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Number of ratings87 Number of reviews32 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceDec 6, 2015 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 188 People helped162 Chats458 Group support chats1,577 Listener group chats771 Forum posts742 Forum upvotes1,019
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Forever star crossed.

Pleased to remake your acquaintance. My name is Ellie, you may remember me as a Mod, Mentor, ect quite a ways back. I am elated to restart my journey after years of learning and becoming the most amazing me I could be. Please reach out if you need a kind ear.

I cant wait to make you smile :)

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A Refresher On Rule 4 in GS (About Being Overwhelmed in GS setting)
Group Support / by starcrossedellie
Last post
 June 13th, 2021
...See more Hi all! Wow it's certainly been crazy for me lately. I recently celebrated a birthday and got to travel home to see family so I haven't been around much. Happy to say now I am back and posts will continue as normal. I will also be rolling out a discussion series this weekend for both adults and teens , starting with Rule 1! Please let me know in the replies of this thread what times work best for you. So without further ado, lets continue! The rule we will be discussing today is.. Rule 4: If feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or do not feel the present environment is aiding in your personal healing, please visit our Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] page to connect with a Listener one-on-one. So... What exactly does this mean? Essentially we at 7cups we want to do everything we can to support our fellow members, but sometimes for that to happen mods must enforce boundaries with those in the rooms so it can remain a safe space for all, Not only that but it's important to remember the structure of the rooms, for example.. TCR/MCR- This room is meant for lighthearted chat only, If a mod notices that you are using TCR for support purposes they might politely ask you to visit a support room or connect 1/1 with a listener. Support Room and Topic Based Support Rooms: These rooms are support based, which means you are welcome to vent about how you are feeling there. Please try to avoid any triggering language or dialogue, If you are expressing that the support environment is not contributing positively to your mental health you may be gently prompted to seek help in a 1/1 chat with a listener. Thank you for joining us! See you soon.
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A Refresher On Rule 3 in GS. (7cups vs Crisis Resources)
Group Support / by starcrossedellie
Last post
 May 17th, 2021
...See more Welcome back everyone to our refresher posts on the rules of Group Support! My name is Eli and I am a Group Support Mentor Leader and I am hoping to make the rules more clear for those who use the group rooms. For those who have not yet seen the first two posts you can find the refresher on Being Respectful (Rule 1) here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/GroupSupportInformationandUpdates_822/ARefresherOnRule1inGSBeRespectful_246703/] and the refresher on Being Appropriate here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/GroupSupportInformationandUpdates_822/ARefresherOnRule2inGSBeAppropriate_247418/]. So! Without further ado... Today we will be discussing Rule 3: 7 Cups is not a crisis resource. If you are currently in crisis please visit this page [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis]. If you feel a participant is in a crisis, click "Refer" on one of their messages. What does this mean and why is it important? Definitions of crisis may vary due to where you may find yourself in life. For example, what 7cups defines as a crisis may be different then your own personal definition. As far as crisis is concerned on 7cups, we are not equipped to handle people who are actively suicidal, self harming, or are currently hurting or abusing others. There are a few reasons for this, mainly being that we do not have the adequate training to help guide people who are dealing with these matters. The counselors on crisis resources have gone through many many hours of training to help those in need, and will be happy to help assist those who we cannot help on 7cups. If you see someone who appears to be in crisis in the rooms, the most important thing to do is to refer their messag and also PM a Moderator on duty. Thank you all for coming and I will see you next week for our discussion on Rule 4. @ASilentObserver @kindSoul10 Crisis Resources [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis]
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A Refresher On Rule 2 in GS (Be Appropriate)
Group Support / by starcrossedellie
Last post
 May 11th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone! Welcome to this weeks refresher post about the rules in the Group Support rooms, brought to you by your Group Support Mentor Leader Eli! If you did not happen to see my last post please feel free to take a look here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/GroupSupportInformationandUpdates_822/ARefresherOnRule1inGSBeRespectful_246703/]. This week we will be discussing Rule 2. Be Appropriate: Graphic, flirtatious and sexually suggestive language, profiles, links and content are strictly prohibited. So. What does this mean? And why is it important? (Graphic Language) To break down this part of the rule it's important that we think about the comfortability of everyone in the room. Graphic content or stuff that is inherently violent or explicit can create an unwelcoming place to be for the people who spend time in the rooms, .. Since 7cups is a resource built to help guide people with various mental health challenges, it's important to be mindful that stuff like that is triggering to a lot of others and can make things uncomfortable. (Flirtatious/Sexually Explicit Language) As far as flirtatious language goes, this can also be uncomfortable to the parcipants of the rooms as well, we want to remember that 7cups is not a dating site. There are plenty of other places you can go to date, but a huge reason why we do not allow it here is because it is a distraction from the primary purpose of the site, which is offering active listening in order to help others. A good rule of thumb for Rule 2, if you wouldn't say it in front of Grandma, it probably isn't appropriate for the Group Rooms. For any clarification on if your profile picture is appropriate for the rooms, please reach out to @MidnightRaven999 Take care and see you all next week!
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Pop Up Discussions on Rules, coming soon for Teens and Adults!
Group Support / by starcrossedellie
Last post
 May 4th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone! I have some exciting news for Group Support! drum role please!!! ...... Along with the weekly posts I will also be hosting sessions in the rooms to refresh and discuss rules in Group Support. Me and the other Group Support Mentor Leaders want to be as clear as we can about what we expect regarding behavior in the rooms, so we hope that this incentive will be helpful with getting everyone on board on what is okay, and what is not. I will be putting out more information shortly. @kindSoul10 @ASilentObserver
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A Refresher On Rule 1 in GS. (Be Respectful)
Group Support / by starcrossedellie
Last post
 May 10th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone! Recently I have been speaking with other Group Support leaders and we've collectively decided that as a whole we could use a refresher on the rules of Group Support. I notice that sometimes things are confusing and that sometimes we are not entirely sure what the rules are, so I decided I will be rolling out a series of posts on the rules of the Group Support rooms every week. This week we will be discussing Rule 1. Be Respectful: This a place for kind, supportive, open-minded conversations only. So. What does this mean? Essentially what this rule is asking is that everyone in the rooms is kind to each other, even despite differences you may have with others. For example, if you are in the community rooms, there are people who come there from all walks of life. You may not agree with someone or how they live, but it's important to make sure that you are not talking down to someone because of it. 7cups is a supportive resource that welcomes people as long as they agree to respect everyone whether they are a Mod, RS, Listener, or Member. Why is this rule important? This rule is important because it helps how 7cups functions as a whole.. If there is no respect it can make people feel uncomfortable being in the rooms, and can make the platform feel unwelcoming which is definitely not what we hope to accomplish here. In life sometimes you may not always have the same viewpoints or beliefs as someone, but that doesn't mean that they are wrong or are not worthy of respect. Last minute thoughts If you are having trouble following this rule in the rooms please do not engage in confrontation or fights, you can always use your personal mute buttons or take a step back and participate in self care offsite. @kindSoul10 , @ASilentObserver
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Member Appreciation!
Group Support / by starcrossedellie
Last post
 April 14th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone! My name is Eli and for those who don't know me I am a Group Support Mentor Leader. Today we are celebrating some of our wonderful members in group support who have gotten recognized for their positive acheivements and behaviors in the group room. Without further ado, lets get to celebrating! @AmusingMuse a fellow member would like to recognize you , here is what they have to say : Despite her struggles, or perhaps in spite of them, AmusingMuse joins the Sharing Circle on a consistent basis to support those who are also going through struggles. Her strength, bravery, and courage is admirable and an inspiration! Next up we have @AsexualBiromanticFriend, A listener would like to recognize you for the following : You're such an amazing person to talk to, really funny and you brighten up my day every time you send me a message. Next we have @stunTic, A fellow member would like to say to you : Thank you so much for being so kind to me. I loved the support you provided. It was heart warming. I feel much better then I was feeling before I entered the group chat. Thanks once again stun❤️. Next up , @ALovelyFriend ! One of moderators has this to say to you : Lia recently helped bring the room back to a positive flow by hosting a popup on kindness after a disruption that caused some upset amongst the room. Great thinking Lia! Next we have @Fullhousesystem , One of our moderators has this to say to you : Always willing to educate people and answer questions respectfully about DID, super kind caring and thoughtful person. Well done! And now, @WarriorHeartsSystem , One of our moderators would like to recognize you, they have this to say : Always doing a wonderful job educating people on things like DID. @iromt36 , A listener would like to say this to you, : You're so strong! thanks for reaching out, I'm proud of you Our next appreciation goes to @HumorousCircle3786, A listener would like to say this to you, : Thanks for being so kind and welcoming. The next person we are celebrating is @Gloomybubble, A listener has something positive to say! Here it is! : Thanks for supporting Me. Next we have @hillsideblues, a fellow member appreciates you and here's what they have to say! : You are very kind. Thank you. Its not easy to be kind and generous. It was great to meet you. @MidnightGlow15, a listener has these positive words to share! : Keep doing you! And never let anyone bring you down❤️ And last but certainly not least we have @AiMeraki, a fellow member would like to say this to you, Thank you so much for being so kind and understanding to everyone! you never failed to make me feel understood. I appreciate it so much. You always brightens my mood even by just being there. I just wanted to say thank you for all that you do and that you're awesome and I mean it ✨ Well done to all of our members, keep up the excellent work! @ASilentObserver @kindSoul10 @Hope @Heather225
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Events Team is Coming Back and Needs You!
Group Support / by starcrossedellie
Last post
 March 5th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone, We have a very exciting announcement to let you all know of today. *drum roll please* 🥁 We are excited to announce that the Group Support Team is working to bring back the Events team. What is the team all about you may ask? Great question! Well, the Events team hosts fun get-togethers in the Special Events room. This could be anything from games, icebreakers, and light-hearted events. Occasionally we may also host special events like for holidays! Now here is the deal. We are looking for team members to help make the events team come to life. If you are interested in hosting and can spare 1 hour a week consistently, please consider applying with this application form: https://forms.gle/2TFnSqc8HvkKgxav8 What are the requirements to join the team? For listeners: Verified listener badge Loyal Friend : (for first approved positive text review from a member) Open Door : (for completing five 1-1s chats with a member) Listener Oath : (by posting here https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ChatSupportResources_61/ListenerOath_117/1/ ) For Members: No Newbie Badge : (your account is older than 30 days) Friendly Face : (you finished 100 Group Chats and earned 300 Compassion Hearts) Honest Voice: (for leaving the first text review for a Listener) Strong Bond (for completing 100 conversations with the same Listener) Member Oath (by posting here https://www.7cups.com/forum/NewbieHub_27/7CupsofTeaMissionCoreValues_207/MemberOathAllEncouragedtoParticipate_7447/1/) If interested or if you have any questions please get in touch with @AlwaysEli or @kindsoul10 and consider signing up for the team [http://forms.gle/2TFnSqc8HvkKgxav8]. We look forward to hearing from you. ♥️
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(outdated) Call for Mod Buddies and Room Supporter Buddies !
Group Support / by starcrossedellie
Last post
 November 8th, 2020
...See more Latest form here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfEUfEDQZdThb6Glhts7CenPpJP5IlypeC_s0yxtAak6HGGhQ/viewform]! Hello everyone, I hope that your weekend is going well. I want to bring to everyone's attention a couple new programs that we launched recently. It is the RS and Mod Buddy Programs. These programs are a good opportunity to help someone who might be newer or less experienced acclimate to roles within the Group Support network. I have been going through the forms and I notice that matching people is a challenge as a lot of new Room Supporters/Mods don't seem to know about our Buddying process! That is why I am making this post, so we can get more people involved so I can begin to pair people up. This is a great learning experience , and also an opportunity to make new friends. Below I will attach the appropriate forms below to be a buddy or have a buddy! You cannot always go it alone! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf6TjitBHZ1LbHrR0wUUrN7USooNKnxMcliueVtaZbXtIJjmA/viewform?vc=0&c=0&w=1&flr=0&gxids=7757 ^ This link is ONLY for people who have a Room Supporter badge or are a Community Centered or Global Mod seeking an experienced buddy to help them out. Please do not fill this out if you do not have the role. The below link is a link for if you are an experienced RS/Mod and would like to help someone else who is new or struggling. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScFoRIWusxtMTzLgm8hdAZ3lDNSquZaPOX4RTVZ5PRMxaswDQ/viewform?vc=0&c=0&w=1&flr=0&gxids=7757 [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScFoRIWusxtMTzLgm8hdAZ3lDNSquZaPOX4RTVZ5PRMxaswDQ/viewform?vc=0&c=0&w=1&flr=0&gxids=7757%C2%A0] Best wishes, Eli
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One of the nicest people I have ever met! I'm very happy I spoke with Ellie this evening because she really helped me. Thank you!
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