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raspberryLemon5565
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Ever dated your bestfriend's ex?
Relationship Stress / by raspberryLemon5565
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 May 12th, 2021
...See more So, yeah... I happen to be in that situation. My bestfriend and her ex broke up 2years ago, after a 3years of relationship. Ever since, she got into another relationship, broke up, and in another one right now. Throughout the last year, I have been going through a very bad time. Her ex is my school friend too. Thanks to the lockdowns, we started talking a lot. He's been supporting me, pulling me out of my melancholy, been there for me in my worst lowest times. Eventually, I fell for him. And he fell for me. He proposed me, and I didn't know what to say, given the whole story. Took a lot of time to think about it. Spoke to my friend about us, for which, she said she felt nothing, and she saw that coming. Terms were already not good between me and my friend. I know, this ruined the rest of it too. But, I love him. I said yes. He's been very nice to me. It's a long distance, but we managed to talk to and take care of each other. But, the fact that he's my bestfriends ex, and that I ruined my friendship with her, and I chose him over her is disturbing. I love her... but I love him too I lost her... but i have him... I don't wanna define it as, he is my priority, cause she means a lot too... I still think it was a bad choice to say yes to him. But, he is still the best thing that has happened to me. I turned out to be a confusing bitch I guess! I guess, I started hating myself! I feel like, I might end this relationship, but I don't want to lose him too. At the same time, I'm not able to stay whole heartedly in this relationship. He understands my situation, and is always ready to talk me out of it. He doesn't find any fault with us being in this relationship. But, I broke my friends heart, and that is breaking me... Am I a bad person?
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