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selfdisciplinedLime8972
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How to stop oversharing?
ADHD Support / by selfdisciplinedLime8972
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January 24th
...See more Hello guys, I'm not officially diagnosed with ADHD but I wanted to ask does anyone have advice on how to stop oversharing?  I feel like I'm constantly talking or sharing too much, way more than the usual, it is almost as if I feel uncomfortable with silence? I get worried maybe that someone might think I'm boring so I try to fill in the silence? I'm also too honest so I find myself having to say everything in my mind (As if, if the person doesn't have X idea of me in their head then I cannot relax). I find myself trying to justify and discussing the same things over and over again to the point where people probably get tired and don't understand why I can't let go of 1 topic. Does anyone else experience this? Has anything helped you?
Bulimia and binge eating
Eating Disorder Support / by selfdisciplinedLime8972
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November 15th, 2023
...See more Hello All, TW. Dieting, bingeing/purging I need some help please. Allow me to give you context first, I grew up obese and would eat all the time not knowing when to stop. In high school I tried to lose weight by going on short term diets that would most often end in bingeing episodes. I’m not sure why I thought it would be smart to join the online eating community to “get inspiration” and act like I have an ED, I started following anorexics and bulimics in hopes of being like them. I then learned how to purge, I hated the narrative of losing control around food I felt it didn’t make me a “victim”. So I started forcing myself to purge, I disliked it and still do, it’s not something I enjoy doing, I would even sometimes wait 2-4hours before doing it, to specify, I don’t feel the urge to naturally do it after I binge. I want to also specify that I’m overweight, despite this I was told I had bulimia by doctors 2 years ago. This just made me feel like a fraud and made me force purge even more to prove I had it. Regardless, from this time I had planned my recovery but here I am almost 2 years later, in the exact same position of that obese girl who is unable to stop eating. I feel very frustrated I feel like all my efforts are gone. It’s been months I’ve returned to my binge eating habits and I can feel the weight pile on. I try my best to keep my meals balanced but something seems to happen at night or after dinner where I feel like I finished all the food of the day which makes me want to continue eating if that makes sense? I feel like I’m a fraud first of all to be calling myself bulimic knowing I’m putting on an act and secondly I hate how all the efforts I put it for 2 years have gone to waste as if I’m right back at square 1. If anyone has some advice or similar story to share that could help I’d appreciate it.
Overeating
Eating Disorder Support / by selfdisciplinedLime8972
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April 30th, 2023
...See more Hello, What are some things that have helped you avoid or control overeating/binge eating?
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