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redSpruce1863
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35 & Over Community / by redSpruce1863
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November 21st, 2022
...See more My sons is 14 . 5 months ago he had some serious seizures. While in hospital he told a social worker and myself that his father had given him hard drugs. A Horse tranquilizer , (ketamin). Devastating!!!! It took the social worker 3 weeks to report this to the police . My son was willing to do a interview as had a falling out with his father at the time . 5 months later the police have done nothing , they did not arrange the interview and he has now acquainted with his father again so not prepared to do interview now because it was left for so long. During this time I have contacted police 5 times to chase them to deal with it . They did nothing. I cannot not understand the social work or police system that would drag there feet on such a serious issue and as his mother I am left very disturbed by the system as one month ago I observed the social worker encouraging contact with his father and discouraging the police interview. So 2 days later he was at his dad's house again. It is appaling . The seizures were very bad and there has been no accountability , so it will happen again and there's nothing I can do .
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Relationship Stress / by redSpruce1863
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November 13th, 2022
...See more My narc ex has spent the last 4 years playing me and 2 other women . Having relations between the 3 of us with many lies and deceat . He got caught out in September by 2 of us and it came out he gave us both h.p.v . He is now with the one (who is most vulnerable) who knows absolutely nothing of how he's been playing us for years or h.p.v . Do I tell her she's being played or keep her in the dark ?
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