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...See more I identify as pansexual. I've never really had a big issue with gender when l've found myself to be attracted to different people, but I do tend to be more attracted to women. Anyway, what I wanted to say, I've been dating my bf for almost a year now, which is exciting because he's unbelievably sweet and amazing. Before dating him, I was in a short relationship with a girl (my first relationship), and I really liked her, but it didn't work out. I think that my bf really could be someone l imagine settling down and having a great future with, but I've been having this weird feeling lately. I always felt l'd end up with a woman, and it's not that I'd be upset if l ended up with a man, but I'm concerned. I love my boyfriend; he is wonderful, but I keep feeling sad that l'll never date any more women, but I also can't imagine breaking up with my bf. Idk what this means or why I'm feeling this way, but if anyone's had similar experiences, I'd really appreciate some advice! Also, I would just like to put it out there that I'm not unhappy. He's very sweet, and he tries really hard to make me happy. He's not as romantic as I would like, but that's not the biggest deal. We are intimate, and I like kissing and touching and all that, so it's not necessarily a physical problem. I'm just worried that one day I'll wake up and regret not exploring my sexuality more, or that I chose my partner too early in life. But even still, I can't imagine finding a more compatible partner who tries really hard to make me happy and does make me happy, so I’m at a loss. Anyway, I just want someone else's input

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