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monkeywrench091
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Still working to save my marriage
7 Cups Online Therapy / by monkeywrench091
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 January 3rd
...See more We Have been separated for about 3 weeks almost a month and it’s been the worst month of my life so far. I have been able to control my anger but I have been so depressed I have lost 25lbs from it. I am at the point where I don’t know how she is feeling anymore. I have stopped yelling and getting angry over everything. I have been spending time with the kids. And not being lazy anymore. She keeps saying time will prove it but for me time isn’t an ally of me. I feel she will find someone new and leave me for good. We have been together for 15 years and I she’s put her through *** with my lies and porn addiction. I need to keep going and save this.
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Separation and missing the normal things
General Support / by monkeywrench091
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 December 16th, 2024
...See more Lately since me and my wife are on the rocks, I need to change before she will commit to our marriage again. I had severe anger issues and for the last 3 days and the rest of my life I am on a better path mentally. But since we have been living in the same house and not really together it’s been really hard to deal with. I see her all the time and I just want to hold her, kiss her, all the normal things we used to do. She needs time and hopefully she comes back to me but right now I am struggling extremely hard with this. I am a person that needs physical love such as holding hands and hugging and all. Every time I am around her I attempt to make a “move” but I either get no reaction or I chicken out or regret it because I don’t want to see pushy. I guess I am being selfish. I just miss her and all the things we did together.
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My anger is ruining my marriage
7 Cups Online Therapy / by monkeywrench091
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 December 14th, 2024
...See more Not sure if this is the place. I have been dealing with anger, anxiety and depression for as long as I can remember. Lately and for the last 5 years it’s been bad. I lash out against others and it’s coming to the point my wife wants a divorce. Tried to do therapy before but I fall right back in the same hole. I need to figure out a way to change or I will never get my wife back. We have 2 girls and I constantly yell at them over the littlest things. I need some way of dealing with this so I don’t lose my family
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