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loveOcean
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PathStep 6 Compassion hearts2,246 Forum posts26 Forum upvotes39 Current upvotes39 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2021 Member sinceOctober 2, 2020
Bio
Please call me Ocean. I'm looking for longterm support mainly for work related issue and relationship. I'd rather not sharing personal info such as my location and my real name ❤ thank you
Recent forum posts
Drained...
Relationship Stress / by loveOcean
Last post
 May 28th, 2021
...See more When you love someone who put the blames on you in every argument, made you doubt yourself more and more, trained you to say "I'm sorry".... Drained...
Looking 35+ Working People Listeners
General Support / by loveOcean
Last post
 March 1st, 2021
...See more My main issues are Work Stress and Self-discovery. Looking for compassionate listeners who are willing to make efforts to eliminate bias and to be non judgemental in 35+ age group who are professionals in real life and familiar with many work stress issues ○○○ A good self-esteem would be great as I don't have any intention to make others feel inferior in anyway. ○○○ I need someone to brainstorm things with and help me calm my anxiety whenever it's kicks in full force due to work problems. ○○○ I'm fully aware that people are busy with life as I do, thus slow pace chats are much appreciated. ○○○ Apologize for long paragraph post as the app is not come out in paragraph ○○○ I hope listeners that fit will respond to this and thank you for reading the post.
A Hello and How Are You from Ocean
35 & Over Community / by loveOcean
Last post
 February 1st, 2021
...See more Hi everyone! 😊 Please call me Ocean. I've been joining this Sub Com for sometimes now but haven't said my proper "hello" to the sub com ❤ I'm here mainly looking for support for work related things, sometimes relationship issue and loneliness (yes, that void inside that sometimes scratching and suffocating us regardless we're alone or not) So how are you?
Tips on Finding Your Listener
35 & Over Community / by loveOcean
Last post
 January 23rd, 2021
...See more Many members know it can be frustrating to find a listener with listening style that fits us. So maybe this can help. 1. Browse listener with filter that match your need (this can be unnerving since we have to PM and never know for sure if they will be welcoming or not) 2. Check out their starting date. The new one tend to take more than 1 chat at a time as they probably still pretty much excited with the role. 3. Read the reviews, this isn't necessarily helpful but sometimes there are people who put what traits they're like about the person. Calm or cheerful, etc.. see if it match your need. 4. Check out their badges. In my humble opinion, this is more reliable than the reviews. Those who had done 12 sets of Peer Trainings are more likely have better understanding of what they're expected to do. there are many listener badges, and those can tell us a bit of what can be expected from the person. 5. Know what we are looking for. Someone to brainstorm some options with? Someone to listen and validate our feelings? Someone to challenge our thinking shall we fall into fault thimking pattern? etc. If the initial conversation doesn't fit, do ourselves a favor and don't push it. They're trying but just not what we're looking for. 6. Post in a forum that relevant to our issue. Looking for a listener who ..... (This may take sometimes for someone fits with what you're looking for to reach out to you) Anyone wanna add more to the list?
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