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pinkCat1692
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PathStep 9 Compassion hearts10 Forum posts15 Forum upvotes13 Current upvotes13 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2021 Member sinceJuly 14, 2021
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Confused
Relationship Stress / by pinkCat1692
Last post
 July 26th, 2021
...See more Oh god! This is the third post about my breakup. Why am I writing it right now? Because my ex has broken the no contact rule. We had agreed to meet at the end of August, but three weeks after the breakup he writes me and says we can meet next week. Of course, I agreed. Now I’m confused, because I don’t know if I did the right thing by answering him. I just want to remind that he had dumped me and said that I was not the one for him and he saw no future for our relationship. And I still want him back. Maybe I shouldn’t have answered him.
I’m tired
Relationship Stress / by pinkCat1692
Last post
 July 24th, 2021
...See more I made a post a few days ago about my breakup where I said that I didn’t know how to feel about my ex and our breakup. I am so tired of thinking about him. It would be better if we broke up immediately (even though I still want him back), rather than making an agreement to meet in a month. I am tired of thinking that what if he changes his mind and won’t want to see me in a month. I am tired of the pain inside of my chest. I am tired of heart palpitations. I am tired of suppressing the urge to break the no contact rule and write him just anything. I cannot concentrate on anything. Oh lord, I love reading so much, but I cannot concentrate on it. I read two sentences and then I get lost in my own thoughts and I have to re-read the same sentences for five times to get the idea. I cannot work properly, cannot study. I started to smoke again, but it doesn’t help for long. Some people say that I have to accept these feelings as it will help to heal faster. Others say I need to control my emotions and not let the grief get over me. What do I have to do….. I just need some support
Don’t know what is going on with me
Relationship Stress / by pinkCat1692
Last post
 July 18th, 2021
...See more I can’t stop thinking about him, our relationship. We dated for 3 years. From the day we started dating to the day we broke up I was thinking that he was not the right person for me, because he was not living up to my expectations. But I was not ready to dump him. Instead, I was doing everything for him to dump me. And when he did it I was deeply hurt. Now I just want him back so badly. And when I asked him to give me some time to reflect on things, my behavior, asked him to give me another chance to work things out, he responded that there would be no future for our relationship. He said I was not the one for him. He told me the things I was thinking about him all the time. I guess it was my ego that was hurt. We both messed up a lot, but I want to try to build a good relationship with him. We agreed to meet in a month and I will definitely ask him to come back. But I don’t know if I should keep hope that he will cool down, change his mind and accept me back. I don’t know what is going on inside my head. Can’t even express my thoughts clearly.
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