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notyethuman
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Very much alone and heading for a divorce
35 & Over Community / by notyethuman
Last post
 January 24th, 2023
...See more We have been having fights for 7-8 years in our marriage. She has a very strict sense of what is right and wrong almost in a binary way. The recent issue which occured 2 weeks ago was because she found out that I have been sharing my marriage problems with an ex colleague who is a lady. I honestly didn't think that was wrong but she took it really serious. She was ready to walk out of the marriage and during one of the weekend she told our son to either follow him of me. We were both lost because she just suddenly walked out This week we are back at her hometown for Chinese new year. She allowed me to go quite last minute. So much so that I was still doing my wash and packing at night to make sure I have enough clothes for me and my son She came out at night and told me she may let me go this time but she will let her family know there is nothing between us. She will also file for divorce when we are back. She also pointed out the differences between us like how I like to go to my parents and her parents when I needed help...while she doesn't like to share her problems with others. I did try to talk her out but she is like in her binary mindset... determined. I am going through therapy... And I am seeing two therapist Would always like some kind support...
Marriage broke down
35 & Over Community / by notyethuman
Last post
 February 1st, 2023
...See more Hi 2023 has just been terrible for me and my marriage is really over. I really don't know what to do. She can't rlwait to get me out of the house but in doing so, makes things very difficult for our son who is still going to school... :(
Serious: needing a friend
General Support / by notyethuman
Last post
 January 9th, 2023
...See more I don't have many friends... I need someone to talk to...🥺 I dunno who else or where else to turn to now
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