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sincereTortoise4108
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Relationship problem!
Relationship Stress / by sincereTortoise4108
Last post
 January 22nd, 2021
...See more I love my boyfriend very much and he undoubtedly loves myself and our daughter. For the last 15 months I’ve been a sahm with our daughter and he worked (7 hour shifts 5 days a week) He never did anything on weekend or helped with much besides cat litter once a week (I cook, clean, care for our daughter, and do all the shopping) . I was forgiving and forgetting even though I was becoming very stressed. Last month we where informed that his job would be closing from the impact of covid, I was devastated as we are on social assistance already and his job got our food for the month. I told him countless times that he should be looking as much as possible for a job, he checked indeed but really wasn’t looking. I’ve now picked up a job with scentsy so I can still be at home with our daughter but that doesn’t make very much (though I love the job) His final day was the other day he officially has no job and I cried so much because he hasn’t put any effort into finding another one. He stayed up until 5am playing video games and slept until 2pm I’m very worried he is just going to continue to live like this and we will be in trouble it so! I’m always believe in sticking together through thick and thin and trying our best but when it comes to our daughter I want what’s best for her. I’m just very confused on what to do at this point in time. I’m thinking of giving him a time limit to find a job or I’ll move out with our daughter but I reall don’t want that to happen
Just need advice
Relationship Stress / by sincereTortoise4108
Last post
 January 22nd, 2021
...See more I love my boyfriend very much and he undoubtedly loves myself and our daughter. For the last 15 months I’ve been a sahm with our daughter and he worked (7 hour shifts 5 days a week) He never did anything on weekend or helped with much besides cat litter once a week (I cook every meal, clean everything, do all the shopping, and care for our daughter). I was forgiving and forgetting even though I was becoming very stressed with him being neglecting and not wanting to connect with us at all. Last month we where informed that his job would be closing from the impact of covid, I was devastated as we are on social assistance already and his job got our food for the month. I told him countless times that he should be looking as much as possible for a job, he checked indeed but really wasn’t looking. I’ve now picked up a job with scentsy so I can still be at home with our daughter but that doesn’t make very much (though I love the job) His final day was the other day he officially has no job and I cried so much because he hasn’t put any effort into finding another! He stayed up until 5am playing video games and slept until 2pm I’m very worried he is just going to continue to live like this and we will be in trouble it so! I’m always believe in sticking together through thick and thin and trying our best but when it comes to our daughter I want what’s best for her. I’m just very confused on what to do at this point in time. I’m thinking of giving him a time limit to find a job or I’ll move out with our daughter but I reall don’t want that to happen
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