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"Nothing in the world is ever completely wrong. Even a stopped clock is right twice a day"
“The only thing standing between you and your goal is the false story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it.”
"Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion"

You may think all hope is lost, that you have hit the rock bottom, that you cant take it anymore, but then remember this is the best place to be in cos from here there is only one way to go that is up and into the sky, now nothing can go wrong all that will happen is your life is gonna get awesome, and you don't have to wait for the sun to rise cos now you are gonna ride into sunrise with your head held high and i am gonna help you do that.

to quote Donald Trump Get going. Move forward. Aim High. Plan a takeoff. Don't just sit on the runway and hope someone will come along and push the airplane. It simply won't happen. Change your attitude and gain some altitude. Believe me, you'll love it up here.”

i am 24 years old, I enjoy reading books, watching movies, writing poems and talking to people, i wont say i had a nice life nor would i say i suffered a lot but then i understand your needs and i will be there for you (whenever i am online) and help you to best of my ability.

I specialize in helping people who were abused and have faced trauma in their lives, i shall hold your hands and guide you to paradise

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Honouring Suzanne's one year on 7 cups !!!!
Positivity & Gratitude / by shadeslayer
Last post
 May 22nd, 2015
...See more @Suzanne, many of us wanted to take the time to congratulate you on your 1 year anniversary and show you how much we appreciate you and all you do here!!!@Yannickosaur: Awesome Suzzy. You've been doing great for the 12 days I was here, keep that up, that's an order. *Confetti everywhere*@MizMickey: Twas once a wee Irish owl called Suzanne Who was the newest listener in the land! But a year has gone past, so now at long last... Happy Birthday, and cue up the band!!!😁 If only we could throw you a party with a band- you deserve one!Congrats, Suzanne! 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎂🎈🎈🎈🎈@xoflyy: Suzy Owl!!! You're the owliest owl I know ^_^ and I love my little Suzy Owl! You're the cutest, friendliest, funniest, most helpful owl around. I smile every time I see you or think of you! And you're super supportive which is soo nice of you! It's amazing how big your little owlie heart can be! You're always willing to help everyone out and make the chatroom a little more cheerful with your cute and troublesome antics! I also love how you check up on me, thats so kind of you! I love having you around, I'm gonna miss you soooo much! Seriously, it makes me sad to think you're going to be away soon! Gah! But anyways, I loooooove you! Stay wonderful little Suzy owl ! < 3@pm229: I love you Suzanne! You are one of the sweetest and most caring people here on 7cups. It's been a great pleasure knowing you sweety! Remember that I am always here for you. Hugs and kisses!P.S. This lady loves that Irish Owl to the moon and back!@Midsummernightsdream1: Dearest Suzzzzy....Happy Anniversary love!!!! Stay awesome and sassy :D@TheWayForward: You are awesome and amazing and I am glad that you are part of 7 cups.HAPPY 7 CUPS ANNIVERSARY!!!!!Thank you for being your wonderful self and helping so many people with your kindness, compassion and care. Your an inspiration to many.Anonymous: CONGRATULATIONS!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!! sending you *Balloons* *hugs* and *love*Anonymous: Suz, my favourite little owlie! Congrats on making it a year here!You always brighten up those listener rooms! And I know that when you're there, you're guaranteed to put me in a great mood!*cuddles* for you little one! You're doing great :)@Apoorva Khatri: It's nice for you being here .You are the most mature listener. Sorry if I ever hurt you.Anonymous: Happy 7cups B'day Suzanne ! #LoveTheWayYouRoll@yourvision: Hay! Congrats, one year is wonderful, keep up the good work. Lots of love -yourvision@Letmehelpyou210: Congrats on completing one year with 7 Cups!!!Lots of love and hugs! @DreamerPanda: Hey Suzanne,Thanks a ton for being so wonderful person and helping out people here.Keep up the good work and inspiring us,God Bless !!@NobleLion: Glad you've made it a year! You have a unique presence that restores some humanity to the rooms and possibly the community.@StormDancer: Suz!!! Congrats on the 1 year * throws around glitter * Thank you for all the work you do here.. You rock <3@JennaHere: Suzanne!!! 💗Congratulations on your 1 year anniversary on 7cups. It's been a lovely time on here with you with your typos :p, support, sincere care, and great humor. Looking forward to spending another year with you!@Gracey: congratulations on your 1 year anniversary!@Adam: Glad to have you apart of the team. You do such an amazing job it's a real pleasure to work alongside someone as amazing as you. Take care and keep up the amazing work. Thank you@Jessica: Owlie! You've been here for one year? No way! *throws an octopus at you* Happy 1 year anniversary on 7 Cups! I'm so glad you're here and that I got the chance to meet you.Love ya, hugs, Jessica- http://vocaroo.com/i/s1HNkCxxeptC@TheDeaningOfLife: Congratulations on one year, Suzanne! I'm sure it's been a heck of a ride for you, and here's to many more years on the site doing the awesome job you do!@sensiblegrapefruit: Suzanne is a lovely person. Always there to help others, be it members or listeners. Super sweet and funny. Love you. :)@fluffyunicorn84: My Owl,*tickles chest* You are so adorable, and lighten the chat room up for me. I always @smile when I see you are online. A whole year old WOW you are amazing person. Do not forget that or let anyone tell you different.All time I have been on site you have been nothing but helpful, funny and caring. Thank you for being part of making this site as wonderful and special as it is .@MonBon: Suzyy!! Thanks so much for being such an awesome listener here. You are truly a superstar :D I can't believe you've been here for a year already! 365 days of stellar work and it shows :) @vasishta : suzzy *hugs tight* i love you more than all the gems and roses on this earth and more, you are a great friend, a wonderful person, a really fabulous owl and a kick ass listener, you have been here from my day one and you will be in my life for the next 7 births !!! owl i love a lot *hugs again* *gives you loads of love* Thank you @jennahere for all the help and thank you all for contributing to suzanne’s wonderful year
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We Love You Jenna -hugs-
Positivity & Gratitude / by shadeslayer
Last post
 August 2nd, 2015
...See more Dear @jennahere *hugs tight* you have been going through a hard time and have a lot going in your life and this is our small way of of showing how much we love you and that we are here for you, anytime you need up just holler !!!       @Elle22 : Wishing you the best during this challenging time Jenna!   @AutumnSky : Hi Jenna, Hugs from me to you and only good, positive, and gentle thoughts headed your Way. Autumn @midsummernightsdream1 : You know I love you coz you're a real sweetheart...whatever it is you're going through, I pray you find the strength and courage to go on. heads up! All good things you've done is coming back your way! <3 Take care.   @sensiblegrapefruit :I am so glad to have met Jenna. Ze is the most helpful person I have known. Extremely caring and ALWAYS has a place in their heart for others. The world is a much much better place with their presence. Love you lots. All the best, and wish you get better soon. :)   @JFunny : Hey jenna,I don't know exactly what you are going through, but I know it's been one day and I already miss you, you're an amazing person, everyone likes you, that's why this is here right? Please come back soon =D Estamos todos á tua espera, melhora rápido ;) @MizMickey : J-Cube, 7 Cups is *not* the same place without you. You are loved and missed. Please keep our love and support close to your heart and know we are all thinking of you many times a day. Good luck on your exams as well, I swear I have no idea how you manage to do all you do! You are a Superhero, no two ways about it. Which just leaves one question. What color cape do you want? 😎 @TheWayForward : Well I haven't known you very long Jenna, but you bring an amazing light to this world and touch the lives of so many because you are sooo super kind, amazing, sweet, funny, smart, generous, beautiful, awesome, selfless and so much more than all the words can describe. You are so special and your in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you make a speedy recovery and that you know how much your loved and cared about. *hugs xs infinity* @Luka : we believe in you Jenna, I hope this finds you well :) @Acinonyx : Jenna! Hi! I hope you're having a great day today, and that you know how appreciated you are and how much you mean to us in the 7 Cups community. I always really enjoy seeing you in the support rooms and around the site--you're an amazing person, and I hope things look up for you soon!   @Gracey : Hello Jenna! I just wanted to let you know how amazing you are and how much I admire your strength and determination! I hope you are doing okay and we look forward to your return to 7 cups! It's not the same without you, missing you lots and lots, sending you all my love and cuddles. Grace <3 @DreamerPanda : Jenna i believe in you dear :) You will get through this one too. Wish you lots of Love :3 God Bless ! @Angelwings2 : I think you already know how much i love and respect you as a fellow listener and friend! You are the strongest, most courageous person i know. You are a fighter and are going to beat this with flying colors! Im here for you always! @BrookieLou96 : Jenna you are soooo amazing! you are one of the first listeners i really connected with when i first became a listener and i can't thank you enough for all you have done for me personally and for this site. you are truly an MVP!!! I hope you are able to recover quickly and get back on your feet and down the road to normal life asap! we love you Jenna!!!! thank you for *everything*!!!!! <3 <3   @StormDancer : Jenna I'm sorry that life is being un fair. You deserve the best my dear friend! You do such a great job here and I wish we could help you in the same way! Sending love and hugs all the way from Australia :) <3 <(^_^<) <3   @laura : Hi Jenna! i am thinking of you this week and am sending you so much support! Please know you are loved by our community! Lean on us :)   @Kash216 : Jenna, you have always been so responsive and caring towards everyone, and I'm so glad I met you on here. I love you and you are fab. <3 And get well soon Hun! @pm229 : Jenna, sweety, you have always been a joy to talk to. You have helped me when i was a new listener and you never got tired of answering my questions. You are the sweet and loving and caring. Love you!!! Hugs!!!   @Gouws13 : Always here for you,Jenna. You're an amazing person. @DBjjMom :I know that you and I don't know each other well. However, each time I come into the chat rooms, you are always there and always happy to see me, You greet me and chat with me. You have even offered your support to me. I appreciate you welcoming me to the team. I want you to know that I care about you and that if you would ever need support, I am here for you as well. Love you Jenna! -Your 'Mom'   @Lissymay : Hope you feel better soon jenna thank you for being here helping people and being a great listener and a really good friend to everyone here @HopefulTree78 : Jenna Jenna Jenna Jenna is simply the beshht. Ze has to be one of the kindest people on this site. I feel proud that I know them. <3 Jenna. I totally <3 you.   @Fluffyunicorn84 : I not sure any amount of words can actually, say what I wish to say. Jenna you are truely inspirational. You are always there no matter what with most awesome hugs, You are the awesomest friend anyone could ever wish for. Your presence just makes for warm welcome atmosphere. I love you loads, and wish you speedy recovery and best of luck .*fluffy hugs*   The site has just not been the same without you around so much, however the commitment you give us all and all you do now needs be put into Jenna. ♥ @Johnny20 : Jenna, I just want to say that we love you very much! We are wishing you a quick recovery. Thank you for exist and making part of our lives.   @vasishta : jenna jenna i dont even know where to begin *hugs tight*, you are my bestest friend here and in real life too, you are someone i can absolutely count on, someone who has saved my life twice, someone who has cheered me up staying awake even if you are feeling sleepy, someone who understands me in all possible ways, jenna if there was a way i would gladly take your place and face it all for you, *takes all your pain * JENNA for you a 1000 times over and more !!! *hugs more* love you loads <3   Anonymous Anonymous : I hope everything tells out well for you, Jenna. You are always there for us. Now it's time for us to be there for you. If you need anything, just let us know :). You rock   Anonymous : *hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs * Anonymous : lov ya Jenna u r 1 in a million. Anonymous :Jenna. Even when going through what you are going through, you are still willing to help out as much as you can. Such endurance and strength. Vocaroo for you @wonderthings :http://vocaroo.com/i/s0B5vTaIudIJ Anon :http://vocaroo.com/i/s0aNHSUvwv1Y xoflyy : http://vocaroo.com/i/s1XmM4Ncgipk dis is my recording for the beloved Jenna <3     Thank you @suzanne for the awesome idea  Thank you @rebeccaH @mizmickey @fluffyunicorn84 for helping me with this   Thank you @Elle22 @AutumnSky @midsummernightsdream1 @sensiblegrapefruit @JFunny @MizMickey @TheWayForward @wonderthings @Luka @Acinonyx @Gracey @DreamerPanda @Angelwings2 @BrookieLou96 @xoflyy @StormDancer @laura @Kash216 @pm229 @Gouws13 @DBjjMom @Lissymay @HopefulTree78 @Johnny20 @Fluffyunicorn84 for adding your love !!!!
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good listener
Great
Good
Very relatable
a kind soul. understanding. helped me. im calmer. felt like a real friend somewhere..
Shadeslayer was great will talk to him again

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Thanks, nice talking to you
Thanks I got sum idea....:)
Helped me to destroy the fog in my life that breked me since i was in high school,10/10 would talk again
Good Vampire ;)
Coool talking to him. Solved my problem. Felt nice talking with him
Vasishta is an amazing listener! Just when I thought I had nowhere to turn Vas was there for me!! I wish more listeners were like Vasishta. He is so giving, accepting, a great listener, and definitely gave me exactly what I needed and so much more. I cannot wait to talk to him again! Beyond that I am speechless.
I truly felt all hope was gone and Vasishta brought me back beyond what I ever expected.
vas est attachant et chaleureux. il sera toujours là quand tu en auras besoin.
Thank you for being there for me. :)
You're the right amount of glitter and sparkles. :)
Darling, you really helped me. I was feeling awful, and see, now I'm so better. You'll ever be in my heart. Thanks so much.
Vasishta has been so helpful! You have really changed my day around!! Thanks for everything!!
listened very well
Love you so much
Vas was great. I started relapsing and he helped me calm down and get through it. He was very caring and responded in seconds. Will definitely talk to him again.
RECOMMENDED LISTENER. 7...great guy...Thanks for being there for me...your kindness and wisdom is so much appreciated. Thanks for helping me a lot.
most excellent listener. I highly recommend him.
Vasishata has done a fantastic job in advising and helping me cope with my predicaments. She exhibits great composure and insight. She'll make a wonderful psychologist in the future!
I honestly don't know where to start..Vas your amazing, your one of the only listeners who didn't give up talking to me when the ran out of words to say. Im so greatful that such an amazing person like you became a listener. You make coming on this site worth coming on. Your such an inspiration. *squeezes you*
Vasishta did a great job. I am glad that I was able to talk to her. She reassured me with my decision. Thank you Vasishta.
He was very articulate and I appreciated speaking with him.
Vasishta listened to all my problems, gave really honest and helpful answers, was very quick to answer me back, was very professional, and made me feel like I was talking to someone I knew and could trust.
I felt hear but more so I'm leaving this conversation with new life goals that I plan to take action on. Thank you Vasishta.
Great Listener!
Very good listener, I had a lot to get off my mind and was able to talk about it all. Gave me helpful advice and I felt understood well.
hope to speak more with this listner
Vasishta is the BEST listener I have ever experienced. He took the time to listen to EVERYTHING I needed and I knew he understood EVERYTHING I was going through. He is caring, supportive, and gave me everything I needed plus more! I am not just in a better place due to the reason I came here, but I feel I am in a better place in life!
Vas is one of the nicest people I have ever spoken to, he has the kindest heart and soul, he can help you see clearly and brightly.
I believe he one of the best here, he truly knows how to listen and to make you smile.

Vas took me from my darkest time and led me to the light :)
You helped me so much
You helped a lot
Vasishta has been really helpful today. I was having a bad day and every word helped me get a bit better as the minutes went by. Thank you for all of your kind words, you made my day :)
Vasishta was very helpful and replied to my messages quickly. He listened really well and gave me great advice.
Vasishta is an excellent listener. He patiently heard everything I had to say and helped me figure out solutions to what I came looking for. I did not expect this on an online platform with a stranger, but I am more than happy to have bumped into him. Thank you so much for being there, listening to me and talking to me.
Really nice, understanding, helpful, and fun to talk to. Thanks Vasishta!
Vasishta was very kind and encouraging and supportive.
Vasishta helped me feel better about myself and my situation.
He was really very good.
Really good listener.
patient, nice, trying to help, i even got a hug
Great listener, helped me let out a lot of things, which had been building up inside me. He understood the root of the problem, and telling him everything was so much better than telling the person I was angry at! Keep it up, vashishta! And neuroplasticity is *amazing*
Vasishta is so sweet and nice. He listened and didn't pressure or judge me. Thank you.
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Vasishta, You are the most caring, kind, honest, gentle, passionate and loving listener I have ever talked to. You made me cry with tears of joy. Talking to you is like talking to a listening God who is always their and doesn't leave till the job is done. I love you ❤️ Khaliey!
Thanks, nice talking to you
Helpful, and tried to relate to me.
Gave me great tips to relax and spent time listening and talking with me felt like this person knew me a long time!
amazing person and great listener... great response and gives full attention... Made my day with really sweet and understanding chat...
nice and a good listener
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