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lavenderdusk32
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Confused
Relationship Stress / by lavenderdusk32
Last post
 September 23rd, 2022
...See more I've been with my husband for 12 years. Last year he told me he was polyamourous. I've tried to be open about it, but I don't think I can do it. It hurts too much and I don't think it's who I am. I've gotten to the point where I think I need to leave, to be able to find out what I need, what I want in life. I think I want to go out on my own. He keeps saying he loves me so much, he'll be monogamous for me. He gets mad when I get upset about it. He told me tonight he's going to go see his "friend", so I was going to stay out. He says he doesn't think I love him. I don't want to keep holding him back. I don't want to keep hurting. Some people said it sounds like he's taking advantage and that he's gaslighting me. I'm so confused, I don't know what I want anymore. I hope that made sense..
Trying too hard
Friendship Support / by lavenderdusk32
Last post
 September 7th, 2022
...See more I sometimes find when I'm trying to make friends, I try too hard. I push too much, message too much, expect too much and it drives people away. But I don't know how to stop. It's like a compulsions. Sometimes when they don't message back or they don't reciprocate how I want then to, I start spiralling on how terrible I am. How do I stop?
Rejection
35 & Over Community / by lavenderdusk32
Last post
 September 4th, 2022
...See more Why do I always feel like I'm being rejected?
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