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littlelonely236
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts29 Forum posts19 Forum upvotes19 Current upvotes19 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2024 Member sinceSeptember 18, 2022
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No Desire to Work
Work & Career / by littlelonely236
Last post
 July 25th
...See more I'm no longer passionate about work and I am dragging my feet to work everyday. I used to be a positive, highly willing, and highly skilled staff. I'm still highly skilled but I've now gone into the not willing matrix. I just dont feel like doing extra or even doing my best anymore. Everyday i to to work pretending i am passionate about what I do but deep down inside i feel so lost and empty. I'm so scared i will bring the same feeling and attitude to a new work place. 😩 i dont know what to do to self heal and move on. Appreciate those with experience to share your experience and how you overcame this. Thanks.
The Devil Boss
Work & Career / by littlelonely236
Last post
 December 5th, 2023
...See more I'm starting this thread to share my feelings about my big boss, the devil. I am bursting with stories to tell in hopes that getting it off my chest will help me feel better. At my workplace, I am constantly being warned not to talk to anyone especially about the devil's dirty laundry. I also just can't bring myself to rant to my friends about the devil constantly because another close friend is having problems with work as well. I am not looking for a response, but appreciate all responses, and curious questions about the devil and the situation i am in. I will try my best to reply. Today, 2 Dec 2023, i feel absolutely down, lonely and i know i am in a sad, anxious and depressed state. I have cried a lot yesterday (alone in the car) and i feel like crying today too. In front of others, i look like a strong, carefree person. But i dont feel happy at all. I feel weak and feel like hiding. I dont think i can take this anymore but i am waiting for just a few weeks to pass for me to get my year end bonus before i plan my next step.
Should I let go first?
Relationship Stress / by littlelonely236
Last post
 September 26th, 2022
...See more My good friend confessed that he is very in love with me last month. I don't love him back. There is no chance for us to be together at all due to some circumstances. Even without those circumstances, I do not share the same feeling as him. I care for him as a friend. I don't want to add in more pain to the pain he is feeling now. He told me that he is very very afraid to lose me as a friend. I told him that we need to gradually communicate less so that he can have time to process the grief, and reduce his feeling of needing me. He begged me not to do it. He wanted us to stay as we are. To be honest, it hurts me to see him going through this pain and worry of losing me. Should I do the "communicate less with him" plan or should I just "let him go and cease all communication" with him for a few months until he has gotten over his infatuation of me? To be honest, to do the latter is difficult for me too as I do enjoy his friendship. But I am not sure if I am even helping when I continue communicating with him (albeit being less). Appreciate your thoughts. Thank you.
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