving around something so based on conditioning it chooses pieces of information to focus on and develops an initial perspective to represent this thing we're viewing..which we can expand upon or leave as is for the rest of our lives..but that will always be what we see until we change it, yes?

Can we surmise from that, that all of the things we've ever seen may just be our initial perspectives of them...with the exception of the few things we've decided to expand our perspectives of..i.e our interests or talents etc.

If everything we see is just a tiny piece of the puzzle, an initial perspective, how does that make you feel about the world surrounding you..that you've experienced all your life. The experiences you've had all your life that seemed so real and all encompassing and you were sure were the whole picture...turning out to just be a fraction of what really happened..the lucky pieces of the puzzle or box that got your attention in that moment...

Doesn't that make those experiences seem less legitimate and impactful? less real? i mean if all those things you experienced weren't reality what even is reality anymore...that's what im thinking...and if we can never truly be in touch with reality..if this fractured piece of existence is all we experience..why not assume full control over it and make sure we're getting the best pieces of the puzzle to experience ALL THE TIME.



ELABORATIVE THOUGHTS:
If everything we see in others is a projection of ourselves...granted independent of us some may possess the same perspectives as us...by comparison to the vast majority of things we think about people vs what they actually think the level of influence from ourselves vs what is actually being projected by others is VAST VAST VAST. So ultimately what we should worry about is what we're in control of...OUR perspectives...

And if you're in control of basically every aspect of influence a person has on you...due to the fact that...what you see in them..is at large just your own projections...imagine living in a world where the only thing in between you and what you want is you...

MY SELF-ESTEEM THEORY

I like to think that when people say before you can love others first you have to love yourself, is because we project a great deal of ourselves into what we interpret from others..and that when i surround myself by people like you (positively exactly like i wanna be) it will introduce a new version of myself to integrate into my system and gradually i'll learn the process of comforting and loving myself and being able to believe in it due to what i see from others.

To Elaborate: So if we examine the widely known quote "Before you can love others first you have to love yourself" it's predicated upon the knowledge that we operate under the illusion that what we see in others, is them, when often times it's actually a reflection of our own thoughts and feelings we're PROJECTING into the body language, words and facial expressions and thoughts of other people. By recognizing this human ability we have the potential to manipulate it. If a person is flawed in the sense that their self-talk (which is most aptly characterized in the way they imagine people reacting to them)..isn't optimal they could put themself around people who are nearly impossible to interpret in such negative ways and slowly begin a process of developing a new side of themselves through the manipulation of their illusory idea that they're talking to another person..and slowly as our perspectives of other peoples reactions to us begins to change with the introduction of new reactions from individuals ideal to the self-talk we want to embody. The person we come to identify as will change as well...

ROCK THEORY:
if you think about it, when we look at a rock for instance, we just see a rock, it's meaningless, but we change it into plates, axes, hammers, we explore it scientifically and give it a whole world of meaning, but if it wasn't for us, it would just be a meaningless rock, and so i propose it is the same with human communications, everything we observe about others is just a rock..for us to create meaning for...to shape into our reality...and often times it's inaccurate to what the other person truly thinks, which is why i say it's a projection of ourselves..cause what else could that inaccuracy be but the product of our own thinking?

Elaborative thoughts: The worst part about realizing what you see in others is the edges of your subjective reality, is that you realize all the bad things you don't like about them are actually a part of you. And the best part is that all the things you liked are you too :)

Potentials: I've also noticed that this means all the experiences we had with people in the past, that weren't the product of extensive communication to create an accurate degree of certainty as to what was being experienced and talked about. Was actually just an experience and conversation you had with yourself..that you believed the other person was experiencing and thinking too...and regardless of the fact you believe it was reality, literally...it was you all along. All the beautiful moments you had, all the terrible ones..you...that's how much finger lies at the end of your fingers...the power to experience reality any way you want it...is what that means. The power to make any reality you want as real to you as anything else that can be

Questions:
"Are we alone" Through the extensive amounts of questioning and communication it is possible to witness a persons true meaning and identity but it is very difficult to create an accurate understanding between two people and fundamentally if you have not undergone such a process with someone you do not see them for who they are and you are technically alone with just your own mind projected onto them.
"Going Forward, is seeing things the way you want to dangerous with other people?" I'd say to that question, it's what you've always done and you're still hear and the earth is still spinning, so no worries mate. that said though, there are definitely some room for improvement, certain things you project into reality and people that holds you back. Think of all the influence you experience from others, the judgement the criticism, the fear, the anxiety..and imagine that it was all yourself..weighing down on you every second of the day..now imagine being free..and that's the future you're looking forward too now. Just take it one step at a time and don't look back to what you've been used too cause it's for the lessers now.

Philosophical thoughts
Well if everything we see in other people is just a projection of us, and everyone else is doing the exact same thing. Then that means we can't see them and they can't see us, and if one of us is smart enough to break free from the control of that, we can effortlessly influence the people still at the mercy of their own projections given that we spend a little time understanding which actions, words and what not evoke the reactions we so desire...it also unfortunately means we're all alone till we die with nothing but ourselves to interact with, at least until the ability to communicate is pushed forward really drastically by technology or psychology or something.

INSPIRATION
You know how the 4 minute mile was impossible up until 1959 when some dude broke it, and then all the sudden in 1 week after like 50 other people did it too. and no technological innovations were made...no advancements in nutrition or exercise or drugs..only thing that change is people believed it was possible. Believe guys, believe.

Favorite Quotes:
if there's something wrong, those who have the ability to take action have the responsibility to take action. - Nick Cage

In the words of louise hay, "there is no shortage of people on this planet, so why be lonely, there is no shortage of money, so why be poor?"

No one has ever become poor by giving - Anne Frank

The difference between a novice and a master is that the master has failed more times than the novice has tried. - Koro SenseiIf thou art pained by any external thing, it is not this that disturbs thee, but thy own judgment about it. And it is in thy power to wipe out this judgment now - marcus aurelius

When you open your eyes to different ways of thinking, unfortunately your social circle is going to become smaller, but you know that the quality of those friendships will be a much higher standard - Vicky (my friend)

Important definitions:
per·son·i·fi·ca·tion - the attribution of a personal nature or human characteristics to something nonhuman, or the representation of an abstract quality in human form.