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samuelk08
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Obsession with BPD
Personality Disorders Support / by samuelk08
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 September 11th, 2023
...See more I have Borderline Personality Disorder. I really struggle with obsession over people - right now it’s a coworker. I love her to death as a person. Unfortunately, I feel like I’m pushing her away because of how needy I am and how much I feel like a need to talk to her. I have anxiety if she’s not texting me and she hasn’t spoken to me a lot today. I’m scared I did something wrong. Does anyone have advice or resources for this stuff? Thanks.
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Erotic transference with former therapist
Relationship Stress / by samuelk08
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 July 29th, 2023
...See more I have a really bad obsession with my former therapist. I miss him. I feel like I crave him. I have BPD and have done this before, but not with a therapist. When talking to my current therapist about it, she said that he did instill doubt in me about what kind of relationship we had - he was texting me late at night to chat, getting off topic in our sessions, etc. He recently told me that he was told he can’t continue chatting and can only respond to check-ins. It really made me angry. I just feel like if I met him outside therapy we would’ve had a different relationship ya know? I just really miss him.
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