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rod123
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PathStep 77 Compassion hearts61 Forum posts19 Forum upvotes22 Current upvotes22 Age GroupAdult Last activeAugust, 2024 Member sinceJune 21, 2021
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How to deal with toxic family
Family & Caregivers / by rod123
Last post
 January 5th, 2023
...See more Hello there!! Tbh i don't even know if my family is super toxic but I feel like they may show some toxic traits which stresses me out. Like a while ago, i couldn't find the toothpaste since I need to brush my teeth and i asked them. Nobody answered except my sister whose reply didn't help at all. She just said "Find it". The crazy part is that o have unfriended her in *** and found out about it and sent me a friend request. She told me that us not being FB friends make it look like she's not my sibling. I was hesitant at first but i did it anyways. Now o regret doing it because she's always the type to disrespect me. I got insecure of the way I looked because she kept telling me I'm a skeleton when i was thin and mentioned i got fatter during the pandemic. She has always been like this no doubt. But she's nothing compared to my mother. Who called me a loser once or twice when i was just taking a break from doing household chores. I forgot what else my mom was telling but the word loser stuck with me. I want to stand up, and i guess in a way i did retaliate in the most toxic manner towards them when i was a teenager. But right now, i couldn't stand up. They're not the type to listen. I tried searching for answers in the internet but most of them (including the whole establishing boundaries) require communication towards my family. I don't even know how to communicate with them if they're not the type to listen.
Cannot relate to topics being talked about by friends
Anxiety Support / by rod123
Last post
 November 17th, 2022
...See more Anybody here experience this wherein your friends share something but since you can't relate to it you don't know what to say? For example, there will be times when i couldn't relate to what my friend would share to me. He loves planting and everytime he would share stuff about it, i really run out of things to say because I really have no idea what to say because I'm not a plant lover. And it's not just him, but i have other friends who are gamers and would talk about games but i really couldn't relate to that as well which is why I don't talk much in our group chat. I'm not really interested in being a full gamer. Only play when i feel like it (which happens occasionally). I don't know how to cope with this. It makes me wonder if i have talked about certain topics to a friend they couldn't relate to.
Question for 7 cups message
Newbie Hub / by rod123
Last post
 October 22nd, 2021
...See more There's one thing I've noticed when chatting with a listener here in 7 cups. That is when i try to go back to the message, and backread our talks, for some reason it always only show half of the conversation and not all the way to beginning? May I know why that happens?
I don't know if this is social anxiety or anything like that
Anxiety Support / by rod123
Last post
 August 31st, 2021
...See more I don't know if this is social anxiety, but has anyone experienced like when they're in chat conversation with someone? LIke in messenger or something, wherein when you chat with the person you aren't sure if your chat conversation is going well? Like you're worried after the end of the conversation if you did it right chatting with the person?
Any listener available for this type of addiction?
Addiction Support / by rod123
Last post
 August 30th, 2021
...See more I've been wanting to atleast maybe talk with a listener who atleast deals either of the two addiction. It's hard to find in the browse listener.
Can libido be reduced?
Addiction Support / by rod123
Last post
 July 1st, 2021
...See more This is hard for me to open up. But I would say that I'm addicted to porn, erotic movies, or anything sexual that makes me masturbate on it. That's why I want to ask this question. If I do have lower libido, will I be able to not watch any of these and even not masturbate? I hope this isn't too weird or awkward as I really don't know how to open up this topic. I found this support community and I thought maybe I could open up here. Thank you!
Procrastinating college student
Student Support / by rod123
Last post
 June 30th, 2021
...See more I have homework but for some reason I don't feel like doing it. I have a bit of progress on it says prior but right now I just don't "feel" like i have to do it. I don't know why? I did another homework from another subject which I enjoyed doing last night. Yet for the homework have right now I just don't feel like doing it. Anybody here experience that as well?
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