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selfconfidentNest4318
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Stressed out and traumatized
Trauma Support / by selfconfidentNest4318
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 January 7th, 2022
...See more The first time it happened, was over a decade ago and it was someone I know. But I was able to make peace with it and finally move on. Now, it happened again, but the details are different and I barely even knew this guy. My best friend has been supportive, even teaching me how to fight. The thing is, the most recent one was a friend of theirs (now my bff hates the guy and wants to hit him in the face). My coping hasn't been that great, and I waited almost eight months before I told someone what happened. Most of my family isn't trustworthy, so I keep them in the dark, especially about the first one. I can't help blaming myself in some way, I let a guy I barely knew stay with me for a while because my bff asked. It was wrong to kiss him back when I had a bf at the time, but I'd told him several times that I had a bf and this guy didn't care. He initiated the kiss, and before I even knew what was happening, it was too late. He didn't ask if I wanted to have sex, he just went and did it. And I would've fought back, but the floor was cement. I feared if I fought back this time, I'd get hurt and then if he ever went after me again, I'd be completely defenseless. I told my bff what happened, and there's been a lot of tension between us ever since. I've tried to get us to talk about how we feel about it, and it just hasn't happened yet.
Struggling
Self-Harm Recovery / by selfconfidentNest4318
Last post
 December 19th, 2021
...See more I'm struggling with sh, especially cutting. It's been an ongoing battle for the past seven years. I've tried therapy, and although it helped a little, it wasn't enough for me to stop for good.
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