softFern50
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Proficient 8
Rating
Number of ratings158
Number of reviews65
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceMar 4, 2017
Last activein last month
GenderMale
PathStep 575
People helped469
Chats1,807
Group support chats28
Listener group chats28
Forum posts166
Forum upvotes185
Bio
Hey guys:) I'm an intern here who loves listening to people talk about whatever they feel they want to talk about. I've been through a vast amount of experiences and personal connections and have learned from them all. I'm a positive and open minded person who feels good by making others feel safe and like they're not alone. Send me a smoke signal why don't you friends!
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Feedback & Reviews
Awesome listener, just what I needed!
Nice listener good and kind
Good listener and helpful.
Great listener. Great insight
literally amazing and so welcoming!
The best up here
Amazing person, very caring and kind towards me. Listens attentively
Super helpful chat, willing to listen to everything I had to say and very good active listening skills. Incredible person and amazing listener!
He was super helpful, understanding and kind. I would 100% recommend
He was so much Supportive, Understanding, Helpful, Attentive and Compassionate throughout the whole conversation. Thank You So Much 🤗❤️
Awesome :) Friendly :)
hes really an amazing person
-sana
She is a wonderful listener
He is a kind human being
Nice to hear from you
This person is an awesome listener. He talked to me while I was nervous and doing something important.
Really nice talk. It feels good that someone understands you
This is a really great listener!
Thank you so much for listenning to me. You rock. :)
Great openness even to the most contentious of topics.
Very sweet and caring.
Wonderful listener. Asked great questions, helped walk me through some tough feelings. Appreciated all the positive reinforcement a lot.
Just helpful and was helpful last chat
So kind, understanding and helpful. Reaffirmed things I was already thinking and helped me think of solutions.
Awesome listener
Thanks so much for being nice and relatable.
Dudes the bomb!!!
Kind person, and interestingly had insight into my situation
great helper, good conversationalist
I genuinely feel okay again. My issue isn’t weighing on my mind
Smart, receptive and insightful guy - great chat
Sweet, intelligent, understanding
thanks for listening to me rant !
They're so nice and supportive and not judging at all I'm very happy with this conversation
Thanks Fern !!
Very good listener.
Very nice :) 👍🏻👍🏻
Really helpful
he is cool to talk too
Approved by depression and anxiety patient :) 100% recommended
Easy conversation and he does his best to understand and help with whatever situation you are in.
Thank you!!!!
Good
SoftFern50 was great. They truly listened to me and helped me talk about a really difficult issue. I felt much better after our conversation. I appreciated our chat very much.
very insightful
Really nice, and caring and understanding. Not judgmental.
Really empathetic, felt like talking to a friend, super patient
great guy chat, thanks!
Great and very empathetic!
Excellent listener
I felt so much better after talking with Fern. I felt valid and at home. I felt supported and cared for for the first time in a while and that's exactly what I needed.
Great listener. Also helped me think of other things I didn't consider
Very sensual An compassionate nked
sweet
Very Helpful and Kind
Amazing listener
Thank you!
A good listener that makes you feel comfortable to talk
Nice!
Great
Really nice and caring was a huge help and got alot off my shoulders
I reached out to this person about a health issue that has been getting me down and affecting my relationship. They gave me very helpful advice and was so, so friendly. They may not have put an end to my problem, but they definitely put an end to my tears. After cracking a few Harry Potter puns, I'd almost forgotten why I was upset. Definitely going to bed a happy woman now.
One of the best people I have talked to in a while. Seriously gave great advice and was able to help me rationale my thoughts and process them. I can't believe how much of a help he was, 10/10!! Anyone would be lucky to have him listen to your problems.
softFern50 was great, thank you
Thank you!
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