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She meant so much to me
Relationship Stress / by sensitiveSugar8860
Last post
 April 1st, 2019
...See more I'm posting this here because I don't know where else would fit better. The thing is we weren't fully in a relationship... So this girl and I had met a while back and knew and liked each other for a long time. We basically have all the same interests and are very similar personality-wise. A few months back we got to talking and we established that we do actually like each other a bit more than friends, but we were both a bit weary of getting ahead of ourselves due to individual past experiences. So we took things slow. We went on dates together, started writing more frequently. Here comes the problem. My mind decided to view all of this as if we truly already were in a relationship. I started loving her more and more and I started to make plans in my head of how our future would look (there were some issues that would have come up down the road so I started thinking about possible solutions). All was going well, but no talk of a full relationship because we had agreed so. From one day to the next she tells me she met someone else and my world just crumbles. This was a week ago now and I'm still in a bad shape. I really did love her with all my heart and for once in a long time, I was actually happy. I loved being around her and spending time with her and I was so sure she loved it as well. She seemed to feel bad about what happened because feelings can't be controlled and she really wishes to remain friends. This kind of situation has happened multiple times to me before, each worse than the last, so I told her I need some time and distance between us in order to heal and collect myself. I'm trying to get better but whenever I'm not focused my mind wanders to how happy I was with her and then the doubt, fear and anger of her being with someone else she only just met...Should I write her? Fight for her? Wait for her? I really want to be with her and spend as much time possible with her, but I don't want to make things worse for myself either...
My meds are having side effects
Relationship Stress / by sensitiveSugar8860
Last post
 December 28th, 2017
...See more I've been taking a low dosage of Cymbalta daily to help against my depression and anxiety since September. And now I think I'm experiencing some rather uncommon side effects. Maybe someone here has had a similar issue or may know something on this subject. FYI I've already scheduled an appointment with my psychiatrist and I'll discuss this in further detail with him, but I'd like to know what you guys think. So a couple days ago I met this nice girl on an adult website and we hit it off quickly, enjoying each others bodies over the internet. We'd send each other videos of us masturbating before we'd live video chat until completion. There was only one small problem every time so far. I never managed to climax. She came, so I'm glad about that, but this is the first time I've not been able to reach an orgasm from masturbating and it wasn't like I wasn't attracted to her. I looked into this online, describing the situtation and what I found is that I might be suffering from a "delayed orgasm". One possible cause for that can be medication, so I checked up on Cymbalta, the only medication I take and turns out Cymbalta, as many other antidepressants and anti anxiety medications can cause this due to how the medication works in the brain. I guess my question is, apart from seeing if I can change my medication does anyone here have any thoughts on what I described? Am I perhaps totally wrong? What do you guys think?
Talk about dreams?
Healthy Living / by sensitiveSugar8860
Last post
 June 4th, 2018
...See more I had a very weird/distressing dream recently and I was wondering where here I might best make a post about it and sleeping and dreams in general, since there's no real Sleep or Dream section here... What are your suggestions?
I had to end it, but hate myself for it
Relationship Stress / by sensitiveSugar8860
Last post
 September 18th, 2017
...See more So just today I broke up with my Long Distance Girlfriend of 4-ish months. It was very rough and NOT a joint decision. As far as I can tell she hates me now, but I think that's for the better, so she can get over me quicker. It hurts so bad and I loved her so much. But when I had another weak moment, as it's been happening fairly often these days, instead of comforting me she started to yell and call me a literal baby, all in the name of speaking the truth. I asked her to stop and told her there are other ways of telling the truth and sometimes a little white lie is ok, too. But she insisted I needed to hear it. During the conversation I cried at about four separate times. And this wasn't the first fight we've had or the first time we were close to breaking up, only the other times it was her who wanted to leave me. Did I mess up? Am I wrong? I can't stop thinking about her and how I'm a total idiot. If anyone out there has some advice, please, please help me. I don't want to lose a years worth of progress.
Forming a relationship
Relationship Stress / by sensitiveSugar8860
Last post
 February 8th, 2017
...See more How do you do that? Until now I've only ever been able to become a good friend of everyone but never anything more. Usually the girl I'm interested in will soon be in a relationship with someone else shortly after I've developed feelings. I guess my question is "How do you make someone love you?"
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