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n0tl1b3rty
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Relationship Stress / by n0tl1b3rty
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...See more I am feeling very lost. I had been with the girl who I see as my soulmate for a bit longer than a year. We planned and did everything together. She was and is the one for me. However, throughout our whole relationship she has been begging me to change my behaviors. She feels unheard, unloved, like i'm not here with her entirely. She doesn't think I have the ability to change or that I care enough about her. She eventually said she was done, she broke it off and said i'm not going to change so I should go find someone else to hurt. I've been actively trying to get better, but it never shows and i'm unsure of what to do. I've been seeking out advice on this app, reading how other people are feeling and responding to prompts. I've been diving deeper into reflection on my own and taking notes upon it. She told me to leave her alone, and I'm scared she means for good. I feel like I have truly ruined it this time, but I don't want to let go. I want to respect her space, but show her I don't want to move on and let her go. I think I am going to continue using this app and reflecting on my own and hope that she notices my changes, even without talking. But, I'm scared and I don't want anyone else, I just want her. Any advice?
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