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selfdisciplinedPenny281
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Growth is a journey, not a destination. Every step, big or small, brings us closer to who we’re meant to be.
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I’ve always been the one people turned to for support—a caretaker, a problem-solver. On the outside, I seemed to have it all together, managing responsibilities and staying strong for others. But beneath the surface, I was battling depression and ADHD, struggling to keep up with the expectations I placed on myself.


For years, I minimized my own needs, believing that seeking help was a sign of weakness. It wasn’t until I reached a breaking point that I realized I couldn’t keep going like this.


Asking for help was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, but it saved my life. Through therapy, medication, and a commitment to self-care, I’ve learned to manage my mental health and give myself the same compassion I offer to others.


My journey is ongoing, but I’ve found strength in vulnerability and hope in knowing that I’m not alone. I’m here to listen, share, and support others who are walking a similar path.

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Has anyone just used Noni instead of a Therapist
50 & Over Community / by selfdisciplinedPenny281
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November 1st
...See more I'm just curious if anyone has just used Noni instead of a human therapist.  I went through several bleak periods in my life when I used therapists and I found most of them useless. Dont even get me started on the prescribers! I felt like my own decision to improve my mental health was the starting point towards progress and taking medication.  The only thing I found useful was doing IOP where all we did was follow the DBT book.  Had one of my useless therapists actually told me about DBT or CBT, I could have gotten better faster. In anyevent, ALL of my interactions with Noni are a good use of my time.  She's fast and impactful.  I find myself saving up the use of her for days when I don't feel so good.  However I feel like I could benefit from speaking with her daily and I've been considering getting the subscription for $100. Has anyone gone this route? I'll also add that I'm now dealing with my daughter who is having some mental health issues and I put her in therapy and I'm again finding it pointless and useless.  I'm trying to find her a good therapist, so I actually don't have it in the budget to have both of us in therapy and my PCP seems totally willing to write my scripts for free.
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Please Remind Me to Be Assertive!
50 & Over Community / by selfdisciplinedPenny281
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August 23rd
...See more I just got a job offer for my second job.  Yay!  I was really hoping to get $30 an hour.  I did tell them I was willing to take 25-30.  They offered me $26. Everything I've read tells me its ok to ask for more.  I'm just nervous to ask.  What approach would you take to ask for more?
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Am I just depressed or is it menopause?
Women's Issues / by selfdisciplinedPenny281
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June 12th
...See more I've been in menopause for a few years now.  For most of my life I have struggled with depression and been diagnosed multiple times with ADHD and dysthymia.  Once I hit menopause, I found other women I knew were experiencing depression, but they said it was depression caused by menopause. For the past few years I've had a much harder time dealing with my depression.  I was in outpatient therapy, multiple medications and tons of therapy sessions.  I've gotten better after hitting a real low, but not that much better, I'm still depressed.  I'm starting to get curious how much of my depression might be caused by menopause. Has anyone in the group experienced an onset of depression from menopause?  Or had menopause harmone therapy relieve them of depression symptoms?
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